Okay, so I really love him, and I'm trying not to think about it but the distance is killing me. He hates it too.. We are young and no he isn't military, my heart goes out to the women that deal with that. The military long distance must be the worst kind. but I need advice, he knows how I feel, and He says he wishes he could be here with me and that he thinks about me all the time. We've been together for almost three months. so I thought I was doing pretty good. But then it hit me when I was watching tv and the people on the screen kissed, and i just started crying. I love him so much, and this distance is really hard. And I won't be able to see him for six more months. How can I make this work better?Long Distance Relationship Advice?
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWW, Im sooooo sorry to hear that. I can agreet with you 1,00,000%. currently I am in the same situation and its killing me. Same as he knows how I feel and he feels the same and , he lives in VA, works and goes to school their and I work and go to school in MD about 1 hr away from eachother but we hardly see eachother because we are always so busy. Thing is we have an understanding and we know were we stand with eachother. We havent gotten to the l word yet but we care deeply for eachother and we want to be with eachother all the time. This is a mind blower, I am about to enlist in the army and I know this is definately gonna put a serious strain on our relationship but I have faith in my man and I know he will stand by my side, and vice versa. I know that we are gonna be apart but for some odd reason, I am willing to take the chance. I was previously in a relationship and distance was a factor and it tore me up inside. I try not to be stressed about it alot because I know how fe both feel, what I say is come to a understanding and find out exactly were you guys stand, wanting him isnt wrong or bad, and wanting to be with him isnt a sin but I say find out were you guys stand and know wat u both want so that its not so hard and painful. Wanting ur man and missing him is the hardest things to deal with but I believe that if you know were u guys stand and have a firm foundation and understanding it will be a little better and not so hard. Stay strong hunny....you will get your man...and i will u the best wen you guys get to be together.Long Distance Relationship Advice?
that`s why long distance is bad...
try calling him maybe?
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Long Distance Relationship Advice?
Alright I have known this girl a while well, now having to be in a long distance relationship. Going to see her as soon as possible but could be a while. We are both very willing to make this work and I just wanted what some of you did to keep things going.
Right now me and her talk as often as possible, between her kids and work she does not have a ton of time but she always finds time to talk to me. She will sign onto yahoo for 5 minutes even if its to say hi and she loves me before she leaves. We will talk on phone when shes on her way to work and etc..
We also both got world of warcraft as we are gamers we thought it would be a good way to chat, and do something together whenever possible.
It's just hard not being able to be with her, but I am more than willing to make it work. We both trust each other and we make sure to keep things honest.
I just want to know what some of you did to keep things going until able to be together againLong Distance Relationship Advice?
If she plays world of warcraft with you, shes the one. hah, but really, if you like her a lot and she shares the same feelings, and she makes you happy, make it work. I have been dating my girl for about 1 year and a half, and she moved away 45 minutes away, but we try to make time to tal kto each other and see each other.
Right now me and her talk as often as possible, between her kids and work she does not have a ton of time but she always finds time to talk to me. She will sign onto yahoo for 5 minutes even if its to say hi and she loves me before she leaves. We will talk on phone when shes on her way to work and etc..
We also both got world of warcraft as we are gamers we thought it would be a good way to chat, and do something together whenever possible.
It's just hard not being able to be with her, but I am more than willing to make it work. We both trust each other and we make sure to keep things honest.
I just want to know what some of you did to keep things going until able to be together againLong Distance Relationship Advice?
If she plays world of warcraft with you, shes the one. hah, but really, if you like her a lot and she shares the same feelings, and she makes you happy, make it work. I have been dating my girl for about 1 year and a half, and she moved away 45 minutes away, but we try to make time to tal kto each other and see each other.
Long distance relationship advice?
Well, I know my story isn't uncommon, but here it is: I'm in my senior year of high school. My boyfriend of 5 months will be going to college in state and I'm going to a college on the opposite end of the country. By the time I'll actually have to leave we'll have been dating for 9 months. We've discussed having a long distance relationship and we're both committed to making it work. I've had successful long-distance friendships from when I moved to the west coast from the east coast, so I understand the importance of trust and honesty and communication, but I know that a relationship will be different from a friendship. I would just like to know what your ldr was like and whether it worked or not--if it worked, what did you do? How did you keep the spark alive? If it didn't, why not?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much! =)Long distance relationship advice?
College and university is a time of major change for those who only recently were pondering what life would be like outside of their high school walls. Expectations run high, and many previous familiarities will be left behind for new experiences. This may or may not include high school sweethearts. For those who decide to stay together even though they must say goodbye and begin long distance relationships (LDRs), the time ahead will put their relationship to the test. But there many other reasons why LDRs have become more common during the time spent at college or university - some have met their partner from out of town online, at a party, concert, or through involvement in certain activities. In fact [according to a 2002 study by a large US southeastern university of approximately 450 university students(1)], between 25-35% of college relationships were long distance. It can be a very rewarding bond if you鈥檝e found that special person worth making the effort for. After all, just because the meeting occurred when the geography was not ideal does not mean the people involved are not going to be ideal together. For those who choose to accept and overcome the challenges of being in an LDR, some realities must be faced. Examples include lack of support from friends and family who doubt the relationship's chances, an inability to have the desired physical connection, time differences where partners are on different sides of the world etc. Approximately 1 in 5 long distance relationships will last until the end of university, but these figures are not very different to those for proximal relationships .Long distance relationship advice?
I know how you feel. ldr's are difficult...more so than just friendships cause you miss the physical intimacy that comes with a regular relationship. I know its tempting to try and make it work but honestly without full commitment it wont. your both still young and will be meeting so many new people at college that it will be hard to maintain the relationship and not look at others to give you the closeness that your lacking in your own relationship. My advice it to break it off but remain friends, it would be a mutual breakup and you could still keep the closeness of the friendship. And who knows maybe in the future you'll meet again as friends and hit it off again.
Good luck
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much! =)Long distance relationship advice?
College and university is a time of major change for those who only recently were pondering what life would be like outside of their high school walls. Expectations run high, and many previous familiarities will be left behind for new experiences. This may or may not include high school sweethearts. For those who decide to stay together even though they must say goodbye and begin long distance relationships (LDRs), the time ahead will put their relationship to the test. But there many other reasons why LDRs have become more common during the time spent at college or university - some have met their partner from out of town online, at a party, concert, or through involvement in certain activities. In fact [according to a 2002 study by a large US southeastern university of approximately 450 university students(1)], between 25-35% of college relationships were long distance. It can be a very rewarding bond if you鈥檝e found that special person worth making the effort for. After all, just because the meeting occurred when the geography was not ideal does not mean the people involved are not going to be ideal together. For those who choose to accept and overcome the challenges of being in an LDR, some realities must be faced. Examples include lack of support from friends and family who doubt the relationship's chances, an inability to have the desired physical connection, time differences where partners are on different sides of the world etc. Approximately 1 in 5 long distance relationships will last until the end of university, but these figures are not very different to those for proximal relationships .Long distance relationship advice?
I know how you feel. ldr's are difficult...more so than just friendships cause you miss the physical intimacy that comes with a regular relationship. I know its tempting to try and make it work but honestly without full commitment it wont. your both still young and will be meeting so many new people at college that it will be hard to maintain the relationship and not look at others to give you the closeness that your lacking in your own relationship. My advice it to break it off but remain friends, it would be a mutual breakup and you could still keep the closeness of the friendship. And who knows maybe in the future you'll meet again as friends and hit it off again.
Good luck
Long Distance Relationship advice?
K i know theres alot of there wanting to know on long distance relationships. Do you aprove or no? Well i do. I just met this girl and shes AWESOME!! i kinda need advice on hinting her that i like her but dont wanna sound like a desprate guy.. Help me please?!?!Long Distance Relationship advice?
If she's as awesome as you think she is, tell her...you won't sound desperate just telling someone you're into them.
About the long distance relationships...they are hard to maintain but they can work. I have had a couple of them and the important thing was to keep in touch as much as possible. And be honest, all the time...that way she can know that you are trustworthy and will not hurt her on purpose.
So, what are you reading this for? Tell this awesome girl that you could see the two of you together, and let her take it from there. If she likes you in that way, YAY YOU! And if she doesn't,
:( at least you will know where you stand.
Good luck. %26amp; remember, there are so many awesome girls out there...if this one isn't for you, another one will be!Long Distance Relationship advice?
its good if the person is worth waiting for...but its not a very satisfying relationship when u cant talk face to face and meet each other often..and its so disturbing if u find out the other person has fallen outta love while u were not around..
dont get into it...unless u can really handle being away (made me depressed for a while
i got one and everything is undercontrol..lol..just gotta have pretty good comunication..n lots of trust on both side..
If she's as awesome as you think she is, tell her...you won't sound desperate just telling someone you're into them.
About the long distance relationships...they are hard to maintain but they can work. I have had a couple of them and the important thing was to keep in touch as much as possible. And be honest, all the time...that way she can know that you are trustworthy and will not hurt her on purpose.
So, what are you reading this for? Tell this awesome girl that you could see the two of you together, and let her take it from there. If she likes you in that way, YAY YOU! And if she doesn't,
:( at least you will know where you stand.
Good luck. %26amp; remember, there are so many awesome girls out there...if this one isn't for you, another one will be!Long Distance Relationship advice?
its good if the person is worth waiting for...but its not a very satisfying relationship when u cant talk face to face and meet each other often..and its so disturbing if u find out the other person has fallen outta love while u were not around..
dont get into it...unless u can really handle being away (made me depressed for a while
i got one and everything is undercontrol..lol..just gotta have pretty good comunication..n lots of trust on both side..
Any advice? My relationship is about to become long distance.?
Met a guy in May, we really hit it off - same sense of humor, attraction, get along great, etc. He now lives 20 minutes away. The thing is he's divorced and is taking his kids and going back to LA where he grew up and lived up until about 2000. I can fly out to see him, but have limited vacation time for this year. Since he has 3 small kids, he probably can't. He's bummed too cause he's saying he doesn't really want to go now, but he has no family out here.
He is keeping his house here cause his ex lives in the area and he'll bring his kids back and stay the whole summer and the kids 'll be with the ex the whole time (we hope). I'm not against moving to LA, but if he's going to spend 9 months in LA and 3 months back East every year, I need to work on a job that will let me do the same. My current job pays well but there's nowhere on the West Coast for me to work. (He does make a good living, so it may not be crucial right away).
Anyone been in the same position or any ideas?Any advice? My relationship is about to become long distance.?
I have some idea's . If moving in with him is an option you may go for it , it is nice out there. Also you may well find a suitable job there , they have most of the same as other states . You may try visiting on a vacation to get a better idea of what it is like there and get more of a feel of rather the relationship would work between you or not. If he has not asked or offered though I'd be kind of leery of the situation though and remain where you are. It's may be just as difficult for you to leave family and friends as he finds it difficult. If it were me bottom line though , I would stay put , eventually you'll find another you like as well or better.buy make up eye make up
He is keeping his house here cause his ex lives in the area and he'll bring his kids back and stay the whole summer and the kids 'll be with the ex the whole time (we hope). I'm not against moving to LA, but if he's going to spend 9 months in LA and 3 months back East every year, I need to work on a job that will let me do the same. My current job pays well but there's nowhere on the West Coast for me to work. (He does make a good living, so it may not be crucial right away).
Anyone been in the same position or any ideas?Any advice? My relationship is about to become long distance.?
I have some idea's . If moving in with him is an option you may go for it , it is nice out there. Also you may well find a suitable job there , they have most of the same as other states . You may try visiting on a vacation to get a better idea of what it is like there and get more of a feel of rather the relationship would work between you or not. If he has not asked or offered though I'd be kind of leery of the situation though and remain where you are. It's may be just as difficult for you to leave family and friends as he finds it difficult. If it were me bottom line though , I would stay put , eventually you'll find another you like as well or better.
Relationship advice when it comes to long distance.?
