Okay, so I really love him, and I'm trying not to think about it but the distance is killing me. He hates it too.. We are young and no he isn't military, my heart goes out to the women that deal with that. The military long distance must be the worst kind. but I need advice, he knows how I feel, and He says he wishes he could be here with me and that he thinks about me all the time. We've been together for almost three months. so I thought I was doing pretty good. But then it hit me when I was watching tv and the people on the screen kissed, and i just started crying. I love him so much, and this distance is really hard. And I won't be able to see him for six more months. How can I make this work better?Long Distance Relationship Advice?
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWW, Im sooooo sorry to hear that. I can agreet with you 1,00,000%. currently I am in the same situation and its killing me. Same as he knows how I feel and he feels the same and , he lives in VA, works and goes to school their and I work and go to school in MD about 1 hr away from eachother but we hardly see eachother because we are always so busy. Thing is we have an understanding and we know were we stand with eachother. We havent gotten to the l word yet but we care deeply for eachother and we want to be with eachother all the time. This is a mind blower, I am about to enlist in the army and I know this is definately gonna put a serious strain on our relationship but I have faith in my man and I know he will stand by my side, and vice versa. I know that we are gonna be apart but for some odd reason, I am willing to take the chance. I was previously in a relationship and distance was a factor and it tore me up inside. I try not to be stressed about it alot because I know how fe both feel, what I say is come to a understanding and find out exactly were you guys stand, wanting him isnt wrong or bad, and wanting to be with him isnt a sin but I say find out were you guys stand and know wat u both want so that its not so hard and painful. Wanting ur man and missing him is the hardest things to deal with but I believe that if you know were u guys stand and have a firm foundation and understanding it will be a little better and not so hard. Stay strong hunny....you will get your man...and i will u the best wen you guys get to be together.Long Distance Relationship Advice?
that`s why long distance is bad...
try calling him maybe?
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Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Long Distance Relationship Advice?
Alright I have known this girl a while well, now having to be in a long distance relationship. Going to see her as soon as possible but could be a while. We are both very willing to make this work and I just wanted what some of you did to keep things going.
Right now me and her talk as often as possible, between her kids and work she does not have a ton of time but she always finds time to talk to me. She will sign onto yahoo for 5 minutes even if its to say hi and she loves me before she leaves. We will talk on phone when shes on her way to work and etc..
We also both got world of warcraft as we are gamers we thought it would be a good way to chat, and do something together whenever possible.
It's just hard not being able to be with her, but I am more than willing to make it work. We both trust each other and we make sure to keep things honest.
I just want to know what some of you did to keep things going until able to be together againLong Distance Relationship Advice?
If she plays world of warcraft with you, shes the one. hah, but really, if you like her a lot and she shares the same feelings, and she makes you happy, make it work. I have been dating my girl for about 1 year and a half, and she moved away 45 minutes away, but we try to make time to tal kto each other and see each other.
Right now me and her talk as often as possible, between her kids and work she does not have a ton of time but she always finds time to talk to me. She will sign onto yahoo for 5 minutes even if its to say hi and she loves me before she leaves. We will talk on phone when shes on her way to work and etc..
We also both got world of warcraft as we are gamers we thought it would be a good way to chat, and do something together whenever possible.
It's just hard not being able to be with her, but I am more than willing to make it work. We both trust each other and we make sure to keep things honest.
I just want to know what some of you did to keep things going until able to be together againLong Distance Relationship Advice?
If she plays world of warcraft with you, shes the one. hah, but really, if you like her a lot and she shares the same feelings, and she makes you happy, make it work. I have been dating my girl for about 1 year and a half, and she moved away 45 minutes away, but we try to make time to tal kto each other and see each other.
Long distance relationship advice?
Well, I know my story isn't uncommon, but here it is: I'm in my senior year of high school. My boyfriend of 5 months will be going to college in state and I'm going to a college on the opposite end of the country. By the time I'll actually have to leave we'll have been dating for 9 months. We've discussed having a long distance relationship and we're both committed to making it work. I've had successful long-distance friendships from when I moved to the west coast from the east coast, so I understand the importance of trust and honesty and communication, but I know that a relationship will be different from a friendship. I would just like to know what your ldr was like and whether it worked or not--if it worked, what did you do? How did you keep the spark alive? If it didn't, why not?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much! =)Long distance relationship advice?
