I need some advice on a long distance relationship...?

so im 19 years old and i currently live in Illinois. i have been friends with this one guy for 4 years.. we had a little fling in high school but then i started dating someone else but that's over. anyways, we have been talking for a few months and the other day we both realized that we have a lot of feelings for each other. the only problem is that he is stationed in the army in Texas, and he's going to be there for 2 more years. I'm currently enrolled in college here in Illinois. i plan on graduating this spring. i have thought about moving down there, but then again I'm afraid to because i know that my parents would stronly disagree with that and if something didnt work out i dont want to regret any part of it. I'm so confused. I have a lot of feelings for him, but i dont know if i should move there or to TRY and wait the 2 years for him to come back home. Can someone help me please? This is important to me.I need some advice on a long distance relationship...?
You probably don't want to hear it, but honestly, if your moving to Texas just for him, I wouldn't recommend it. It sounds like youve already thought about the possibility of it not working out and how you might end up unhappy there. As much as you want to be with him, moving there just for him is really not the best plan.


My advice for you, think about what position/job/internship would be best for you after college and look for that. Find things that would truly help you on your way to eventually being able to get the job you want and apply to that. Since youre thinking about being in Texas, LOOK FOR JOBS PRIMARILY THERE! Or even other states close by!! That way, youd be moving to another area for a killer step up position and being in Texas near your friend would be a bonus!





Youre young, not locked into a place now, when else will you have a chance to move whenever? As long as youre doing what YOU need to do to get your career on track, go for it, move new places if you can! Just do you, if its meant to be it'll work out b/c he wont want to be w/ anyone else.

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