I recently just started seeing a girl within the last 2 weeks. She lives in my hometown and is 3 years older than me. Im 20 by the way. We've been intimate with eachother and I really want to continue things with her. The only problem is starting today I'll be living 6 1/2 hours away from her cause I'm at school now. I just transfered to this school from a Jr. College. She has her bachelors degree and is taking classes online to earn her masters. She also currently holds a great job and is very driven and mature. This is someone I need in my life. We talked a little bit about things and decided to just see how things go and if our relationship contiues then it does, if it doesn't it doesn't. I want it to continue so bad. All I keep thinking about is if it continues to progress I should look into transfering to a school closer to home. The school I would transfer too is where most of my friends go and is only a half hour away from her and my hometown. She told me she doesn't want to rush things she just wants to take things slow and I'm fine with that. I just wish I was closer to her and I don't want things to not work because I'm a long distance away. What should I do. She isn't like most girls. I really want this to work.Relationship advice when it comes to long distance.?
send her packages with stuff she likes without her knowing it.
text her at random times and tell her you miss her.
long distance relationships are alot easier than you think.
just talk to her and let nature takes its course!
send her packages with stuff she likes without her knowing it.
text her at random times and tell her you miss her.
long distance relationships are alot easier than you think.
just talk to her and let nature takes its course!
Long distance relationship- want to move back in together, but don't want to go where the other is.. advice?
Okay.. My boyfriend and I briefly broke up in January, and I moved home to my parents, 600 miles away, in Pennsylvania. We got back together, and we've been maintaining a long-distance relationship since. We want to move back in together- question is, where.
We lived in Maine together. The economy blows- we both worked the best jobs we could find, and barely made ends meet, sometimes living without food, heat or electricity. I was constantly terrified that something would go wrong, or we'd get evicted, or sick.. He had deep roots, there, though, and really dosen't want to leave. At all. His land has been in the family for four generations, and he wants to live his life there.
There is a better economy here, and chances to live a good life, but I'm not particularly attached to it, (outside of it being where my family is) and I know he'd hate it here.
So I could use some advice.. what do we do? Do I convince him to move here, where he wouldn't be happy, but we could build a life and thrive, or do I go back to Maine and risk living the way we were before? There dosen't seem to be much of a compromise. Any advice would help- thanks!Long distance relationship- want to move back in together, but don't want to go where the other is.. advice?
I know you are not going to like this answer but I'm going to be honest with you. If neither one of you will compromise you just shouldn't' do it. You would have nothing but problems later on and end up resenting each other if you push one another. By no means do I think you should try and change him. Just as well as he shouldn't try and change you. He has sentimental value where he is at and that is nothing that can be replaced in his eyes. I do want you to understand that the saying ';love concords all'; should be thought of when making this decision though. If you want to be with him you should go. Money, no money, job, no job. I'll tell you this from experience. My boyfriend, now husband, got out of the military a month after I did. He went from the UK back to his home town. I unlike him had a great job already. Yet I gave it up and moved 800 miles away with him to a town that has absolutely nothing going for it. When I moved niter one of us had a job. We struggled at first but were able to eventually get our feet in the ground. Everyone thought I was crazy including myself when I told them what I was doing. The way I looked at it was... I could be absolutely miserable without him making tons of money or I can be happy making barely enough to live but with him. Looking back it was the best mistake I ever made. ;) Now we live in one of the best houses in this little town on nothingness and I won't move out of it till they come and take my carcase away. What can I say, the little girl from Jersey ended up loving the little town life ;)
Maybe the best bet for you is to continue the long distance relationship and eventually something will give... location or the relationship. Best of luck!!!
We lived in Maine together. The economy blows- we both worked the best jobs we could find, and barely made ends meet, sometimes living without food, heat or electricity. I was constantly terrified that something would go wrong, or we'd get evicted, or sick.. He had deep roots, there, though, and really dosen't want to leave. At all. His land has been in the family for four generations, and he wants to live his life there.
There is a better economy here, and chances to live a good life, but I'm not particularly attached to it, (outside of it being where my family is) and I know he'd hate it here.
So I could use some advice.. what do we do? Do I convince him to move here, where he wouldn't be happy, but we could build a life and thrive, or do I go back to Maine and risk living the way we were before? There dosen't seem to be much of a compromise. Any advice would help- thanks!Long distance relationship- want to move back in together, but don't want to go where the other is.. advice?
I know you are not going to like this answer but I'm going to be honest with you. If neither one of you will compromise you just shouldn't' do it. You would have nothing but problems later on and end up resenting each other if you push one another. By no means do I think you should try and change him. Just as well as he shouldn't try and change you. He has sentimental value where he is at and that is nothing that can be replaced in his eyes. I do want you to understand that the saying ';love concords all'; should be thought of when making this decision though. If you want to be with him you should go. Money, no money, job, no job. I'll tell you this from experience. My boyfriend, now husband, got out of the military a month after I did. He went from the UK back to his home town. I unlike him had a great job already. Yet I gave it up and moved 800 miles away with him to a town that has absolutely nothing going for it. When I moved niter one of us had a job. We struggled at first but were able to eventually get our feet in the ground. Everyone thought I was crazy including myself when I told them what I was doing. The way I looked at it was... I could be absolutely miserable without him making tons of money or I can be happy making barely enough to live but with him. Looking back it was the best mistake I ever made. ;) Now we live in one of the best houses in this little town on nothingness and I won't move out of it till they come and take my carcase away. What can I say, the little girl from Jersey ended up loving the little town life ;)
Maybe the best bet for you is to continue the long distance relationship and eventually something will give... location or the relationship. Best of luck!!!
In a long distance 'relationship'...we just had a baby 2gether...we are not 2gether now...need helpful advice.
There are not many precedents for this, so be ye warned:
I am sending her child support, come down 2 visit every month, have quit drugs and am quitting drinking, and have been everything a good father is to their son. Our son is 4 months old now.
I want 2 get back with her...
I am in love with her and she loves me but is not ';in love'; with me.
She wants us to be best friends first and then ease her way back to being in love again. I trust her but have waited a year for her.
We didn't know each other long before she got pregnant. She fell out of love with me when she got pregnant.
We are not seeing anybody else currently.
I live in Illinois and she lives in Georgia. I have a good job but am paying off debts and am willing to move down there to be with her, if she can at least show me commitment and empathy.
Advice? Suggestions? Questions? Pontifications?In a long distance 'relationship'...we just had a baby 2gether...we are not 2gether now...need helpful advice.
What stinks is that you can do everything as humanly possible to please her and it still may not be enough. Be aware that you can change, but that you can't change her. At this point, just keep doing what you're doing - send the payments, be a good dad, see your son, etc. I can't see how she can refuse you after all you've done. She has to stop thinking of her own interest and start thinking about the well being of her son. I don't think there's anything better than the three of you being together again.In a long distance 'relationship'...we just had a baby 2gether...we are not 2gether now...need helpful advice.
It sounds like everything moved fairly quickly with this situation. Obviously, we don't have her side of things but it takes time to build a real, sustainable relationship and a pregnancy fairly early on can muddy the waters. The fact that she is not seeing anyone else bodes well for your future plans. You have to spend more than a couple of weekends with someone per month to really know how you feel about them. She may just be waiting to see what you do and how much of a commitment you're willing to make. Either way, you should move closer to your son so that you can be more of a part of his life.
Maybe you should move closer to be a more involved father first. A 4 month old needs more then just a visit. You are missing out on a lot. Maybe by getting closer to your son you win her back.
You should move to Georgia to be closer to your son. However, persuing a relationship with her is pointless. Just be good friends for the sake of your child.
I think your doing the right thing, perhaps maybe even if you moved closer regardless what she wants it may bring you closer together.
There's two sides to every story.
If she is not ready to be in a committed relationship with you, then she's just not ready. At least she is willing to be friends with you and let you in, and see where it goes. That's a start! I would just advise you to let your new baby have all of your love and affection for now, and continue being the best Father that you can be. She will come around. If she doesn't, then don't let her be a gap between you and your baby.
Good luck, and keep your chin up!
You seem to be doing the right things so far. I think you're willing to give up a lot of things for her and your child, that's amazing and I look up to that.
Waiting a year isn't much. Truly in lifes time, a year is just like a second of breath. Just keep your heart in it and do what you feel you need to do. Things will come together as they are supposed to with time and you can't push things or change how they turn out. Keep being positive and show her that you are going to stand by her and in time things will change :o)
I am sending her child support, come down 2 visit every month, have quit drugs and am quitting drinking, and have been everything a good father is to their son. Our son is 4 months old now.
I want 2 get back with her...
I am in love with her and she loves me but is not ';in love'; with me.
She wants us to be best friends first and then ease her way back to being in love again. I trust her but have waited a year for her.
We didn't know each other long before she got pregnant. She fell out of love with me when she got pregnant.
We are not seeing anybody else currently.
I live in Illinois and she lives in Georgia. I have a good job but am paying off debts and am willing to move down there to be with her, if she can at least show me commitment and empathy.
Advice? Suggestions? Questions? Pontifications?In a long distance 'relationship'...we just had a baby 2gether...we are not 2gether now...need helpful advice.
What stinks is that you can do everything as humanly possible to please her and it still may not be enough. Be aware that you can change, but that you can't change her. At this point, just keep doing what you're doing - send the payments, be a good dad, see your son, etc. I can't see how she can refuse you after all you've done. She has to stop thinking of her own interest and start thinking about the well being of her son. I don't think there's anything better than the three of you being together again.In a long distance 'relationship'...we just had a baby 2gether...we are not 2gether now...need helpful advice.
It sounds like everything moved fairly quickly with this situation. Obviously, we don't have her side of things but it takes time to build a real, sustainable relationship and a pregnancy fairly early on can muddy the waters. The fact that she is not seeing anyone else bodes well for your future plans. You have to spend more than a couple of weekends with someone per month to really know how you feel about them. She may just be waiting to see what you do and how much of a commitment you're willing to make. Either way, you should move closer to your son so that you can be more of a part of his life.
Maybe you should move closer to be a more involved father first. A 4 month old needs more then just a visit. You are missing out on a lot. Maybe by getting closer to your son you win her back.
You should move to Georgia to be closer to your son. However, persuing a relationship with her is pointless. Just be good friends for the sake of your child.
I think your doing the right thing, perhaps maybe even if you moved closer regardless what she wants it may bring you closer together.
There's two sides to every story.
If she is not ready to be in a committed relationship with you, then she's just not ready. At least she is willing to be friends with you and let you in, and see where it goes. That's a start! I would just advise you to let your new baby have all of your love and affection for now, and continue being the best Father that you can be. She will come around. If she doesn't, then don't let her be a gap between you and your baby.
Good luck, and keep your chin up!
You seem to be doing the right things so far. I think you're willing to give up a lot of things for her and your child, that's amazing and I look up to that.
Waiting a year isn't much. Truly in lifes time, a year is just like a second of breath. Just keep your heart in it and do what you feel you need to do. Things will come together as they are supposed to with time and you can't push things or change how they turn out. Keep being positive and show her that you are going to stand by her and in time things will change :o)
I need advice for my new long distance relationship.?
We have been dating each other for about 3 month now. We were university classmates back 6 year ago. When we were at the university, he asked me for a date but I wasn鈥檛 ready for it. Then he came to US as he got scholarship and I went to a different county for the same reason. After 6 years he emailed me and asked where I am and told me that he was single, still have feeling to ward me. ...Eventually, I was single and interested too, so that is how it started. Now I am so in love with him and he is too.
The good news is, I have planned to visit my aunty for this coming Xmas 6 month ago and my cousins are waiting for me. Guess what, he lives the same city.
I just want advice how to handle it right.
Thank you.I need advice for my new long distance relationship.?