College and university is a time of major change for those who only recently were pondering what life would be like outside of their high school walls. Expectations run high, and many previous familiarities will be left behind for new experiences. This may or may not include high school sweethearts. For those who decide to stay together even though they must say goodbye and begin long distance relationships (LDRs), the time ahead will put their relationship to the test. But there many other reasons why LDRs have become more common during the time spent at college or university - some have met their partner from out of town online, at a party, concert, or through involvement in certain activities. In fact [according to a 2002 study by a large US southeastern university of approximately 450 university students(1)], between 25-35% of college relationships were long distance. It can be a very rewarding bond if you鈥檝e found that special person worth making the effort for. After all, just because the meeting occurred when the geography was not ideal does not mean the people involved are not going to be ideal together. For those who choose to accept and overcome the challenges of being in an LDR, some realities must be faced. Examples include lack of support from friends and family who doubt the relationship's chances, an inability to have the desired physical connection, time differences where partners are on different sides of the world etc. Approximately 1 in 5 long distance relationships will last until the end of university, but these figures are not very different to those for proximal relationships .Long distance relationship advice?
I know how you feel. ldr's are difficult...more so than just friendships cause you miss the physical intimacy that comes with a regular relationship. I know its tempting to try and make it work but honestly without full commitment it wont. your both still young and will be meeting so many new people at college that it will be hard to maintain the relationship and not look at others to give you the closeness that your lacking in your own relationship. My advice it to break it off but remain friends, it would be a mutual breakup and you could still keep the closeness of the friendship. And who knows maybe in the future you'll meet again as friends and hit it off again.
Good luck
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much! =)Long distance relationship advice?
College and university is a time of major change for those who only recently were pondering what life would be like outside of their high school walls. Expectations run high, and many previous familiarities will be left behind for new experiences. This may or may not include high school sweethearts. For those who decide to stay together even though they must say goodbye and begin long distance relationships (LDRs), the time ahead will put their relationship to the test. But there many other reasons why LDRs have become more common during the time spent at college or university - some have met their partner from out of town online, at a party, concert, or through involvement in certain activities. In fact [according to a 2002 study by a large US southeastern university of approximately 450 university students(1)], between 25-35% of college relationships were long distance. It can be a very rewarding bond if you鈥檝e found that special person worth making the effort for. After all, just because the meeting occurred when the geography was not ideal does not mean the people involved are not going to be ideal together. For those who choose to accept and overcome the challenges of being in an LDR, some realities must be faced. Examples include lack of support from friends and family who doubt the relationship's chances, an inability to have the desired physical connection, time differences where partners are on different sides of the world etc. Approximately 1 in 5 long distance relationships will last until the end of university, but these figures are not very different to those for proximal relationships .Long distance relationship advice?
I know how you feel. ldr's are difficult...more so than just friendships cause you miss the physical intimacy that comes with a regular relationship. I know its tempting to try and make it work but honestly without full commitment it wont. your both still young and will be meeting so many new people at college that it will be hard to maintain the relationship and not look at others to give you the closeness that your lacking in your own relationship. My advice it to break it off but remain friends, it would be a mutual breakup and you could still keep the closeness of the friendship. And who knows maybe in the future you'll meet again as friends and hit it off again.
Good luck
Long Distance Relationship advice?
K i know theres alot of there wanting to know on long distance relationships. Do you aprove or no? Well i do. I just met this girl and shes AWESOME!! i kinda need advice on hinting her that i like her but dont wanna sound like a desprate guy.. Help me please?!?!Long Distance Relationship advice?
If she's as awesome as you think she is, tell her...you won't sound desperate just telling someone you're into them.
About the long distance relationships...they are hard to maintain but they can work. I have had a couple of them and the important thing was to keep in touch as much as possible. And be honest, all the time...that way she can know that you are trustworthy and will not hurt her on purpose.
So, what are you reading this for? Tell this awesome girl that you could see the two of you together, and let her take it from there. If she likes you in that way, YAY YOU! And if she doesn't,
:( at least you will know where you stand.
Good luck. %26amp; remember, there are so many awesome girls out there...if this one isn't for you, another one will be!Long Distance Relationship advice?
its good if the person is worth waiting for...but its not a very satisfying relationship when u cant talk face to face and meet each other often..and its so disturbing if u find out the other person has fallen outta love while u were not around..
dont get into it...unless u can really handle being away (made me depressed for a while
i got one and everything is undercontrol..lol..just gotta have pretty good comunication..n lots of trust on both side..
If she's as awesome as you think she is, tell her...you won't sound desperate just telling someone you're into them.
