My current boyfriend and I met online about 3 months ago and have just celebrated our two month anniversary. I'm 16(turning 17 this summer) and he is 22(just turned 22 the 25th). He lives in Colorado and I live in Florida. We talk daily, sometimes multiple times a day, on the phone and online. We both have webcams, so we know we're talking to the right person. We have both made plans on visiting each other but that won't come until next year. I find myself missing him terribly to the point of crying.I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to cope with the distance and basically the separation? Thankyou =]Any advice on how to deal with a long distance relationship?
This is copied from a similiar question and please, ignore the person that said it's wierd.
(((Let me just say that I am still in one and it is hard, especially since there are long point where she cannot get on. I would like to warn you to make sure you can trust the person, like the way I can. I have a good friend who's known her in real life for 5-6 years, so with that factor in place it is perfectly safe. It honestly is up to the people, regardless of the obvious downs an online relationship may pose, it's no different than meeting through phone, letters, etc, etc. It's up to the people involved and whether they do honestly love each other, if you don't love each other enough to stick with the online relationship, then you don't love them enough period, real life included. Yes, it can be hard. Yes, it's usually only text and/or cams, but feelings can still be expressed through machines no matter what non-believers say.
The only solid argument is that it's dangerour, which it is, trust me when I say you'll regret giving your heart out to someone you don't know well enough. This, however, can apply to real life and is thus not the greatest rebuttal against online dating. However, it is a fair and strong warning. If possible, get the person to post a picture of themself with something in the picture to prove they are who they say they are, or better, use webcams to see and talk in real time.
Just know this, that with all long distance relationships, whether through letters, E-Mail or message boards, there is most likely going to be moments where you're apart and alone. Not a day goes by that I don't think of my girl, and from the times my friend got to talk with her she was always melting just about talking about me. You're lucky if you hit the jackpot AND have some way of getting together, I just wish mine wasn't in France but here in the states. Take care and don't give out your heart all tied up in a bow at first sight, take it easy and steady, make sure you know just WHO you're talking to and most importantly, if it IS a good one, don't let go and try your hardest to get hooked up in real life...
The best of luck to you.)))
There is nothing wrong with internet relationships, only the ones where someone is not showing their face and whatnot.
Take care.
Edit: And as the others have said, the fact you're a minor and he's an adult is cause for some concern, take their word on it for your own sake and take your time in the relationship.Any advice on how to deal with a long distance relationship?
Well, that's your destiny. And communication through computers is the only way. Maybe, you'll just stick to same routine everyday. If you really like this guy, just be patient. Wait for the right time, maybe God has done special plans for you two. Goodluck! ^^,
I'm glad that I'm not the only one who dated via-online/phone.
There is a small chance of it working out 'til the end, but the greater probability is that it won't. It's difficult, and I was in situations where either the guy or MYSELF found other significant people in our schools, therefore ending it. Friends with benefits (FWB) doesn't make a difference either.
Also, think of it this way: Wouldn't you rather want to hold hands with a real guy, instead of a computer mouse? I hope that doesn't sound too harsh, but that's my reality.
And another thing: you're 16 and he's 22. Where I'm from, it's illegal. YES. Illegal. I don't know if it's the same in Colorado/Florida, because I don't know their exact age laws..but... be a little cautious, dear...
But there IS a small chance of hope. And I'm impressed. You even got his phone number (which I didn't succeed in)!
Good luck!!
I frown on the age difference but....
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Your 16 years old and need to be dating people in your own age group and from your own community so that you learn what you want and need in a serious adult relationship. You can't do this online and it's especially dangerous to do this with someone who admits to being 22 but may be a much older and may not have your real interests at heart. I know this isn't what you want to hear and I understand you can't see this 'relationship' ending but for your own safety please be very careful.
First things first, I hate to say it and please don't take offense but he is a bit too old for you. I know you have heard it before, but keep in mind that *grown* men want *grown* things.