Just make a date to have coffee with him. Plan on spending a few hours just talking. Do decide anything about love, sex or marriage until you've spent a sufficient amount of time with him. Six years is a long time. Be aware that you're in love with the idea of being in love; you're not really in love with a guy you haven't seen in six years, a guy you've never dated.I need advice for my new long distance relationship.?
hmmm.. long distance relationships ARE work. its hard sometime wondering what the other person is really doing. You have to go by trust. My best answer for you is TRUST. any relationship is built on trust, if you dont have trust, then where is the relationship. But being in a long distance relationship makes it harder to trust, i know. But it is still vital, and needed more than anything in long distance relationships. How it works and how it ends up all depends on how bad you want it. But i am living proof they work!
I had met a guy who lives in GA through a freind, I lived in VA. a good 8 hours away from each other. After the first time we met, there was that connection. We spent many nights on ';phone dates';, which im sure your familiar with :) and emailed each other daily. Taking turns driving got old after a while, and here I am in GA. We just recently got married and i will never regret hanging on to that long distance relationship we had. It was a bumpy ride, but it was something we both wanted. I am about to experience the ';long distance relationship'; as he is set to deploy for Iraq.
if u 2 truly love each other then do it. if it was meant to be then it will happen! TRUST EACH OTHER!!!
If you really love him and he loves you...just playit by ear do what comes naturally see if you have the same chemistry in real life that you do on the internet.Don't have any expectations and try to be yourself. Good luck
The good news is, I have planned to visit my aunty for this coming Xmas 6 month ago and my cousins are waiting for me. Guess what, he lives the same city.
I just want advice how to handle it right.
Thank you.I need advice for my new long distance relationship.?
Just make a date to have coffee with him. Plan on spending a few hours just talking. Do decide anything about love, sex or marriage until you've spent a sufficient amount of time with him. Six years is a long time. Be aware that you're in love with the idea of being in love; you're not really in love with a guy you haven't seen in six years, a guy you've never dated.I need advice for my new long distance relationship.?
hmmm.. long distance relationships ARE work. its hard sometime wondering what the other person is really doing. You have to go by trust. My best answer for you is TRUST. any relationship is built on trust, if you dont have trust, then where is the relationship. But being in a long distance relationship makes it harder to trust, i know. But it is still vital, and needed more than anything in long distance relationships. How it works and how it ends up all depends on how bad you want it. But i am living proof they work!
I had met a guy who lives in GA through a freind, I lived in VA. a good 8 hours away from each other. After the first time we met, there was that connection. We spent many nights on ';phone dates';, which im sure your familiar with :) and emailed each other daily. Taking turns driving got old after a while, and here I am in GA. We just recently got married and i will never regret hanging on to that long distance relationship we had. It was a bumpy ride, but it was something we both wanted. I am about to experience the ';long distance relationship'; as he is set to deploy for Iraq.
if u 2 truly love each other then do it. if it was meant to be then it will happen! TRUST EACH OTHER!!!
If you really love him and he loves you...just playit by ear do what comes naturally see if you have the same chemistry in real life that you do on the internet.Don't have any expectations and try to be yourself. Good luck
Long distance relationship advice?
so i recently traveled to germany and pretty much fell in love with this guy who lives there. funny thing is we only actually met for a day (at a party) and then the next day he went on vacation to turkey and didnt get back til after i left. we talk and message each other all the time now but im not sure if his feelings are as strong as mine or if a long distance relationship could even work. I am usually totally against long distance relationships, but for this guy i want to try. I have two friends who dated each other, one living in germany, and one living here. one says to go for it, the other says it will never work. im afraid to let this guy know how intensly i feel in case he doesn't feel the same way, as my one friend tells me he won't feel that way. (while the other urges me to go for it) im very protective of my feelings, but at the same time i cant help but thinking i have to do SOMETHING. any suggestions or advice appreciated...Long distance relationship advice?
i hear you! my only advise is go with your gut..my husband and i had a long distance relationship thing going on.......15 years later and 3 children later im really happy i wrote those letters and bought those calling cards ... all worth it...stop listening to your friends ....a girl knows what she wants...you either listen to your friends or listen too yourself......make good choices.....and good luck ! let me know how it all works out!Long distance relationship advice?
Do what your heart tells you too, you will never know until you try. If you dont try, then you will always wonder.....what ';if';. What ';if's'; can be killers....follow your heart....and see what happens. What do you have to lose?
My advice to you would be to not bother with it anymore. Long distance relationships only work if you're so incredibly in love that you'll probably get married. And usually the person isn't so far away that a whole ocean separates them. With this guy, whom you met for a day (at a party) what was really special about him? I mean sure you're in a foreign and you meet this guy, you're obviously going to fall way more ';head over heels'; than you actually are. And why sit around on a Saturday dating night when you could be out, meeting new guys, who would live near you and you would be able to see more often. And as for the long distance thing, think about it - you could be dating someone here and he wouldn't know unless you told him - and he could do the exact thing. I get the whole meeting a new guy and thinking he's perfect thing, but don't waste days of your life being in this long distance relationship with a guy when you could be out meeting the love of your life. . . who actually lives within your easy driving area. And for my final note - if you really feel like you love this guy, (who you met for one day, not exactly great getting to know you time) then maybe you and him should arrange a visit between you two. Him to you, or you to him. For you both to figure out how you feel. Because you're holding on to this one day guy, and maybe you should take another few days to actually see him and what he's like in person.
Hi, I saw your question and it reminded me of my relationship. I have a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend, and we were together until I moved, we broke up, but later on we got back together, even though it's long-distance. Now we want to get married, and I'm moving in with him next year, after I graduate. So, yes, I think your long-distance relationship will work. If you just met him and already fell in love with him, then it seems like a really good relationship. Hope I helped, and if I didn;t, I'm sorry, I tried. =D ;D
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i hear you! my only advise is go with your gut..my husband and i had a long distance relationship thing going on.......15 years later and 3 children later im really happy i wrote those letters and bought those calling cards ... all worth it...stop listening to your friends ....a girl knows what she wants...you either listen to your friends or listen too yourself......make good choices.....and good luck ! let me know how it all works out!Long distance relationship advice?
Do what your heart tells you too, you will never know until you try. If you dont try, then you will always wonder.....what ';if';. What ';if's'; can be killers....follow your heart....and see what happens. What do you have to lose?
My advice to you would be to not bother with it anymore. Long distance relationships only work if you're so incredibly in love that you'll probably get married. And usually the person isn't so far away that a whole ocean separates them. With this guy, whom you met for a day (at a party) what was really special about him? I mean sure you're in a foreign and you meet this guy, you're obviously going to fall way more ';head over heels'; than you actually are. And why sit around on a Saturday dating night when you could be out, meeting new guys, who would live near you and you would be able to see more often. And as for the long distance thing, think about it - you could be dating someone here and he wouldn't know unless you told him - and he could do the exact thing. I get the whole meeting a new guy and thinking he's perfect thing, but don't waste days of your life being in this long distance relationship with a guy when you could be out meeting the love of your life. . . who actually lives within your easy driving area. And for my final note - if you really feel like you love this guy, (who you met for one day, not exactly great getting to know you time) then maybe you and him should arrange a visit between you two. Him to you, or you to him. For you both to figure out how you feel. Because you're holding on to this one day guy, and maybe you should take another few days to actually see him and what he's like in person.
Hi, I saw your question and it reminded me of my relationship. I have a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend, and we were together until I moved, we broke up, but later on we got back together, even though it's long-distance. Now we want to get married, and I'm moving in with him next year, after I graduate. So, yes, I think your long-distance relationship will work. If you just met him and already fell in love with him, then it seems like a really good relationship. Hope I helped, and if I didn;t, I'm sorry, I tried. =D ;D
~*LoReN*~
Long Distance Relationship Advice?
I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 months now,and we were best friends for 2 years leading up to it. I really love her, but now we're in a long distance relationship and we're about 6 hours apart from each other. It's really tough being apart, but we both agree that it's worth it to stay together since we do love each other so much. I just wanted to know if there's anything I can do to continue to show her how much I love her and how much she means to me. I can keep telling her I love her on the phone, but I just feel like it's getting repetitive even though it's true. I want to do something (other than visiting, since that's not possible at the moment) that really sweeps her off her feet again and reminds her just how special she is to me. Any ideas?? Thanks so much!!Long Distance Relationship Advice?
Send her a gift that costs some money and something she might need.
Words are symbolic and after a while they don't mean much. But when you do something that makes some difference in her life. Then this is real and not symbolic. And real appreciation matters every time. It never gets repetitive.Long Distance Relationship Advice?
Write her letters :)
It's always nice to hear from the people you left behind...and who doesn't love mail? Buy or make a nice card and let her know that you are thinking of her, add in a few pictures of what's you have been up to or some of the two of you, burn a CD of songs that remind you of her....there are so many different things you could do! You could even order flowers to be delivered to her :)buy make up eye make up
Send her a gift that costs some money and something she might need.
Words are symbolic and after a while they don't mean much. But when you do something that makes some difference in her life. Then this is real and not symbolic. And real appreciation matters every time. It never gets repetitive.Long Distance Relationship Advice?
Write her letters :)
It's always nice to hear from the people you left behind...and who doesn't love mail? Buy or make a nice card and let her know that you are thinking of her, add in a few pictures of what's you have been up to or some of the two of you, burn a CD of songs that remind you of her....there are so many different things you could do! You could even order flowers to be delivered to her :)
Long distance relationship advice?
Well, I was dating this girl. There was a party at her house, and we were alone in her bedroom. Then her two older brothers walk in on us. Unbelievable. I got in one little fight, and my mom got scared, and said ';you're moving with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air';. I whistled for a cab and when it came near, the license plate said 'Fresh' and it had dice in the mirror. If anything, I could say that this cab was rare but I thought 'nah, forget it',';yo homes, to Bel-Air';. I pulled up to a house about seven or eight, when I said to the cabbie, ';yo homes, smell ya later!'; Looked in my kingdom, I was finally there, to sit in my throne, as the prince of Bel-Air.Long distance relationship advice?
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Long distance relationship advice?
Hey everyone. My boyfriend of one year and I are going to be apart this summer. About two months. I know it's not a huge amount of time compared to my mom and dad's 9 months when they were young. But the longest we've been apart is about two weeks. And we're not huge phone people. Granted, we'll both be working hardcore this summer, it's still going to be hard.
Any advice? I plan on sending him a package every week of food or some of my clothes. And before I leave to go back home I'm going to give him my perfume. What else should I do? Any creative things I could do to make this easier?
We both know we're strong and we don't have any doubts about our relationship, but we don't want to be apart that long! It's kind of ruining our summers.
Thanks guys for your help!Long distance relationship advice?
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Any advice? I plan on sending him a package every week of food or some of my clothes. And before I leave to go back home I'm going to give him my perfume. What else should I do? Any creative things I could do to make this easier?
We both know we're strong and we don't have any doubts about our relationship, but we don't want to be apart that long! It's kind of ruining our summers.
Thanks guys for your help!Long distance relationship advice?
Buy him a web cam so you guys can use live chattingLong distance relationship advice?
facebook or myspace
Long Distance Relationship advice please?
I've been ';with'; this guy for a year now, it's a long distance relationship, we met on the internet and havent met in life but have webcammed and stuff.
When we first got together and started getting to know each other we had so much in common, he seemed so perfect for me, I knew it was going to be difficult with the distance and stuff, but never really expected it to go so deep. He knows every single thing about me now and I just can't seem to walk away from him.
The first 4/5 months (which at the time I didn't know about) he was flirting with this other girl over the internet and left me for her, but then we got back two days after, and he just said he was worried about the distance and it was her persuading him to leave me, he lives in the USA, I live in the UK.
June we were fine, still recovering from finding out he'd been flirting on me behind my back, he still flirted with online friends, but as far as I know, it was never as heavy as before.
He decided to go to camp in late July/August, where I decided to end it as it was really stressful being able to trust him, six days after we split, he got sexual with another girl at camp for just a weekend, she was a **** and did this to many guys at her stay in camp. He apologised saying he was depressed, crying to me over the phone, I eventually gave him ';one last chance';, where he promised he'd change his ways for me.
