Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Need advice regarding my long distance relationship?

My boyfriend is in school five hours away. The first semester that he was there, he hadn't made any friends and we were talking every night. Now he has made all these new friends, and most of these friends are girls. and they are single. He is a friendly guy, definitely not a player. So please dont leave responses saying he is. Anyway, he is going out to bars, people's apartments, barbecues, etc and this is starting to stress me out. I feel like it will just be more convenient for him to meet someone up there. I dont know if i should break up or how i should cope with these. Any ideas? thanks!Need advice regarding my long distance relationship?
well if you both agree then go for it. but i'm sure if he felt that he wanted to break up with he would've told u that.Need advice regarding my long distance relationship?
well im in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend told me that she was scared that someone would end up taking me


well i told her that i would never go out or do anything with my Friends i would stay home to talk to her


but for your case if he is coming less and less tell him how u feel


and that u r worried..if u do want to break up tell him why
First off a long distant relationship will not work. There are exceptions. But, for most it will not work....That's the reality of it. Can't be changed.


Now you two should have agreed that while he is away at school, you two are on your own. Not committed. You can always pick it up again when he is done with his studies. That will alleviate allot of stress on your part knowing that he is not doing anything behind your back. You are going to have to get over it. Because he is going to do all the normal things men do when they are away at school. He is no different


than anyone else. And yes that would be more convenient for him to meet someone there. If he wants to.


You too can meet someone else more convenient. Talk to him about it. he might just agree and you two can keep on being friends.
Go visit him at school and meet these people. Either you will see theres nothing to worry about, or you will realize your relationship is drifting apart. At the very least, most girls who would've gone after him will stop once they meet you (its hard to go after a guy whose gf you've met in person, especially if she's sweet and nice).
I'm a man, and I can only tell you how I would prefer it so that both of us would enjoy it.





I never had a long distance relationship, but I think I would allow you to engage with closer (short-time) relationships with other men, to let you satisfy your physical needs. While some men would require you to report on such interactions, other would prefer total silence.





It is possible to have a boyfriend, who uses those other females just to live out his physical needs.

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