Next, there can be no separation if you have never met. Meeting someone online is cool ( that is how I met my man and we have been together for a year now) but exercises plenty of caution in making sure that he is not a player, fake or phony before you shed anymore tears. If you can get at least 50 bucks on a pre-paid Visa, DO A BACKGROUND CHECK!!
Last but not least, the best way to deal with a LDR is what you are doing now!! Phones and online chatting!! It also helps to send Hallmark cards. Also send him pictures of you. I find that handwritten love letter sprayed with perfume are the best. I wish you all luck!!
PS When you meet him, have him come to see YOU!! And make sure that you tell a friend where you are going and with whom (assuming you can't tell your mom or dad!)
How can you cry over someone you've never met...? Weird...
What?! He's 22?! Why can't he get a girl his own age? I'd never date anyone that young at his age. As mature as you might think you are at almost 17, you'd be amazed at how different you will be and think at 22. You should lose him. He's a creep for not dating someone closer to his age. He just wants a young ';honey';. Don't lose any sleep over him.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
I miss him so much that I cry every night, any advice on how to make our long distance relationship easier?
I'm in Idaho and my boyfriend lives in Montana. We fell in love instantly when we met. We met through a mutual friend of ours. We have so much in common and just fell madly in love. I've never felt this way about anyway. I am only 16, but I know several people who met their spouse at this age and have been together 30+ years.
I've been missing him so much lately that I cry every night. I don't know how to make this stop. We rarely see each other so that makes it even worse. I just miss him so much. Does anyone have any advice for him and I on how to make this easier on both of us? And any advice on how to help me stop crying? Please and Thank You in advance!I miss him so much that I cry every night, any advice on how to make our long distance relationship easier?
if both have computers then first thing i do is email with my wife daily on yahoo instant messenger, shes in china and soon will be in the usa but in the mean time we at least have this as well as i have a skype cam which cost $130 which enables me to call her as often as i want for just 2 pennys a minute, if she had the same it would be free. skype.com you can also get a regualar cam for as little as $25. i also visited china twice and each time for a month.if its meant to be then get creative on both sides, it can work and it did for me.granted you are very young yet this does not mean it can not work, go with your mind and heart and forget about the negatives of some that had bad experiances.I miss him so much that I cry every night, any advice on how to make our long distance relationship easier?
Poppy doesn't know what she's talking about. I know most guys would go out and check out other girls but when I was in a Long Distance I never even LOOKED at another girl, and my girlfriend felt the same pain you felt, as did I.
Honestly unless you get to see each other LDR's hurt, and usually never work in the end. It's just too hard sometimes to do that. Be prepared for heartache, and I'm sorry.;
Listen carefully dear. Long distance does not work. While you're crying every night missing him he's out with the guys and believe me he does notice other girls. That's the way guys are. It's the way you should be too. Sorry this doesn't feel better but I've been there as have friends and we all agree. It doesn't work.
why not organise a surprise trip to see him?
lots of love letters and cards, little gifts to send him...
the crying will subside hunny, being in a long distance relationship is tough - it's up to both of you if each other is worth the sacrifice in the mean time :)
I don't really know what to tell you, I'm kind of going through the same thing....... for me it helps just to talk to him every night or through texts............
Hope this helped.......
well you should try to find something else to get your mind on,16 is so very young,you may be surprised to find you are just as crazy about someone else in a few months
don't know if this will help you..but i felt just the same
You're young. Go have a couple one nighters and you'll feel better.
aww...itll be ok
Well...you seem committed and i hope he is to the key is TRUST! and you two can try to visit in the summer,also me was unfortunate i did like some one like how you did and i was 15 and i had sense that my interest will change buy the time I'm in high school...and it did! not trying to say you wont be together...just saying you two have to talk about your feelings...you have to know if you two are on the same page! if you two are that's all you need is COMMITMENT! and if he is a man who isnt scared then he's the one!