In august/september we were going through a rough time, I was having a hard time coping with what he'd done, even if we were broken up at the time he was sending me texts and we were planning to get together. I made him send me his chat logs with the girl he had been flirting with all January-May and my heart shattered, all along it was him pursuing the flirting and questioning himself whether to leave me for her or not, he admitted he never really loved me all these months but did now and still wanted to change for me.
He lies about everything to me, he lied about looking at porn and instances with other girls where ';nothing happened'; so he didnt want to ';worry me';. Recently he's been getting friendly with this girl from his high school who's pretty and popular, but used to bully him, he says he doesnt want her to hate him, so he's nice to her back, she seems to be texting and calling him all the time and he's had her in his car a few times for lifts home from school and such, and once when she was drunk. It makes me feel very insecure due to his past and he said he'd calm it down and ignore her for me, but I recently found out she'd been texting him and asking if he wanted to hang out, he told me he had ';hinted'; to her that he couldnt do that with her but he said ';she must not of taken the hint';. I feel like he's lying to me, I don't feel like he truly loves me although he claims he loves me 100% and only me and is 100% committed to me (I doubt he even knows what that means), he's proved himself to be very attention seeking and it seems any other offer with girls to ';hook up'; he will willingly take.
I love him, so ******* much, he's my first ever ';serious'; boyfriend, even though he's ';online'; we have been planning to meet ever since we got together and he seems to perfect and I just can't let him go, but he's really really hurt me and now he seems to be getting involved with this other girl now, how can I ever compete when she's right there and she has classes with him? He says he's changed, when I tell him he hasn't he says ';he wants to';, my Christmas and New Year were ruined by him, we planned to spend them both online together, watching movies and stuff but that all messed up and I ended up going to bed early upset, he just doesnt seem to bother with me anymore but as soon as I try to call it off, he keeps talking me back.
We're not exactly ';in'; a relationship, we havent been since September, we have been planning to get back together in summer when he was planning to come to England to see me, but then.. he just doesnt seem to care, and then he says he loves me 100%, he's confusing the **** out of me, I've tried talking to him, he doesn't understand how much he's really hurt me.
What do you think I should do? Should I just leave the pathetic lying sociopath or should I stick it out for something which could be perfect when we're together in real life.Long Distance Relationship advice please?
Wow, sweetheart.
I would understand the reason you'd have to go under all this drama if you met him and dated him BEFORE you lived far from each other. But babe, you met him online which is very dangerous and people aren't often themselves when they're online as opposed to how they'd be in person.
Just think of this:
If he's unfaithful to you already when he's away from you, what makes you think he'll be any different if you guys happen to live close to each other in the future. He really isn't worth it - and LDR with a guy who flirts with other girls and is shady in general is not worth it.
I hope you'll take this advice to heart and find someone in your general area that will appreciate you for the bright girl you are. You don't want to mess with this jerk - as he'll only cause you heartbreak by messing with other girls because you're an ocean away.
You may think you love him now because every first love feels like they're your entire life, but trust me- when you find a guy that's worth your time and is loyal and makes you laugh, you'll regret you even wasted time on this guy.
It worked for me. :]Long Distance Relationship advice please?
Enjoy and forget 2nd moment may not in your favor
all i can i say is WOW. having a relationship in the internet for a year and haven't met each other in person is crazy. you must really care for this guy. on the other hand, being in a relationship should be fun and full of life. you shouldn't be stressing. maybe you two are perfect for each other, who knows. but if you seem to be confuse, stressed, backstabbed, and jealous, maybe you two shouldnt be together at this moment. i think you should take a break from this guy and enjoy life.
When we first got together and started getting to know each other we had so much in common, he seemed so perfect for me, I knew it was going to be difficult with the distance and stuff, but never really expected it to go so deep. He knows every single thing about me now and I just can't seem to walk away from him.
The first 4/5 months (which at the time I didn't know about) he was flirting with this other girl over the internet and left me for her, but then we got back two days after, and he just said he was worried about the distance and it was her persuading him to leave me, he lives in the USA, I live in the UK.
June we were fine, still recovering from finding out he'd been flirting on me behind my back, he still flirted with online friends, but as far as I know, it was never as heavy as before.
He decided to go to camp in late July/August, where I decided to end it as it was really stressful being able to trust him, six days after we split, he got sexual with another girl at camp for just a weekend, she was a **** and did this to many guys at her stay in camp. He apologised saying he was depressed, crying to me over the phone, I eventually gave him ';one last chance';, where he promised he'd change his ways for me.
In august/september we were going through a rough time, I was having a hard time coping with what he'd done, even if we were broken up at the time he was sending me texts and we were planning to get together. I made him send me his chat logs with the girl he had been flirting with all January-May and my heart shattered, all along it was him pursuing the flirting and questioning himself whether to leave me for her or not, he admitted he never really loved me all these months but did now and still wanted to change for me.
He lies about everything to me, he lied about looking at porn and instances with other girls where ';nothing happened'; so he didnt want to ';worry me';. Recently he's been getting friendly with this girl from his high school who's pretty and popular, but used to bully him, he says he doesnt want her to hate him, so he's nice to her back, she seems to be texting and calling him all the time and he's had her in his car a few times for lifts home from school and such, and once when she was drunk. It makes me feel very insecure due to his past and he said he'd calm it down and ignore her for me, but I recently found out she'd been texting him and asking if he wanted to hang out, he told me he had ';hinted'; to her that he couldnt do that with her but he said ';she must not of taken the hint';. I feel like he's lying to me, I don't feel like he truly loves me although he claims he loves me 100% and only me and is 100% committed to me (I doubt he even knows what that means), he's proved himself to be very attention seeking and it seems any other offer with girls to ';hook up'; he will willingly take.
I love him, so ******* much, he's my first ever ';serious'; boyfriend, even though he's ';online'; we have been planning to meet ever since we got together and he seems to perfect and I just can't let him go, but he's really really hurt me and now he seems to be getting involved with this other girl now, how can I ever compete when she's right there and she has classes with him? He says he's changed, when I tell him he hasn't he says ';he wants to';, my Christmas and New Year were ruined by him, we planned to spend them both online together, watching movies and stuff but that all messed up and I ended up going to bed early upset, he just doesnt seem to bother with me anymore but as soon as I try to call it off, he keeps talking me back.
We're not exactly ';in'; a relationship, we havent been since September, we have been planning to get back together in summer when he was planning to come to England to see me, but then.. he just doesnt seem to care, and then he says he loves me 100%, he's confusing the **** out of me, I've tried talking to him, he doesn't understand how much he's really hurt me.
What do you think I should do? Should I just leave the pathetic lying sociopath or should I stick it out for something which could be perfect when we're together in real life.Long Distance Relationship advice please?
Wow, sweetheart.
I would understand the reason you'd have to go under all this drama if you met him and dated him BEFORE you lived far from each other. But babe, you met him online which is very dangerous and people aren't often themselves when they're online as opposed to how they'd be in person.
Just think of this:
If he's unfaithful to you already when he's away from you, what makes you think he'll be any different if you guys happen to live close to each other in the future. He really isn't worth it - and LDR with a guy who flirts with other girls and is shady in general is not worth it.
I hope you'll take this advice to heart and find someone in your general area that will appreciate you for the bright girl you are. You don't want to mess with this jerk - as he'll only cause you heartbreak by messing with other girls because you're an ocean away.
You may think you love him now because every first love feels like they're your entire life, but trust me- when you find a guy that's worth your time and is loyal and makes you laugh, you'll regret you even wasted time on this guy.
It worked for me. :]Long Distance Relationship advice please?
Enjoy and forget 2nd moment may not in your favor
all i can i say is WOW. having a relationship in the internet for a year and haven't met each other in person is crazy. you must really care for this guy. on the other hand, being in a relationship should be fun and full of life. you shouldn't be stressing. maybe you two are perfect for each other, who knows. but if you seem to be confuse, stressed, backstabbed, and jealous, maybe you two shouldnt be together at this moment. i think you should take a break from this guy and enjoy life.
I need advice on how to play HARD TO GET in a LONG DISTANCE relationship!!?
I've been dating this guy for a little more than a month now and I know he LOOVEESS the ';Chase';. hes an adventurous sagittarius and likes knowing that he has to work to get me. it was easy to play hard to get when i was with him but now we're long distance and i won't see him for another month or so. in the mean time i want him to get more and more intrigued by me and make sure i keep him on his toes and play veryyy hard to get (thats what he likes). How exactly do i play hard to get in a long distance relationship tho? PLEASE i NEED ADVICE! as of right now, we talk about once a week - i make sure to only have him call me, this way i don't seem like im pursuing/chasing him. WHAT ELSE CAN I DO TO PLAY HARD TO GET? for instance, how can i play 'hard to get' while on the phone with him?? should i ever text or call him? or is that considered me chasing him?? please i wanna be exciting and fun! its how i am when im with him -im extremely coy, but im not sure how to play that long distance?!I need advice on how to play HARD TO GET in a LONG DISTANCE relationship!!?
Sounds like an exhausting way to spend a relationship. What happens in the future when your out of surprises? A LDR takes a lot of work and being hard to get is not one of them.
Sounds like an exhausting way to spend a relationship. What happens in the future when your out of surprises? A LDR takes a lot of work and being hard to get is not one of them.
Any advice how can I move on from my past serious long-distance relationship?
I really love this girl so much..She is my life.. And I did everything I could to make her happy even if we are long distance relationship.. Then last November 1, our relationship starts to be in chaos.. She became cold to me, and barely calling or texting me. I was depressed then and last week, we broke up. Now I'm facing the hardest challenge of my life losing my girlfriend I loved very very much. I don't know how to move on.. Can I still move on? or is there any hope for me and my life now that she's gone? Or any advices or ideas? thanks..Any advice how can I move on from my past serious long-distance relationship?
I know it's really tough, but you've gotta look at it this way. There are 7 billion (plus) people on this earth, and she was just was one them. I went through the exact some thing some time ago when I started college, after about a 3 year relationship. I was crushed and I couldn't stop thinking about her. But you have to do exactly that, stop . . and think. Think about yourself. Especially if you did nothing wrong, don't beat yourself up over it. She's the one that will be missing out later. Do whatever you can to not think about her. The best cure for this is space and doing other things to take your mind off of it. If it's really meant to be, don't talk to her for awhile and see if she attempts to reach you or anything.
I know it's really tough, but you've gotta look at it this way. There are 7 billion (plus) people on this earth, and she was just was one them. I went through the exact some thing some time ago when I started college, after about a 3 year relationship. I was crushed and I couldn't stop thinking about her. But you have to do exactly that, stop . . and think. Think about yourself. Especially if you did nothing wrong, don't beat yourself up over it. She's the one that will be missing out later. Do whatever you can to not think about her. The best cure for this is space and doing other things to take your mind off of it. If it's really meant to be, don't talk to her for awhile and see if she attempts to reach you or anything.
Is a long distance relationship manageable when the person lives in another country? Looking for advice.?
I met this person on myspace, never thinking anything would happen just a friendly hello now and then. It has been a long time since I have ever felt something strong for someone and not have even met them but something tells me I need to. It wouldn't matter so much if she was in the same state or more, it be easy for me every other weekend or so, but she lives in Mexico and the violence I have heard about worries me including my close family.
She also just recently got out a LDR herself from here (texas) and she told me she does not want to pursue anything like that since they never met either nor would he get his passport to make an effort... just got mad and broke it off when she could get her Visa. I on the other hand have requested my passport and she is also trying to reapply for hers.
Currently we agreed all now is friendship, the primary basic for anything to develop from. She has told me she liked me too, we talk almost every day, and would very much like to see me. Do you think we could make this workable? Would I be somewhat safe visiting close to where she is (close to Monterey) or border town like Reynosa? Anyone that may have a similar situation please advise.Is a long distance relationship manageable when the person lives in another country? Looking for advice.?