About the long distance relationships...they are hard to maintain but they can work. I have had a couple of them and the important thing was to keep in touch as much as possible. And be honest, all the time...that way she can know that you are trustworthy and will not hurt her on purpose.
So, what are you reading this for? Tell this awesome girl that you could see the two of you together, and let her take it from there. If she likes you in that way, YAY YOU! And if she doesn't,
:( at least you will know where you stand.
Good luck. %26amp; remember, there are so many awesome girls out there...if this one isn't for you, another one will be!Long Distance Relationship advice?
its good if the person is worth waiting for...but its not a very satisfying relationship when u cant talk face to face and meet each other often..and its so disturbing if u find out the other person has fallen outta love while u were not around..
dont get into it...unless u can really handle being away (made me depressed for a while
i got one and everything is undercontrol..lol..just gotta have pretty good comunication..n lots of trust on both side..
Any advice? My relationship is about to become long distance.?
Met a guy in May, we really hit it off - same sense of humor, attraction, get along great, etc. He now lives 20 minutes away. The thing is he's divorced and is taking his kids and going back to LA where he grew up and lived up until about 2000. I can fly out to see him, but have limited vacation time for this year. Since he has 3 small kids, he probably can't. He's bummed too cause he's saying he doesn't really want to go now, but he has no family out here.
He is keeping his house here cause his ex lives in the area and he'll bring his kids back and stay the whole summer and the kids 'll be with the ex the whole time (we hope). I'm not against moving to LA, but if he's going to spend 9 months in LA and 3 months back East every year, I need to work on a job that will let me do the same. My current job pays well but there's nowhere on the West Coast for me to work. (He does make a good living, so it may not be crucial right away).
Anyone been in the same position or any ideas?Any advice? My relationship is about to become long distance.?
I have some idea's . If moving in with him is an option you may go for it , it is nice out there. Also you may well find a suitable job there , they have most of the same as other states . You may try visiting on a vacation to get a better idea of what it is like there and get more of a feel of rather the relationship would work between you or not. If he has not asked or offered though I'd be kind of leery of the situation though and remain where you are. It's may be just as difficult for you to leave family and friends as he finds it difficult. If it were me bottom line though , I would stay put , eventually you'll find another you like as well or better.buy make up eye make up
He is keeping his house here cause his ex lives in the area and he'll bring his kids back and stay the whole summer and the kids 'll be with the ex the whole time (we hope). I'm not against moving to LA, but if he's going to spend 9 months in LA and 3 months back East every year, I need to work on a job that will let me do the same. My current job pays well but there's nowhere on the West Coast for me to work. (He does make a good living, so it may not be crucial right away).
Anyone been in the same position or any ideas?Any advice? My relationship is about to become long distance.?
I have some idea's . If moving in with him is an option you may go for it , it is nice out there. Also you may well find a suitable job there , they have most of the same as other states . You may try visiting on a vacation to get a better idea of what it is like there and get more of a feel of rather the relationship would work between you or not. If he has not asked or offered though I'd be kind of leery of the situation though and remain where you are. It's may be just as difficult for you to leave family and friends as he finds it difficult. If it were me bottom line though , I would stay put , eventually you'll find another you like as well or better.
Relationship advice when it comes to long distance.?
I recently just started seeing a girl within the last 2 weeks. She lives in my hometown and is 3 years older than me. Im 20 by the way. We've been intimate with eachother and I really want to continue things with her. The only problem is starting today I'll be living 6 1/2 hours away from her cause I'm at school now. I just transfered to this school from a Jr. College. She has her bachelors degree and is taking classes online to earn her masters. She also currently holds a great job and is very driven and mature. This is someone I need in my life. We talked a little bit about things and decided to just see how things go and if our relationship contiues then it does, if it doesn't it doesn't. I want it to continue so bad. All I keep thinking about is if it continues to progress I should look into transfering to a school closer to home. The school I would transfer too is where most of my friends go and is only a half hour away from her and my hometown. She told me she doesn't want to rush things she just wants to take things slow and I'm fine with that. I just wish I was closer to her and I don't want things to not work because I'm a long distance away. What should I do. She isn't like most girls. I really want this to work.Relationship advice when it comes to long distance.?
send her packages with stuff she likes without her knowing it.
text her at random times and tell her you miss her.
long distance relationships are alot easier than you think.
just talk to her and let nature takes its course!
send her packages with stuff she likes without her knowing it.
text her at random times and tell her you miss her.
long distance relationships are alot easier than you think.
just talk to her and let nature takes its course!