talk to each other everyday as much as possible through the phone or online..it would be better if you can see each other on a webcam..consider yourself lucky coz you can still see each other..im on a LDR also but my bf is in another country..and i dont even know when ill see him again..there are just times that you'll feel really down adn cry a lot like there's no tomorrow..but it will pass..as the days pass, you'll get used to it..well not really but it will lessen..trust me..i was like that at first and i never thought i wont stop crying..but i did..be strong for him..for your relationship..you can do it!good luck!buy make up printer cartridge
I've been missing him so much lately that I cry every night. I don't know how to make this stop. We rarely see each other so that makes it even worse. I just miss him so much. Does anyone have any advice for him and I on how to make this easier on both of us? And any advice on how to help me stop crying? Please and Thank You in advance!I miss him so much that I cry every night, any advice on how to make our long distance relationship easier?
if both have computers then first thing i do is email with my wife daily on yahoo instant messenger, shes in china and soon will be in the usa but in the mean time we at least have this as well as i have a skype cam which cost $130 which enables me to call her as often as i want for just 2 pennys a minute, if she had the same it would be free. skype.com you can also get a regualar cam for as little as $25. i also visited china twice and each time for a month.if its meant to be then get creative on both sides, it can work and it did for me.granted you are very young yet this does not mean it can not work, go with your mind and heart and forget about the negatives of some that had bad experiances.I miss him so much that I cry every night, any advice on how to make our long distance relationship easier?
Poppy doesn't know what she's talking about. I know most guys would go out and check out other girls but when I was in a Long Distance I never even LOOKED at another girl, and my girlfriend felt the same pain you felt, as did I.
Honestly unless you get to see each other LDR's hurt, and usually never work in the end. It's just too hard sometimes to do that. Be prepared for heartache, and I'm sorry.;
Listen carefully dear. Long distance does not work. While you're crying every night missing him he's out with the guys and believe me he does notice other girls. That's the way guys are. It's the way you should be too. Sorry this doesn't feel better but I've been there as have friends and we all agree. It doesn't work.
why not organise a surprise trip to see him?
lots of love letters and cards, little gifts to send him...
the crying will subside hunny, being in a long distance relationship is tough - it's up to both of you if each other is worth the sacrifice in the mean time :)
I don't really know what to tell you, I'm kind of going through the same thing....... for me it helps just to talk to him every night or through texts............
Hope this helped.......
well you should try to find something else to get your mind on,16 is so very young,you may be surprised to find you are just as crazy about someone else in a few months
don't know if this will help you..but i felt just the same
You're young. Go have a couple one nighters and you'll feel better.
aww...itll be ok
Well...you seem committed and i hope he is to the key is TRUST! and you two can try to visit in the summer,also me was unfortunate i did like some one like how you did and i was 15 and i had sense that my interest will change buy the time I'm in high school...and it did! not trying to say you wont be together...just saying you two have to talk about your feelings...you have to know if you two are on the same page! if you two are that's all you need is COMMITMENT! and if he is a man who isnt scared then he's the one!
talk to each other everyday as much as possible through the phone or online..it would be better if you can see each other on a webcam..consider yourself lucky coz you can still see each other..im on a LDR also but my bf is in another country..and i dont even know when ill see him again..there are just times that you'll feel really down adn cry a lot like there's no tomorrow..but it will pass..as the days pass, you'll get used to it..well not really but it will lessen..trust me..i was like that at first and i never thought i wont stop crying..but i did..be strong for him..for your relationship..you can do it!good luck!
Any advice on how my gf and I can grew 'deeper' in our long distance relationship?
