Any one been in a long distance relationship out there?? i need advice!!?

i am currently in a long distance relationship with someone i met over the net. we have never seen each other but a month ago he said he loved me. but i have only called him once and he has NEVER called me. he says he'll be coming to my country in the summer, but every now and then he changes his mind and says ';something came up'; and that he's sorry and then he says he'll be coming, and then that he won't after all....etc, etc... it just keeps going and going... what should i make of this? is he really into me? or does he just want to have someone to f**k for when he's in the country? he's reaaaaally cute and owns a lotta cars (at least, that;s what he SAYS...) and so i'm guessing he ain't single right now (when he's supposed to be involved with ME). what should i do? anyone got advice i can use? PLEASE, people!! i need advice!!!


---thanxAny one been in a long distance relationship out there?? i need advice!!?
it is the wrong choice to involve with someone over the net. especially someone you have never seen face to face before. leave him alone, he is clearly no good and is playing games with your heart. if he really loves you, (which i don't know why he would say a think like that seeing that you met a month ago) he would not treat you the way he is doing.love is kind and he is not kind to you, therefore he does not love you.Any one been in a long distance relationship out there?? i need advice!!?
you need to leave this guy alone he's not into you
If you havent seen him in person ever, that means hes just not that into you. Love knows no barriers, and hes holding on to one.
This guy is bullshit !!
im currently in one but its nothing like yours! we see each other about 4 times a year but we call each other every night and talk for hours and hours. i think you've gotten yourself into a mess...leave him! NOW!
It sounds exciting, in that other country, lots to offer, kind of way.. only the unanswered questions seem to plague you. Your concerns could be...How do I stop loving this guy, but they seem to round off more around, what do I do without this exciting new cool in my life? While that can be a tough order to serve, its not quite as tough as feeling so emotionally loved that the world blooms and the sky explodes with campy happy. Ask yourself, if when he talks to you, he's really talking to you...If he's really rich, he may be talking to your abilities or what/how you can get him something. Bring something to the table for him. Natural at first, but not for someone who claims the L word. check your sources on him as well, why, do you think love is in new growth here? Because you don't sound convinced of his side of the story...why? Why do you need convincing? What other motives do you bring to the table..


If he wants you for sex, and then for personality, and then, for you? who are you? And would him wanting you to fill his emptiness, be a comfort, or another person needing something for themselves. What do you think you need? What do you want? My biggest suggestion is, relax on the serious and turn up the curious.
I think you must trust your self an dont let this boy lie you dont believ in evrithing yes hi whont f' 'k
Im in a long distance relationship. If he is telling you what he has and you are using that to decide weather or not to f*** him thats insane. Love is unconditional and you should be aware men are pigs. Hes holding you out there to see if he can find anyone better then he'll choose. Whatch it girl is the best advice I can give.