You should keep your relationship with her. My parents had a long distance relationship. They met at a college dance and my dad spent 4 hours every weekend on a train just to visit my mom and spend time with her. After about 2 or 3 years, my dad moved to US (to continure schooling) and they patiently waited for each other until they got married. Their love for each other conquered the fact that they were in seperate places across the globe. Good luck :)Is a long distance relationship manageable when the person lives in another country? Looking for advice.?
I m thousand miles away from my fiance, we met on internet also, his from austalia and i'm from philippines. we're going 1 year next month, and i'm now waiting for my fiancee visa to be granted. (hopefully before christmas). It's really not that easy it's so stressfull and frustrating..mostly after you've been able to see each other in person then you or you're bf/gf needs to go back to his/her country. But if you know to your heart that his/she is really the one that you've been looking for all of your life. You'll do everything to make your realtionship last. As they saying that LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDERIES.buy make up eye make up
She also just recently got out a LDR herself from here (texas) and she told me she does not want to pursue anything like that since they never met either nor would he get his passport to make an effort... just got mad and broke it off when she could get her Visa. I on the other hand have requested my passport and she is also trying to reapply for hers.
Currently we agreed all now is friendship, the primary basic for anything to develop from. She has told me she liked me too, we talk almost every day, and would very much like to see me. Do you think we could make this workable? Would I be somewhat safe visiting close to where she is (close to Monterey) or border town like Reynosa? Anyone that may have a similar situation please advise.Is a long distance relationship manageable when the person lives in another country? Looking for advice.?
You should keep your relationship with her. My parents had a long distance relationship. They met at a college dance and my dad spent 4 hours every weekend on a train just to visit my mom and spend time with her. After about 2 or 3 years, my dad moved to US (to continure schooling) and they patiently waited for each other until they got married. Their love for each other conquered the fact that they were in seperate places across the globe. Good luck :)Is a long distance relationship manageable when the person lives in another country? Looking for advice.?
I m thousand miles away from my fiance, we met on internet also, his from austalia and i'm from philippines. we're going 1 year next month, and i'm now waiting for my fiancee visa to be granted. (hopefully before christmas). It's really not that easy it's so stressfull and frustrating..mostly after you've been able to see each other in person then you or you're bf/gf needs to go back to his/her country. But if you know to your heart that his/she is really the one that you've been looking for all of your life. You'll do everything to make your realtionship last. As they saying that LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDERIES.
I am in a long distance relationship with an Egyptian guy any one out there have any advice?
We met online over a month ago. we talk every day both on-line and on the phone. I am planing a trip to egypt in a few months to met him. he has alredy asked me to marry him and i relly want to but i need advice. I love but i really dont know much about him every time i ask he about his life in egypt he tells me all will be explained when i come to him. if there are any girls that have marryed or dates egyptain guy out there any info you would like to give me would be greatly welcomed thanks.I am in a long distance relationship with an Egyptian guy any one out there have any advice?
I would advise you to not go see anyone like that when you know next to nothing about this person. Think, they can kidnap you and who could people back home look for and what do they know about him to help track him down.
It has been only a month and he jumps to marriage, and you do not see this as a sign of trouble. Wake Up !!
If you knew him for a year, you still can't be that certain, why can you and he not meet mid-way.
The way this is you are taking all the risk, you are spending the money to travel, and it is your safety that could be in question. You need to ask yourself, how many other girls has he asked to travel and marry him, since he asked you so soon I am sure he played the routine before just shortened the time it took for him to aske the question. That way if the answer is no then he can drop ya and troll for his next target.
Also, Egypt is one of the countries with very prominent social lines of division from the upper class to the lower class, and next to no middle class. Which means, about 80% of the country is in the two classes, you are either rich or dirt poor. Rich people would not troll the internet for a wife.I am in a long distance relationship with an Egyptian guy any one out there have any advice?
There are scams where men from outside of the US, flirt and use romance to get money off women from the US. Be VERY careful. If you suspect all is not well, search for ';Romance scam'; on Yahoo. There are groups set up to help and support people who have become victims of this.
Any man who does not answer questions about his life is VERY suspicious, and I wpuld suggest that you DO NOT go to Egypt until you know him better and then only if you have your own hotel room and do not depend on him for accomodation
Are you nuts? Do you fancy wearing a blanket over your face and be kidnapped to slave after his whole family, or worse?
let me tell u something
its ok to like someone on the net, but marriage thing is not that easy, u have to meet him in person first, u have to get to know him better.
i'm Egyptian, but the thing here is not because he is egyptian, its because u didnt see him thats all.
and dont listen to those people who tell u ur gonna wear veil and cover ur whole body n stuff like that, egypt is the most free country in the arab world, i'm not veiled and many other girls arent.
my advice to u as a girl, not as an egyptian, just dont get too close before u meet him and get to know him better, take ur time, no rush.
i would've told u the same if u were talking about an american, chinese, european...etc.
think of it as a visit to egypt, and when u meet him see if u like him as much as u did on the phone or not, then make up ur mind.
best of luck :)
be careful that you don't end up in his harem.
Dont Do It!!!!
I See Disaster In The Horizon... Yes Go To Egypt. But No Not To See OR MARRY HIM!
Women are most definitely the dumbest species on this planet. WHY DOESN';T HE COME TO YOU?
wow - he wants to marry you -- but he has never met you! Please run, run, run -- and don't look back. You are setting yourself up for major trouble over here.....
There is something wrong if he is so evasive. Don't go.
Plus are you ready to convert?
if there are any girls that have marryed or dates egyptain guy out there any info you would like to give me would be greatly welcomed thanks.
Princess D I A N A
you gotta be out of your mind to do that!
you have NO IDEEA what are you getting into.
I love but i really dont know much about him every time i ask he about his life in egypt he tells me all will be explained when i come to him......he knows why really, really, well! and he doesn't want to tell you ahead the time! and i know it too I've been there....if he wants to marry an egyptian woman, he must pay up to 6 lbs of gold.....for you? nothing. zip, nada... in their minds you have no value......once married in there, you can't get out (lets say you wanna divorce, or come back see your folks, or you do not like living in there, your passport is taken ...baby you are trapped in there i wish you the best , and a church bell to ring loud in your head to wake you up before is too late.....why do you wanna put yourself and your parents in such a situation?????
Its a differit culture baby, NO FREEDOM for you, NO LIBERTIES.. Happy New Year!
Don't do it..
Break it off..
Don't go to Egypt...
Women in Egypt don't have the same rights as women have in western countries. And this is especially true when it comes to custody of children. In Egypt, it's the man who automatically gets the custody of children in any marital dispute or divorce.
I suggest that you spend some time in Egypt and experience for yourself their culture and their way of relating to women, before you decide to get married.
'Look before you leap' is always a good advice to follow.
When you ask him things, he tells you all will be explained when you two meet in person??? What kind of a response is that? Don't EVER let a man tell you that! When you ask them something and they respond like that, something's not right, so demand the answer there and then. And MARRY him? What?? Come on, now! Stand up for your personal beliefs, personal way of life, and tell him strongly that you don't fit ready for marriage and that you two don't know each other well enough to be married. One month and meeting online and wanting to marry each other? Doesn't sound a good deal to me.
Don't tell him ANYTHING personal!!!! NOTHING at all. Don't send him a pic yet either (I hope you haven't)... Not a good idea. Know him for some time more, ok? When you go to Egypt (NOT alone, by the way) and see him in person and all, see how he is then. Do you still like him like that? Don't rush into anything; don't make quick decisions; don't jump to conclusions too quickly either. You don't wanna know him just through the computer/phone, or then add even a few months in person. Marriage is a serious thing that requires serious thinking together with the person you wanna marry and serious thinking alone by you. I personally think you should know the person for at least a year (I prefer 2, though) before marryin him/her, regardless of the age.
I wish you best of luck, and, oh.... Happy new year to all out there!
omg
where is your brain?
Online dating is bad enough with local guys let alone guys in a different country.
You gotta ask yourself WHY can't he find someone local? Why can't you find someone local?
Also you gotta understand that guys from that part of the world think women are second class citizens and you might find him charming at first...but eventually he will either just want to get to the UNITED STATEs or he will treat you poorly.
Get a grip on yourself. Going to Egypt alone???
Please have someone with you or make him come here and make sure you have someone with you all the time.
Please please be caureful. NO one can really know what someone is like online.
I know a couple of guys who went over seas to meet a woman. and they were taken for all they were worth. It is a nightmare story.
Please don't be the next story on the front of News Paper.
Women and girls get sold in to sex slavery....and lets hope you arn't fair complected or blonde.
Do your parents know what you are doing?
Please please don't go!!
I would advise you to not go see anyone like that when you know next to nothing about this person. Think, they can kidnap you and who could people back home look for and what do they know about him to help track him down.
It has been only a month and he jumps to marriage, and you do not see this as a sign of trouble. Wake Up !!
If you knew him for a year, you still can't be that certain, why can you and he not meet mid-way.
The way this is you are taking all the risk, you are spending the money to travel, and it is your safety that could be in question. You need to ask yourself, how many other girls has he asked to travel and marry him, since he asked you so soon I am sure he played the routine before just shortened the time it took for him to aske the question. That way if the answer is no then he can drop ya and troll for his next target.
Also, Egypt is one of the countries with very prominent social lines of division from the upper class to the lower class, and next to no middle class. Which means, about 80% of the country is in the two classes, you are either rich or dirt poor. Rich people would not troll the internet for a wife.I am in a long distance relationship with an Egyptian guy any one out there have any advice?
There are scams where men from outside of the US, flirt and use romance to get money off women from the US. Be VERY careful. If you suspect all is not well, search for ';Romance scam'; on Yahoo. There are groups set up to help and support people who have become victims of this.
Any man who does not answer questions about his life is VERY suspicious, and I wpuld suggest that you DO NOT go to Egypt until you know him better and then only if you have your own hotel room and do not depend on him for accomodation
Are you nuts? Do you fancy wearing a blanket over your face and be kidnapped to slave after his whole family, or worse?
let me tell u something
its ok to like someone on the net, but marriage thing is not that easy, u have to meet him in person first, u have to get to know him better.
i'm Egyptian, but the thing here is not because he is egyptian, its because u didnt see him thats all.
and dont listen to those people who tell u ur gonna wear veil and cover ur whole body n stuff like that, egypt is the most free country in the arab world, i'm not veiled and many other girls arent.
my advice to u as a girl, not as an egyptian, just dont get too close before u meet him and get to know him better, take ur time, no rush.
i would've told u the same if u were talking about an american, chinese, european...etc.
think of it as a visit to egypt, and when u meet him see if u like him as much as u did on the phone or not, then make up ur mind.
best of luck :)
be careful that you don't end up in his harem.
Dont Do It!!!!
I See Disaster In The Horizon... Yes Go To Egypt. But No Not To See OR MARRY HIM!
Women are most definitely the dumbest species on this planet. WHY DOESN';T HE COME TO YOU?
wow - he wants to marry you -- but he has never met you! Please run, run, run -- and don't look back. You are setting yourself up for major trouble over here.....
There is something wrong if he is so evasive. Don't go.
Plus are you ready to convert?
if there are any girls that have marryed or dates egyptain guy out there any info you would like to give me would be greatly welcomed thanks.
Princess D I A N A
you gotta be out of your mind to do that!
you have NO IDEEA what are you getting into.
I love but i really dont know much about him every time i ask he about his life in egypt he tells me all will be explained when i come to him......he knows why really, really, well! and he doesn't want to tell you ahead the time! and i know it too I've been there....if he wants to marry an egyptian woman, he must pay up to 6 lbs of gold.....for you? nothing. zip, nada... in their minds you have no value......once married in there, you can't get out (lets say you wanna divorce, or come back see your folks, or you do not like living in there, your passport is taken ...baby you are trapped in there i wish you the best , and a church bell to ring loud in your head to wake you up before is too late.....why do you wanna put yourself and your parents in such a situation?????