Okay well, my great girlfriend lives in California and I live in Texas. I know it sounds cliche,but we love each other with all our hearts. We try to make up ways to get to know each other, as well as can for a long distance relationship. I'd really appreciate any ideas how we can grow deeper as a couple and get to know each other. Any ideas?Any advice on how my gf and I can grew 'deeper' in our long distance relationship?
trying using the mail to send eachother hand written letters and photos, they mean alot because you can keep them forever! Also little cute gifts, silly things that remind you of them, you can al you guys could read a book at the same time and talk about it or do quizzes from magazines..the best thing though is just talking and listening about the important things and trying to be supportive that far away.Any advice on how my gf and I can grew 'deeper' in our long distance relationship?
Move closer!
i'm in a long distance relationship too... i live in texas and my bf is living in south carolina while serving in the marines. (i know exactly how you feel) we talk on the phone practically every second of the day and we both got web cams so we can see eachother while we talk. we share pictures a lot over the web cam and that helps to get to know eachother. (pictures from the past, pics from vacations, etc.) we also just kinda surf around on the internet and send eachother links to stuff.... makes for good conversation starters. my bf also tries to include me in things.... for example, he was picking out furniture last weekend and sent me pictures so i could help pick stuff out... as if i was there with him. and of course, i fly there as often as i can. (i know a lot of this stuff may be a little corny, but it keeps me satisfied for the time being!) it's still tough and of course saying ';move closer'; is easier said then done. moving to a whole nother state is a big deal.... plus... you live in texas! hello? that makes it even harder! :D i hope everything works out for you!
lose the distance
umm well call each other dail even numerous times a day if u'd like. and email each other. maybe even visit each other once in a while.
I have been there, the reality is you or her have to make a decision on moving soon, or you can avoid that for now and try to meet as much as possible maybe somehwere in between, etc. I assure you if you aren't thinking this way, your LDR will fizzle over time (mine did), as the face to face time is important for any relationship.
trying using the mail to send eachother hand written letters and photos, they mean alot because you can keep them forever! Also little cute gifts, silly things that remind you of them, you can al you guys could read a book at the same time and talk about it or do quizzes from magazines..the best thing though is just talking and listening about the important things and trying to be supportive that far away.Any advice on how my gf and I can grew 'deeper' in our long distance relationship?
Move closer!
i'm in a long distance relationship too... i live in texas and my bf is living in south carolina while serving in the marines. (i know exactly how you feel) we talk on the phone practically every second of the day and we both got web cams so we can see eachother while we talk. we share pictures a lot over the web cam and that helps to get to know eachother. (pictures from the past, pics from vacations, etc.) we also just kinda surf around on the internet and send eachother links to stuff.... makes for good conversation starters. my bf also tries to include me in things.... for example, he was picking out furniture last weekend and sent me pictures so i could help pick stuff out... as if i was there with him. and of course, i fly there as often as i can. (i know a lot of this stuff may be a little corny, but it keeps me satisfied for the time being!) it's still tough and of course saying ';move closer'; is easier said then done. moving to a whole nother state is a big deal.... plus... you live in texas! hello? that makes it even harder! :D i hope everything works out for you!
lose the distance
umm well call each other dail even numerous times a day if u'd like. and email each other. maybe even visit each other once in a while.
I have been there, the reality is you or her have to make a decision on moving soon, or you can avoid that for now and try to meet as much as possible maybe somehwere in between, etc. I assure you if you aren't thinking this way, your LDR will fizzle over time (mine did), as the face to face time is important for any relationship.
Advice on how to keep up a long-distance relationship?
Hiya. My gf spends quite a bit of time in the USA as part of her job.sometimes it can be up to a month.She's American anyway %26amp; says it's part of the job..
We've been together over a year.She says she loves me more than ever %26amp; has been faithful to me as i have with her.Yet i'm not truly happy about this.I can't help thinking at night she's with another guy over there.I mean how would i find out?
I love her so much yet this relationship is on her terms..But when she's over there it's on her terms.It's never when can i email you or see you on MSN.She decides when to contact me.
