I have a long distance relationship and I need some advice.?

My boyfriend calls me every night which is really nice, however, he likes to talk to me on the phone for a long time. Again, I think he would like it if I was just ';there';, but I'm not. However, usually when we talk, he is preoccupied either watching tv etc. Sometimes he talks to his roomate and dosn't even ask me to hold on a second. I sometimes need to talk to my teens, but I always ask him to hold on for a minute. He just got a new computer so I told him the other night to have fun with it so we didn't talk. Last night he called me and the entire time he was going back and forth between tv and computer. I told him if he wanted to talk to me to do that without distraction for a short time, and then go play with his stuff after we got off the phone. He didn't seem to think that was needed and I got upset and told him I felt hurt that he didn't want to take my feelings into consideration. He told me he thinks I do it to him which I don't. I tell him to hold or I will call back. Help?I have a long distance relationship and I need some advice.?
wow i'm not trying to be mean but i dont know who you can do it i see my b/f like 3 times out of the week He calls me every day befor he gos to work %26amp; When he gets off and i still wanna see him more %26amp; If He Truely Care's He Will Make Time For You Man Its Gotta Be Hard For You I Really Wish you the best Of LuckI have a long distance relationship and I need some advice.?
I had that problem before too. Needless to say the relationship did not work out for me. I didn't like the fact that the little time we did spend talk to each other on the phone involved him shopping at the supermarket or watching TV.





I think you did the right thing by telling him how you felt. If he chose to get upset over it then maybe it was in the way you worded it to him. Most people would understand however those who take offence to it are pretty defensive over little detail.





No one can guarantee if a long distant/regular relationshop will work out. Life works in mysterious ways. Remember that life is short, don't get angry over the little things, try to make things work out.
wow.he sounds pretty inconsiderate.tell him that when you call it is ';your'; time.that you are trying to spend what little time you can talking to him and would appreciate his total attention.a woman should get more attention than a dam tv.
Have you ever read the book ';He's Just Not that Into You';?


I am not evaluating for you that in your case, your bf is not 'into you', BUT there are some GREAT tips in there, that have helped me through bf problems.