Its a differit culture baby, NO FREEDOM for you, NO LIBERTIES.. Happy New Year!
Don't do it..
Break it off..
Don't go to Egypt...
Women in Egypt don't have the same rights as women have in western countries. And this is especially true when it comes to custody of children. In Egypt, it's the man who automatically gets the custody of children in any marital dispute or divorce.
I suggest that you spend some time in Egypt and experience for yourself their culture and their way of relating to women, before you decide to get married.
'Look before you leap' is always a good advice to follow.
When you ask him things, he tells you all will be explained when you two meet in person??? What kind of a response is that? Don't EVER let a man tell you that! When you ask them something and they respond like that, something's not right, so demand the answer there and then. And MARRY him? What?? Come on, now! Stand up for your personal beliefs, personal way of life, and tell him strongly that you don't fit ready for marriage and that you two don't know each other well enough to be married. One month and meeting online and wanting to marry each other? Doesn't sound a good deal to me.
Don't tell him ANYTHING personal!!!! NOTHING at all. Don't send him a pic yet either (I hope you haven't)... Not a good idea. Know him for some time more, ok? When you go to Egypt (NOT alone, by the way) and see him in person and all, see how he is then. Do you still like him like that? Don't rush into anything; don't make quick decisions; don't jump to conclusions too quickly either. You don't wanna know him just through the computer/phone, or then add even a few months in person. Marriage is a serious thing that requires serious thinking together with the person you wanna marry and serious thinking alone by you. I personally think you should know the person for at least a year (I prefer 2, though) before marryin him/her, regardless of the age.
I wish you best of luck, and, oh.... Happy new year to all out there!
omg
where is your brain?
Online dating is bad enough with local guys let alone guys in a different country.
You gotta ask yourself WHY can't he find someone local? Why can't you find someone local?
Also you gotta understand that guys from that part of the world think women are second class citizens and you might find him charming at first...but eventually he will either just want to get to the UNITED STATEs or he will treat you poorly.
Get a grip on yourself. Going to Egypt alone???
Please have someone with you or make him come here and make sure you have someone with you all the time.
Please please be caureful. NO one can really know what someone is like online.
I know a couple of guys who went over seas to meet a woman. and they were taken for all they were worth. It is a nightmare story.
Please don't be the next story on the front of News Paper.
Women and girls get sold in to sex slavery....and lets hope you arn't fair complected or blonde.
Do your parents know what you are doing?
Please please don't go!!
Long distance relationship advice.. please.?
i know it seems kinda stupid and crazy
but my parents and my friends know about him
and i'm really in love with him
i was suppost to meet him for the first time next week
we've been together for almost 7 months.
he had health issues and couldn't make it
so he promised as soon as his treatment was over which should be this august, he would come and start college here.
should i stick with him?
i want to
but i'm not sure if how in love i am is overpowering my common sense.Long distance relationship advice.. please.?
so you haven't met him before? and you been with him for 7 months? doesnt sound right to me.. long distance relationship don't work more chance of him cheating.
but my parents and my friends know about him
and i'm really in love with him
i was suppost to meet him for the first time next week
we've been together for almost 7 months.
he had health issues and couldn't make it
so he promised as soon as his treatment was over which should be this august, he would come and start college here.
should i stick with him?
i want to
but i'm not sure if how in love i am is overpowering my common sense.Long distance relationship advice.. please.?
so you haven't met him before? and you been with him for 7 months? doesnt sound right to me.. long distance relationship don't work more chance of him cheating.
Long distance relationship advice?
I met this man on true.com and he lives locally by me but his work takes him to the middle east and Russia consistantly. We had this instant connection and things have been going wonderful and even talking about commitments and we even both cancelled our account for true. Lately he has gotten very self absorbed in work and it did bother me but mostly since it was the holidays. Anyways I thought things were getting better but last night we chatted and he kept bringing up his bad habits and how he cant change who he is and I told him I dont want to change him. I felt as if he was trying to give me an ';out';. Not really sure on how to handle this or should I just let things calm down. I was thinking of telling him how I felt but I dont want to push things. He did mention to be he does not want to disappointment me or have me disallusioned and wants me to be happy and does not want to hurt me. I guess trying to read what he is wanting and the fact he is 10,000 miles away and wont be home till early March is difficult. He was supposed to be home this next week but work issues put a wrench into that plan and he knows I was disappointed since we had all these plans made. He did at one point talk long term permanent relationship but lately he is constantly concerned if I can handle his life style. Any advice I have not dated in over 23 years so getting back into the swing of things is hard and I have been divorced about 2 yrs.Long distance relationship advice?
It could be alot of things. It could be that he REALLY dosent think you're ready to handle his lifestyle.It also could be that he really is trying to give you an ''out''.Maybe he's just not as ready as you are. To me it sounds like he's being reasonable. You guys live 10,000 miles away from eachother, he's working all the time ...he only knows how to deal with one life right now and thats his. The only way to find out exactly where you guys stand is by talking to him.Tell him how you really feel.Tell him whats bothering you and that you do want to work on a relationship with him. Maybe it'll open up his eyes to your feelings and he'll stop giving you the ''out'' feeling. Communication is everything.If you're not telling him how you feel, how do you expect him to know? Once you tell him how you feel and you guys talk about everything...see how things flow from there.You'll know when something isnt going to work out and when it will(atleast you feel as if it will).Best of Luck Sweety :)Long distance relationship advice?
i think that you have already figured it out yourself. he's not as interested in you as you are in him. you'd better re-open your true.com account.
Tell him that u sense something is wrong with your relationship. ask him what is wrong and tell him that he could be honest with you even if its a bad thing. I had the same problem with my man who I met in a yahoo chat room. He is also 10,000 away from me in Romania. I felt him emotionally distant and when I brought it up and told him he finally told me it was because he was having problems at work with his boss. Let him know flat out that he can tell you anything good or bad. ask him whats wrong and he will tell you. Just communicate with him. tell him how you feel. It might be that he is unaware of what you are feeling.
goodluck!!!!!
I agree with BonesofaTeacher...i am in a long distance relationship. my boyfriend is in the army and we only see each other a couple of times in about 5 months. And with deployment i wont see him for another year.
If he was really into you he would be counting down the days until he sees you. Re-evaulate yourself. Since you havent dated in so long are you just afraid of going out again? Can you deal with the distance? Flat out ask him what his priorities are and where you guys see the relationship in the future. You obviously cannot make him pick between the job and you but maybe both of you need to get your priorities straight.
tell him how you feel about him.. Not too strongly.. Just a little at a time, but you really do need to take into consideration his feelings, and his feelings for his work..
iif you really love him i think you should try,but let me tell you it is really really hard to keep the same fellings whem you are miles away from the loved one special if somebody new shows up thats why is very important to you to be honest special whith yourself and than with him, stop think about and make the right decision wich will be better for both of you. good luck on your decision and do not forget to listen to your hearth and let jesus take the well.
If you're not happy in the relationship, end it. If you are both happy the way things are, he will find ways to remind you of his true feelings, even when he is halfway around the world.
For example, my father is in the military and got shipped to Iraq. While he was gone, he arranged to have flowers delivered to my step-mother weekly, along with little notes that he cared.
he does not want you.
if he wanted you he would be saying
';only 5 more weeks and i'll come home baby and it will be great and lets get married next year, i'll try to get a less traveling job and maybe you can come with me on some of the trips';
he is trying to dump you.
just being kind letting you down easy, making it 'his' fault.
he is dumping you.
love has no boundries so go for if u love him if not then leave it alone
don't do it....long distance= red flag.
keep talk ing to him and teel him how you feel. you never know he might be the one ot help you get into the game again
It could be alot of things. It could be that he REALLY dosent think you're ready to handle his lifestyle.It also could be that he really is trying to give you an ''out''.Maybe he's just not as ready as you are. To me it sounds like he's being reasonable. You guys live 10,000 miles away from eachother, he's working all the time ...he only knows how to deal with one life right now and thats his. The only way to find out exactly where you guys stand is by talking to him.Tell him how you really feel.Tell him whats bothering you and that you do want to work on a relationship with him. Maybe it'll open up his eyes to your feelings and he'll stop giving you the ''out'' feeling. Communication is everything.If you're not telling him how you feel, how do you expect him to know? Once you tell him how you feel and you guys talk about everything...see how things flow from there.You'll know when something isnt going to work out and when it will(atleast you feel as if it will).Best of Luck Sweety :)Long distance relationship advice?
i think that you have already figured it out yourself. he's not as interested in you as you are in him. you'd better re-open your true.com account.
Tell him that u sense something is wrong with your relationship. ask him what is wrong and tell him that he could be honest with you even if its a bad thing. I had the same problem with my man who I met in a yahoo chat room. He is also 10,000 away from me in Romania. I felt him emotionally distant and when I brought it up and told him he finally told me it was because he was having problems at work with his boss. Let him know flat out that he can tell you anything good or bad. ask him whats wrong and he will tell you. Just communicate with him. tell him how you feel. It might be that he is unaware of what you are feeling.
goodluck!!!!!
I agree with BonesofaTeacher...i am in a long distance relationship. my boyfriend is in the army and we only see each other a couple of times in about 5 months. And with deployment i wont see him for another year.
If he was really into you he would be counting down the days until he sees you. Re-evaulate yourself. Since you havent dated in so long are you just afraid of going out again? Can you deal with the distance? Flat out ask him what his priorities are and where you guys see the relationship in the future. You obviously cannot make him pick between the job and you but maybe both of you need to get your priorities straight.
tell him how you feel about him.. Not too strongly.. Just a little at a time, but you really do need to take into consideration his feelings, and his feelings for his work..
iif you really love him i think you should try,but let me tell you it is really really hard to keep the same fellings whem you are miles away from the loved one special if somebody new shows up thats why is very important to you to be honest special whith yourself and than with him, stop think about and make the right decision wich will be better for both of you. good luck on your decision and do not forget to listen to your hearth and let jesus take the well.
If you're not happy in the relationship, end it. If you are both happy the way things are, he will find ways to remind you of his true feelings, even when he is halfway around the world.
For example, my father is in the military and got shipped to Iraq. While he was gone, he arranged to have flowers delivered to my step-mother weekly, along with little notes that he cared.
he does not want you.
if he wanted you he would be saying
';only 5 more weeks and i'll come home baby and it will be great and lets get married next year, i'll try to get a less traveling job and maybe you can come with me on some of the trips';
he is trying to dump you.
just being kind letting you down easy, making it 'his' fault.
he is dumping you.
love has no boundries so go for if u love him if not then leave it alone
don't do it....long distance= red flag.
keep talk ing to him and teel him how you feel. you never know he might be the one ot help you get into the game again
My friend is in a long distance relationship. The gf kissed her ex though! He asks for advice, what do I say?
The sad part is that I like him =( and it breaks my heart to see him sad. What advise do you have for me?My friend is in a long distance relationship. The gf kissed her ex though! He asks for advice, what do I say?
tell your friend to think of himself in this situation and let him realize that he should love himself more than the love that he gives to an unfatihful girl wihich he doesn't deserve..but please don't make this situation be an advantage for you to be the next ';girl'; of him..unless he really likes you too..don't let yourself be the ';rebound'; material..My friend is in a long distance relationship. The gf kissed her ex though! He asks for advice, what do I say?
No one deserves an unfaithful partner. Ethically you can not withhold this from him.
Not sure about your question but I guss your friend in a long distance relationship is a guy? And what is the matter when the gf kissed her ex. It has nothing to do with him so let it be. There is nothing you can do to reverse it or have a say about it. Your friend just need to accept it and go find another gf.
tell your friend to think of himself in this situation and let him realize that he should love himself more than the love that he gives to an unfatihful girl wihich he doesn't deserve..but please don't make this situation be an advantage for you to be the next ';girl'; of him..unless he really likes you too..don't let yourself be the ';rebound'; material..My friend is in a long distance relationship. The gf kissed her ex though! He asks for advice, what do I say?