It was my birthday yesterday.For sure i got a lovely card Saying she loves me %26amp; wants to be with me %26amp; she'll see me soon .But we'd arranged to chat on MSN i stayed uo til 1am to suit her time.I got an email saying she couldn't make it -no excuse given.Just sorry sweetie, enjoy your night %26amp; i'll see you soon.
Is my gf playing around with someone else %26amp; not telling me?Why the secrecy %26amp; all on her terms.Help!Advice on how to keep up a long-distance relationship?
She seems to be very inconsiderate, even if it is due to a very demanding job, perhaps you need more out of a relationship than she does? Maybe she's the kind of girl who is very career focused and you're more the kind of guy who needs to spend lots of time with your partner?
Just a thought....Advice on how to keep up a long-distance relationship?
So you and me are on the same boat...........i trust her but i hate it when she forgets and blah blah.....
hope it all works out for you mate
you have no reason not to trust this girl however as i a female i know for sure i would have certainly made more of an effort for an occasion such as your birthday
happy belated birthday to you
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just make shure u keep textin and calling her daily, or get msn
We've been together over a year.She says she loves me more than ever %26amp; has been faithful to me as i have with her.Yet i'm not truly happy about this.I can't help thinking at night she's with another guy over there.I mean how would i find out?
I love her so much yet this relationship is on her terms..But when she's over there it's on her terms.It's never when can i email you or see you on MSN.She decides when to contact me.
It was my birthday yesterday.For sure i got a lovely card Saying she loves me %26amp; wants to be with me %26amp; she'll see me soon .But we'd arranged to chat on MSN i stayed uo til 1am to suit her time.I got an email saying she couldn't make it -no excuse given.Just sorry sweetie, enjoy your night %26amp; i'll see you soon.
Is my gf playing around with someone else %26amp; not telling me?Why the secrecy %26amp; all on her terms.Help!Advice on how to keep up a long-distance relationship?
She seems to be very inconsiderate, even if it is due to a very demanding job, perhaps you need more out of a relationship than she does? Maybe she's the kind of girl who is very career focused and you're more the kind of guy who needs to spend lots of time with your partner?
Just a thought....Advice on how to keep up a long-distance relationship?
So you and me are on the same boat...........i trust her but i hate it when she forgets and blah blah.....
hope it all works out for you mate
you have no reason not to trust this girl however as i a female i know for sure i would have certainly made more of an effort for an occasion such as your birthday
happy belated birthday to you
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just make shure u keep textin and calling her daily, or get msn
I'm in a long-distance relationship with a guy I really love. Need advice?
He and I really care deeply for eachother. I've never loved anyone or anything more, but this time away from him is killing me!!!!!!!!!! What I want to know is how do you deal with the pain of a long-distance relationship and balance dealing with your current life stresses on top of that?!?! This is really bothering me... any help would be appreciated. Thanks for your time!!!I'm in a long-distance relationship with a guy I really love. Need advice?
I am also in a long distance relationship. My fiance lives 2.5 hours away. We keep in contact on a daily basis by phone and spend every weekend together. Sure it does get lonely at times but these times are alright as it just shows how much we mean to each other. There are many life stressers sure but we can discuss them when we are talking to one and other. If you believe in yourself and your partner then only good will come of this relationship. Best of luck to you.I'm in a long-distance relationship with a guy I really love. Need advice?
I've been with my g/f for 3 years and half that time we lived in different states.
It was really tough but you have keep thinking positively about it and realize that you should be happy because you have found somebody that you really love. When you are feeling down just think to yourself how lucky you are.
Also, we called each other everyday and text messaged constantly which helped alot.
I am also in a long distance relationship. My fiance lives 2.5 hours away. We keep in contact on a daily basis by phone and spend every weekend together. Sure it does get lonely at times but these times are alright as it just shows how much we mean to each other. There are many life stressers sure but we can discuss them when we are talking to one and other. If you believe in yourself and your partner then only good will come of this relationship. Best of luck to you.I'm in a long-distance relationship with a guy I really love. Need advice?