Long distance relationship- want to move back in together, but don't want to go where the other is.. advice?
Okay.. My boyfriend and I briefly broke up in January, and I moved home to my parents, 600 miles away, in Pennsylvania. We got back together, and we've been maintaining a long-distance relationship since. We want to move back in together- question is, where.
We lived in Maine together. The economy blows- we both worked the best jobs we could find, and barely made ends meet, sometimes living without food, heat or electricity. I was constantly terrified that something would go wrong, or we'd get evicted, or sick.. He had deep roots, there, though, and really dosen't want to leave. At all. His land has been in the family for four generations, and he wants to live his life there.
There is a better economy here, and chances to live a good life, but I'm not particularly attached to it, (outside of it being where my family is) and I know he'd hate it here.
So I could use some advice.. what do we do? Do I convince him to move here, where he wouldn't be happy, but we could build a life and thrive, or do I go back to Maine and risk living the way we were before? There dosen't seem to be much of a compromise. Any advice would help- thanks!Long distance relationship- want to move back in together, but don't want to go where the other is.. advice?
I know you are not going to like this answer but I'm going to be honest with you. If neither one of you will compromise you just shouldn't' do it. You would have nothing but problems later on and end up resenting each other if you push one another. By no means do I think you should try and change him. Just as well as he shouldn't try and change you. He has sentimental value where he is at and that is nothing that can be replaced in his eyes. I do want you to understand that the saying ';love concords all'; should be thought of when making this decision though. If you want to be with him you should go. Money, no money, job, no job. I'll tell you this from experience. My boyfriend, now husband, got out of the military a month after I did. He went from the UK back to his home town. I unlike him had a great job already. Yet I gave it up and moved 800 miles away with him to a town that has absolutely nothing going for it. When I moved niter one of us had a job. We struggled at first but were able to eventually get our feet in the ground. Everyone thought I was crazy including myself when I told them what I was doing. The way I looked at it was... I could be absolutely miserable without him making tons of money or I can be happy making barely enough to live but with him. Looking back it was the best mistake I ever made. ;) Now we live in one of the best houses in this little town on nothingness and I won't move out of it till they come and take my carcase away. What can I say, the little girl from Jersey ended up loving the little town life ;)
Maybe the best bet for you is to continue the long distance relationship and eventually something will give... location or the relationship. Best of luck!!!
We lived in Maine together. The economy blows- we both worked the best jobs we could find, and barely made ends meet, sometimes living without food, heat or electricity. I was constantly terrified that something would go wrong, or we'd get evicted, or sick.. He had deep roots, there, though, and really dosen't want to leave. At all. His land has been in the family for four generations, and he wants to live his life there.
There is a better economy here, and chances to live a good life, but I'm not particularly attached to it, (outside of it being where my family is) and I know he'd hate it here.
So I could use some advice.. what do we do? Do I convince him to move here, where he wouldn't be happy, but we could build a life and thrive, or do I go back to Maine and risk living the way we were before? There dosen't seem to be much of a compromise. Any advice would help- thanks!Long distance relationship- want to move back in together, but don't want to go where the other is.. advice?
I know you are not going to like this answer but I'm going to be honest with you. If neither one of you will compromise you just shouldn't' do it. You would have nothing but problems later on and end up resenting each other if you push one another. By no means do I think you should try and change him. Just as well as he shouldn't try and change you. He has sentimental value where he is at and that is nothing that can be replaced in his eyes. I do want you to understand that the saying ';love concords all'; should be thought of when making this decision though. If you want to be with him you should go. Money, no money, job, no job. I'll tell you this from experience. My boyfriend, now husband, got out of the military a month after I did. He went from the UK back to his home town. I unlike him had a great job already. Yet I gave it up and moved 800 miles away with him to a town that has absolutely nothing going for it. When I moved niter one of us had a job. We struggled at first but were able to eventually get our feet in the ground. Everyone thought I was crazy including myself when I told them what I was doing. The way I looked at it was... I could be absolutely miserable without him making tons of money or I can be happy making barely enough to live but with him. Looking back it was the best mistake I ever made. ;) Now we live in one of the best houses in this little town on nothingness and I won't move out of it till they come and take my carcase away. What can I say, the little girl from Jersey ended up loving the little town life ;)
Maybe the best bet for you is to continue the long distance relationship and eventually something will give... location or the relationship. Best of luck!!!
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