No one deserves an unfaithful partner. Ethically you can not withhold this from him.
Not sure about your question but I guss your friend in a long distance relationship is a guy? And what is the matter when the gf kissed her ex. It has nothing to do with him so let it be. There is nothing you can do to reverse it or have a say about it. Your friend just need to accept it and go find another gf.
Long distance relationship advice?
okay so...
i met this girl on a chat-room and we both clicked...
i HAVE seen her and she HAS seen me on a webcam, we have been talking for about a month and a half now and i have sent her love letters and she sends me emails and stuff, I love her so much and i never want to end it with her.
but shes 16 and im 18 and we are both still really involved in our education and stuff.
she graduates in 2011 and will then be going to college.
i want to know how i can make this work so that i will eventually be with her, like going out on dates and stuff.
any help will do!
thanks :)Long distance relationship advice?
As long as you both stay in regular contact and remain committed to each other, then anything is possible and you can manage to stay together. Just be wary if she starts to get distant and begins ignoring you, then makes excuses why you can't chat. However, hopefully this won't happen to you, good luck with it!Long distance relationship advice?
I live in Ireland and my two best friends in the whole world live in Wales and Oregon. They both recently came to visit me at the same time for a week and it was awesome, so I think you've got a pretty strong chance at maintaining a strong friendship. However, romantic relationships require physical contact, and I don't think you're going to get anywhere starting one via internet with a girl who lives on a different continent. Maybe you should just stay friends with her.
I fell in Love with an Australian online, I am from the UK. There has never been a time for us to cross paths and now I am moving on to persue my career in fashion and I still have 4 years of education left before I can make a life with him, people will always try to put you down about it but I think if you persue this, it could be the best desicion you made. It's never easy but it's worth it in the end.
sounds like yr doing ok
its down to yr relationship with her
i met this girl on a chat-room and we both clicked...
i HAVE seen her and she HAS seen me on a webcam, we have been talking for about a month and a half now and i have sent her love letters and she sends me emails and stuff, I love her so much and i never want to end it with her.
but shes 16 and im 18 and we are both still really involved in our education and stuff.
she graduates in 2011 and will then be going to college.
i want to know how i can make this work so that i will eventually be with her, like going out on dates and stuff.
any help will do!
thanks :)Long distance relationship advice?
As long as you both stay in regular contact and remain committed to each other, then anything is possible and you can manage to stay together. Just be wary if she starts to get distant and begins ignoring you, then makes excuses why you can't chat. However, hopefully this won't happen to you, good luck with it!Long distance relationship advice?
I live in Ireland and my two best friends in the whole world live in Wales and Oregon. They both recently came to visit me at the same time for a week and it was awesome, so I think you've got a pretty strong chance at maintaining a strong friendship. However, romantic relationships require physical contact, and I don't think you're going to get anywhere starting one via internet with a girl who lives on a different continent. Maybe you should just stay friends with her.
I fell in Love with an Australian online, I am from the UK. There has never been a time for us to cross paths and now I am moving on to persue my career in fashion and I still have 4 years of education left before I can make a life with him, people will always try to put you down about it but I think if you persue this, it could be the best desicion you made. It's never easy but it's worth it in the end.
sounds like yr doing ok
its down to yr relationship with her
Long Distance Relationship Advice?
My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half. We've been in a long distance relationship since the beginning of summer. She only lives an hour away but it's been very hard for us. She is doing a summer internship and it takes up a lot of her time. We've tried a lot of things but recently she told me that she doesn't feel very close to me anymore. We see each other once every week or two.
I feel that it shouldn't be this hard considering we are so close, but we are both poor and she's always busy. What can I do to help her feel closer to me? She told me that she wants to work on it but she doesn't know what I can do to help, or even why she feels so distant. We both have Skype, Facebook, Myspace, and AIM. I do little things like send her funny ecards and short love poems but I don't think it's enough. I am determined to make this relationship work and any advice you can give me would be helpful. If you have something negative to say please don't bother, I only want positive advice.Long Distance Relationship Advice?
Huney , I know this sounds harsh , and i know a year and a half was a long time!!!! And I hope you enjoyed that year and a half, but i have some good news for you buddy this is what i would do......BREAK UP WITH HER BEFORE SHE BREAKS UP WITH YOU!!!!
best of luck ;)Long Distance Relationship Advice?
I understand exactly what you're going through.But I think the best thing to do is just focus on the positive. Like the things that will happen once you guys begin to see each other on regular basis. And think back to the great times you spent with each other. There's no amount of distance that can come between what you guys have if its strong enough and worth fighting. And continue sending her e-cards and short those little things make up a big puzzle.
send her pictures of chuck norris and say that you've been working out and that its actually a picture of you...she'll think you're super badass
Caution: saying that you are chuck norris may result in a serious case of roundhouse kick to the face
An hour away isn't a long distance relationship. My hubby followed me from Ireland to Australia. That was long distance.
i feel that when u r talking about a grown man and a grown women the number 1 proven solution is to grow dick go over their **** her all night then leave her
then watch some prono movies and become gay then marry donald trumph
find som1 closer
long distance relationships are hard. ive watched older friends of mine go through them. even though summers just starting, just to ask does she walsy kow that youre going to see her before you get together? cause if not, i think maybe you should get a small job, just something thatll give you enough money to spend a day with her, suprise her when you now shell be able to see you and bring something you know shed love, her favoite flowers, her favorite baked good, anything like that reguardless of how old you guys might be. i know things like that really show a girl how much they mean to you. and i know shed love that.
if you guys have made it through a year so far, im sure this is just a rocky path that you guys will get through al couples go through tough spots like this and im sure youll get through it too i hope i helped at leas al little. and good luck!
-IF- does not work and she complains..ask her what yall wanan do.. maybe she likes someone else..? idk.. time will tell
.awh! how about you work.. like a small job , or help for like 50$ a week.. or something , just win something . and ask your friends to drive you there ..and she can get him a date too and you guys go in 1 room and your friend enjoyes his date..
i mean you can pay 20$ ..for the gas..Bak and forth together = 20 $
and maybe u can buy her little cute things.. and care abotu her.. and keep her hopes up on seen her..and stuff..
- thats a good idea i think.. but 1 hour??? Oh crap! aint that bad.. i been worse.. trust me.
Long distance relationships are always pretty hard...I've had to help a friend with one before.It's great you guys have lasted this long.I bet if you actually lived near each other you would be inseparable.You could try moving...but that would probably barely seem like an option..you could always try squeezing every last bit of your spare time to go see her.It's only an hour away.You should be seeing her more than once a week or two.I suppose thats the main thing.Good luck :/buy make up eye make up
I feel that it shouldn't be this hard considering we are so close, but we are both poor and she's always busy. What can I do to help her feel closer to me? She told me that she wants to work on it but she doesn't know what I can do to help, or even why she feels so distant. We both have Skype, Facebook, Myspace, and AIM. I do little things like send her funny ecards and short love poems but I don't think it's enough. I am determined to make this relationship work and any advice you can give me would be helpful. If you have something negative to say please don't bother, I only want positive advice.Long Distance Relationship Advice?
Huney , I know this sounds harsh , and i know a year and a half was a long time!!!! And I hope you enjoyed that year and a half, but i have some good news for you buddy this is what i would do......BREAK UP WITH HER BEFORE SHE BREAKS UP WITH YOU!!!!
best of luck ;)Long Distance Relationship Advice?
I understand exactly what you're going through.But I think the best thing to do is just focus on the positive. Like the things that will happen once you guys begin to see each other on regular basis. And think back to the great times you spent with each other. There's no amount of distance that can come between what you guys have if its strong enough and worth fighting. And continue sending her e-cards and short those little things make up a big puzzle.
send her pictures of chuck norris and say that you've been working out and that its actually a picture of you...she'll think you're super badass
Caution: saying that you are chuck norris may result in a serious case of roundhouse kick to the face
An hour away isn't a long distance relationship. My hubby followed me from Ireland to Australia. That was long distance.
i feel that when u r talking about a grown man and a grown women the number 1 proven solution is to grow dick go over their **** her all night then leave her
then watch some prono movies and become gay then marry donald trumph
find som1 closer
long distance relationships are hard. ive watched older friends of mine go through them. even though summers just starting, just to ask does she walsy kow that youre going to see her before you get together? cause if not, i think maybe you should get a small job, just something thatll give you enough money to spend a day with her, suprise her when you now shell be able to see you and bring something you know shed love, her favoite flowers, her favorite baked good, anything like that reguardless of how old you guys might be. i know things like that really show a girl how much they mean to you. and i know shed love that.
if you guys have made it through a year so far, im sure this is just a rocky path that you guys will get through al couples go through tough spots like this and im sure youll get through it too i hope i helped at leas al little. and good luck!
-IF- does not work and she complains..ask her what yall wanan do.. maybe she likes someone else..? idk.. time will tell
.awh! how about you work.. like a small job , or help for like 50$ a week.. or something , just win something . and ask your friends to drive you there ..and she can get him a date too and you guys go in 1 room and your friend enjoyes his date..
i mean you can pay 20$ ..for the gas..Bak and forth together = 20 $
and maybe u can buy her little cute things.. and care abotu her.. and keep her hopes up on seen her..and stuff..
- thats a good idea i think.. but 1 hour??? Oh crap! aint that bad.. i been worse.. trust me.
Long distance relationships are always pretty hard...I've had to help a friend with one before.It's great you guys have lasted this long.I bet if you actually lived near each other you would be inseparable.You could try moving...but that would probably barely seem like an option..you could always try squeezing every last bit of your spare time to go see her.It's only an hour away.You should be seeing her more than once a week or two.I suppose thats the main thing.Good luck :/
Long distance relationship advice?
i know what i am doing is my own business, but i would like other peoples help as well. i've been with my girlfriend a short 16 months, and most of this time (about 11 months) has been long distance. it's one of those things you know from the start is perfect, but we've fought several times about the stupidest of things. i love this girl with my entire heart, i really do.
i need some advice on how to be a better person for her, so she will never leave me. she tells me time and time again that she never will but i know that i need to change in order for that to happen..
help? -Long distance relationship advice?
well you can always try to tell her and be passionate about it... and do nice things... talk to her about her day and let her talk about herself... and listen to her and help her out... that will show her how much you care... seeing taht its long distance send her things through the mail and make her feel special =]
cheers!Long distance relationship advice?
that is sweet.. i have to tell you that relationships are not easy. they are one of the hardest things you will ever do. that sounds obvious, but its hard to understand until you are really in one. Me and my boyfriend also argue over the dumbest ****. there is a difference between arguing and fighting however.
My main advice is to talk about everything. anything you are thinking aboutin the relationship needs to be talked about; so everything is always out in the open.
don't do anything to change yourself. Be who you are and if she loves you back she will love you for exactly who you are. Of course there are little or even big things that we each need to change about ourselves, for example.. being selfish or mean. Little things that matter to someone else and that hurts. So be a better self because you want to. Not because she is forcing you to..
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i hope every thing works out.. i know long distance can be hard, but nothing can stop true love.
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well that depends if you can change. ie.. stop putting your feet on the table (is changable) , cleaning up after yourself (is changable) personal interests hunting fishing camping whatever (not changable) but taking up each others interests (is changable) and so on.....
I'm sorry, but why would you have to change if she says she loves you?
Long distance is always hard, but you shouldn't have to change yourself to make her happy.
i can't tell you what to do. I can't tell you to change. if she says that shes not going to leave you, then you should believe her.