I've been with my g/f for 3 years and half that time we lived in different states.
It was really tough but you have keep thinking positively about it and realize that you should be happy because you have found somebody that you really love. When you are feeling down just think to yourself how lucky you are.
Also, we called each other everyday and text messaged constantly which helped alot.
Long distance relationship advice?
I am going out with this guy (kevin) over the internet. We text and stuff too. I met him because my friend, sarah, was at the beach one year and she met him. he is so nice and super sweet and the truth is... i love him... he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and he is always running through my mind. and he's always telling me how much he loves me! =] BUT i live in Tennessee. and he lives in North Dakota. and we might not be able to see each other for a few years, because his parents are soooooo strict and they don't want him to have a girlfriend for a few years. i love him with all my heart and there is NO way that I'd break up with him because of the distance. I just need some advice. Long distance relationship advice?
ive been in a 2 year long distance relationship before and im in another one and we are going to be meeting soon so im experianced... anyway all you gotta do is be honest to eachother at all times and communication is key since you wont be doing anything in real life together, never ever go to sleep mad at each other, and never ever promise each other stuff you cant keep. send each other stuff in the mail like letters maybe articles of clothing a pillow you use and pictures so they can put em on the wall. also go to this site for really good ideas lovingfromadistance.com i think thats it type it in google. also like watching a movie together over the phone or getting web cams is also fun i sent my girl a web cam actually that i bought her... anyway we are 1000 miles apart and are in total love and we are living great :)
ive been in a 2 year long distance relationship before and im in another one and we are going to be meeting soon so im experianced... anyway all you gotta do is be honest to eachother at all times and communication is key since you wont be doing anything in real life together, never ever go to sleep mad at each other, and never ever promise each other stuff you cant keep. send each other stuff in the mail like letters maybe articles of clothing a pillow you use and pictures so they can put em on the wall. also go to this site for really good ideas lovingfromadistance.com i think thats it type it in google. also like watching a movie together over the phone or getting web cams is also fun i sent my girl a web cam actually that i bought her... anyway we are 1000 miles apart and are in total love and we are living great :)
Any advice on Long Distance Relationships??
my boyfriend left about a month ago for boot camp but we are gonna be stuck in LDR..any advice??
oh and plan on marrying him :D
so dont tell me to break up with him please.Any advice on Long Distance Relationships??
Send promiscuous photos (lingerie, fitted clothing etc.), to keep him interested. Send him special packages (food, toiletries etc.) with a love touch. Be patient.Any advice on Long Distance Relationships??
Yeah, upgrade your cell phone plan to ';mobile to Mobile';.
Just keep in touch with %26amp; you to be faithful while he's away. It's in your hands.
If you truly love your man you a LDR will work!!! Call him every chance you get.....keep the communication going that's the key for any successful LDR
I was in the military too ... and when I left for bootcamp ... it felt like I was missing out on everything happening back home ... life pretty much goes on and he'll be stuck surrounded by a bunch of people telling him what to do ... he's going to be homesick, grumpy and wishing you were there. Try writing to him as much as possible - most guys get Dear John letters ... which is a break-up letter ... nobody wants that to happen so wait for his phone calls and be a good girl at home ... don't tell him '; I went out with so and so .. or we had such a great time with Steve and his friends '; ... he'll go crazy ... let him know how much you miss him and can't wait to see him ... send photos, letters, and phone cards ... if you want to chat a little more just e-mail me ... hope I help out a little ... !
If yall hearts is sayin that yall want to be together then go for it.But their is no reason for breaking up with him. but never let someone be your world cuz what happens is when they are gone then u r left with nothing.
Dont break up at all i am in a long distance relationship shes over in India im in the USA just got back last week from a marriage :) made in heaven but it will be so tough but you must trust him and he must trust you 100% when he goes abroad if he goes you both can save alot of money from the phone calls i will give you thei great link
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This will save you 95% on all international calling also if calling in USA 1 cent a minute and it can save globally too he can call you from anywhere you can call him everywhere
hang in there take up a hobby if not working find a job keep yourself busy but keep the faith in each other dont give him or tell him bad stuff over here always keep it happy and not alarming dont make him worry even if theres trouble ok low moral can mean life or death also tell him thankyou for serving our country I SUPPORT ALL THE TROOPS i was over in kuwait for the first action we took and to this day wish we finished the job dam politicians
YEOW%26lt; another LDR...what ever happen to the here and now. Woman, your mind and emotions loves this game...and
he went to boot camp. OMG! SO, if U feel U can go it alone,
and that will be the life style, unless U get pregnant which will make it twice as tough..good luck.
sure don't leave the poor guy but i highly recommend you take on a part time b/f
we live on the coast and when this was a fishing town all the women had a husband and a ';shore husband';
so that way they were kept happy
the shore husband would disappear when the real husband came home,
just make sure his very well hung (or there isn't much point)
Time will tell if it is meant to be, watch out because time changes everything. If you were going to get married why didn't you already!!!
oh and plan on marrying him :D
so dont tell me to break up with him please.Any advice on Long Distance Relationships??
Send promiscuous photos (lingerie, fitted clothing etc.), to keep him interested. Send him special packages (food, toiletries etc.) with a love touch. Be patient.Any advice on Long Distance Relationships??
Yeah, upgrade your cell phone plan to ';mobile to Mobile';.
Just keep in touch with %26amp; you to be faithful while he's away. It's in your hands.
If you truly love your man you a LDR will work!!! Call him every chance you get.....keep the communication going that's the key for any successful LDR
I was in the military too ... and when I left for bootcamp ... it felt like I was missing out on everything happening back home ... life pretty much goes on and he'll be stuck surrounded by a bunch of people telling him what to do ... he's going to be homesick, grumpy and wishing you were there. Try writing to him as much as possible - most guys get Dear John letters ... which is a break-up letter ... nobody wants that to happen so wait for his phone calls and be a good girl at home ... don't tell him '; I went out with so and so .. or we had such a great time with Steve and his friends '; ... he'll go crazy ... let him know how much you miss him and can't wait to see him ... send photos, letters, and phone cards ... if you want to chat a little more just e-mail me ... hope I help out a little ... !
If yall hearts is sayin that yall want to be together then go for it.But their is no reason for breaking up with him. but never let someone be your world cuz what happens is when they are gone then u r left with nothing.
Dont break up at all i am in a long distance relationship shes over in India im in the USA just got back last week from a marriage :) made in heaven but it will be so tough but you must trust him and he must trust you 100% when he goes abroad if he goes you both can save alot of money from the phone calls i will give you thei great link
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This will save you 95% on all international calling also if calling in USA 1 cent a minute and it can save globally too he can call you from anywhere you can call him everywhere
hang in there take up a hobby if not working find a job keep yourself busy but keep the faith in each other dont give him or tell him bad stuff over here always keep it happy and not alarming dont make him worry even if theres trouble ok low moral can mean life or death also tell him thankyou for serving our country I SUPPORT ALL THE TROOPS i was over in kuwait for the first action we took and to this day wish we finished the job dam politicians
YEOW%26lt; another LDR...what ever happen to the here and now. Woman, your mind and emotions loves this game...and
he went to boot camp. OMG! SO, if U feel U can go it alone,
and that will be the life style, unless U get pregnant which will make it twice as tough..good luck.
sure don't leave the poor guy but i highly recommend you take on a part time b/f
we live on the coast and when this was a fishing town all the women had a husband and a ';shore husband';
so that way they were kept happy
the shore husband would disappear when the real husband came home,
just make sure his very well hung (or there isn't much point)
Time will tell if it is meant to be, watch out because time changes everything. If you were going to get married why didn't you already!!!
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