And Good Luck!
all i can say is try your hardest to make things work,
if it was meant to be it was meant to be.
just dont give up if things start to go south
good. luck.
it never works...but good luck!
my brother has one it is not very good for socializing i'll tell you that
i need some advice on how to be a better person for her, so she will never leave me. she tells me time and time again that she never will but i know that i need to change in order for that to happen..
help? -Long distance relationship advice?
well you can always try to tell her and be passionate about it... and do nice things... talk to her about her day and let her talk about herself... and listen to her and help her out... that will show her how much you care... seeing taht its long distance send her things through the mail and make her feel special =]
cheers!Long distance relationship advice?
that is sweet.. i have to tell you that relationships are not easy. they are one of the hardest things you will ever do. that sounds obvious, but its hard to understand until you are really in one. Me and my boyfriend also argue over the dumbest ****. there is a difference between arguing and fighting however.
My main advice is to talk about everything. anything you are thinking aboutin the relationship needs to be talked about; so everything is always out in the open.
don't do anything to change yourself. Be who you are and if she loves you back she will love you for exactly who you are. Of course there are little or even big things that we each need to change about ourselves, for example.. being selfish or mean. Little things that matter to someone else and that hurts. So be a better self because you want to. Not because she is forcing you to..
:D
i hope every thing works out.. i know long distance can be hard, but nothing can stop true love.
%26lt;3
well that depends if you can change. ie.. stop putting your feet on the table (is changable) , cleaning up after yourself (is changable) personal interests hunting fishing camping whatever (not changable) but taking up each others interests (is changable) and so on.....
I'm sorry, but why would you have to change if she says she loves you?
Long distance is always hard, but you shouldn't have to change yourself to make her happy.
i can't tell you what to do. I can't tell you to change. if she says that shes not going to leave you, then you should believe her.
And Good Luck!
all i can say is try your hardest to make things work,
if it was meant to be it was meant to be.
just dont give up if things start to go south
good. luck.
it never works...but good luck!
my brother has one it is not very good for socializing i'll tell you that
Long distance relationship..how to deal with it???i keep thinking bout him everyday. any advice?
The key to a long distance relationship is constant communication, whether it's texts, calls, or IMing each other. You have to keep in touch a lot to make up for the time you can't be together. It's a lot of work to make it last, only people that are truly willing to make it work can keep a long distance relationship.
The other posters are right, don't give in to your weaknesses. If someone is there and you think you need to fill the void, don't do it. You'll only end up hurting your bf and even yourself in the long run.Long distance relationship..how to deal with it???i keep thinking bout him everyday. any advice?
I've been in a long-distance relationship (the distance being about 2 hours) for about the last 6 months...and I can honestly say that it's working, and that it makes me happier than anything. Be warned, though. These types of relationships, like any types, take WORK and INPUT on the relationship. If you feel the urge to cheat, or stray, you need to evaluate what the relationship means to you and how much you really want it to work.
As for thinking about him everyday, well, that's normal! Welcome to puppy love! Eventually, you'll need to learn how to balance him with your everyday life, but trust me, it is definitely doable.
I wish you luck! :)Long distance relationship..how to deal with it???i keep thinking bout him everyday. any advice?
omgsh whatever you do DO NOT cheat. ever. don't even think about it because believe me it sucks, it happened to me recently and i can't get over it. esp don't cheat because you find comfort in someone else because he's not there and talking to someone else because it keeps your mind off of him...its bad bad bad news! and just call him and he should call you and text A LOT. and just look forward to seeing him on the weekends or whenever you are going to see him. believe me its hard work and hard to pull off with weak relationships. but don't let it get in the way...just look forward to things and keep a positive attitude. it's okay to be sad in the beginning but things do get a little better, it's just really hard when you get to see him at last and then when he leaves again. but you can do it! :) keep your chin up! don't do something you will regret like i did :(
Don't do it. Long distance relationships means heart break.
The other posters are right, don't give in to your weaknesses. If someone is there and you think you need to fill the void, don't do it. You'll only end up hurting your bf and even yourself in the long run.Long distance relationship..how to deal with it???i keep thinking bout him everyday. any advice?
I've been in a long-distance relationship (the distance being about 2 hours) for about the last 6 months...and I can honestly say that it's working, and that it makes me happier than anything. Be warned, though. These types of relationships, like any types, take WORK and INPUT on the relationship. If you feel the urge to cheat, or stray, you need to evaluate what the relationship means to you and how much you really want it to work.
As for thinking about him everyday, well, that's normal! Welcome to puppy love! Eventually, you'll need to learn how to balance him with your everyday life, but trust me, it is definitely doable.
I wish you luck! :)Long distance relationship..how to deal with it???i keep thinking bout him everyday. any advice?
omgsh whatever you do DO NOT cheat. ever. don't even think about it because believe me it sucks, it happened to me recently and i can't get over it. esp don't cheat because you find comfort in someone else because he's not there and talking to someone else because it keeps your mind off of him...its bad bad bad news! and just call him and he should call you and text A LOT. and just look forward to seeing him on the weekends or whenever you are going to see him. believe me its hard work and hard to pull off with weak relationships. but don't let it get in the way...just look forward to things and keep a positive attitude. it's okay to be sad in the beginning but things do get a little better, it's just really hard when you get to see him at last and then when he leaves again. but you can do it! :) keep your chin up! don't do something you will regret like i did :(
Don't do it. Long distance relationships means heart break.
I am in a long distance relationship and can't stop crying. Can you please give me advice?
He and I have been together since August 2006, not very long, I know, but we lived together from October until yesterday. I'm a busy girl but he was the only thing that really made me happy. At the end of the day everything was ok because I had him. Now I have all this **** to do and no motivation. I'm in California and he is in the UK, we both have a year of college left.
Thing is, I can't stop crying. I've been crying on and off since he's left (not to mention the months before he left at the thought of not seeing him each day). I'm taking summer classes and he can't come back for a few years because of visa issues.
So the next time I'll see him? Maybe December, no later than January. How the **** am I going to do this? I'm so depressed but have no one to hold me and make it all better.
Maybe a few words of encouragement will make me feel better. Help please? Thank you :)I am in a long distance relationship and can't stop crying. Can you please give me advice?
I had this exact situation happen with me last December. I lived with a women from august to December over special circumstances and I had to move and leave her behind. I was devastated and tried to do as much as I could with her before I had to leave, and the day we had to part was really tough.
Try to get a hobby or a friend to talk to. Relieving stress would be a major thing to do right now. Talk it out with a friend or gear your energy toward something positive like painting or exercise. Running always clears my head.
Try and keep it together. This must be just as hard for him as it is for you. Try to contact each other often, but try not to everyday. You could exclude yourself from everything else around you if you do. Just count the days until you will see each other again and stay positive.
Best of luck for you both!I am in a long distance relationship and can't stop crying. Can you please give me advice?
Hey, it's going to be okay. I don't know how your situation is but do whatever you have to do to be with him, even if it is moving out of the country with him.
if there's one thing i know-it's that being with the person you love just makes everything so easy. Go With Him. You Need Him In Your Life
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what? there's no men in California?
just stop thinking about it.. do other stuff instead of thinking about it.. u will be alright as time goes by.. u guys haven't even broke up!!!! it's just a matter of time when u will be able 2 see him again!! u will see him again
end this and it will make ur life better . u cannot keep on crying forthe reat of the day, u must run ur life and he had run his~!!!! REMEMBER THIS THE NEXT WILL BE BETTER . LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IS HARD TO MAINTAIN UNLESS U BOTH TRUST EACH OTHER .
Megan, try and calm down for a moment. As I live in California, I can hold you and listen to you and offer this bit of advice. Could you finish your last year in school in Britain? Begin in September or sooner and finish in June of 2008? If you go to school there, his visa issues would be a moot point. It still might be a little complicated, but the thought of you incessantly crying your eyes out is a real heartbreaker.
I understand that and I am in the same situation as you are now (except for they are my parents). Why don't you call him, use webcams or something like that. You can see your boyfriend and he can also see you. Good luck
go to www.skype.com
take up some hobbies or go out with your friends to take your mind off him. it's hard since you don't see each other anymore but the time apart will make your relationship stronger. hang in there.
I wonder if hes worth it. does he call alot? good luck
do you limit yourself?
you never been in love until now
i feel sorry for you
as there will ALWAYS be some one else
you htink he goona be waiting for you IF his visa come thru?
no he going to find some local ';bird'; to see
and you will find some local guy
and that's the way life works
it's alos why long distance romances usually never work
depends on how deep your relationship is with him... ask yourself, if you're crying so badly for him, is he crying for you as well? or is he enjoying his freedom away from you? my dear, if you really miss him, why not drop all ur **** and pay him a visit? but you must once again ask yourself... is he worth you droppping all your work?
hi I know it is hard for you but you have to have faith maybe one day you will stay togher for the rest of youre life's.HAVE FAITH.
Try taking prescription drugs to dull the pain or you could maybe turn the gas on in the oven and put your head inside and close the door, soon the pain will go away
I wish that I have someone love me that much in life, Never had probably never will. Just go to school and hang out with your family. There's nothing you can do at this time. All those falling tears will not solve your problems. It only makes you feel worse. It's not gonna fill up your empty heart since he left. Take it day by day. Alot of people out there have it even worser. Some got cheated on, some got divorce...!
I know it's always hard to give up such a good thing, but it might be best for you to break up with this guy. The situation clearly causes you an immense amount of pain, and sounds to certainly be not worth it for you. In addition, it holds you back from perhaps finding something better.
Be open to this as an option.
I feel for you sweetie.
If you two really care for each other and are determined to make it work then you should be happy.
You have a great guy. Yea it sucks that there is a whole ocean between you but think about the day that you'll see him again and how happy you'll be.
Just keep yourself busy and distracted (don't forget him though).
Go out with the girls.
Eat some ice cream. haha
as the old saying goes ';distance makes the heart grow fonder.';
good luck!
look when you are in along distance relationship problems are bound 2 occur , if u give both ur selves time i think it would work out perfectly. i have always foind when problems get out of our hands just leave them 2 god a prayer always helps
I am in a long distance relationship roght now myself. I am in the military and am stationed in California and my fiance is in Massachussetts. We have been dating for a little under a year and i see her maybe once every two or three months. I talk to her almost every night and that makes it better. But as far as constantly crying the only thing I can tell you is to just keep reminiscing on the times that the two of you had. A good way to keep your mind off of being sad is to keep busy. Myself i took up photography and have taken some verygood pictures. You can also set up some pictures of them everywhere so it's like they are always watching over you.
Thing is, I can't stop crying. I've been crying on and off since he's left (not to mention the months before he left at the thought of not seeing him each day). I'm taking summer classes and he can't come back for a few years because of visa issues.
So the next time I'll see him? Maybe December, no later than January. How the **** am I going to do this? I'm so depressed but have no one to hold me and make it all better.
Maybe a few words of encouragement will make me feel better. Help please? Thank you :)I am in a long distance relationship and can't stop crying. Can you please give me advice?
I had this exact situation happen with me last December. I lived with a women from august to December over special circumstances and I had to move and leave her behind. I was devastated and tried to do as much as I could with her before I had to leave, and the day we had to part was really tough.
Try to get a hobby or a friend to talk to. Relieving stress would be a major thing to do right now. Talk it out with a friend or gear your energy toward something positive like painting or exercise. Running always clears my head.
Try and keep it together. This must be just as hard for him as it is for you. Try to contact each other often, but try not to everyday. You could exclude yourself from everything else around you if you do. Just count the days until you will see each other again and stay positive.
Best of luck for you both!I am in a long distance relationship and can't stop crying. Can you please give me advice?
Hey, it's going to be okay. I don't know how your situation is but do whatever you have to do to be with him, even if it is moving out of the country with him.
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Phone sex?
what? there's no men in California?
just stop thinking about it.. do other stuff instead of thinking about it.. u will be alright as time goes by.. u guys haven't even broke up!!!! it's just a matter of time when u will be able 2 see him again!! u will see him again
end this and it will make ur life better . u cannot keep on crying forthe reat of the day, u must run ur life and he had run his~!!!! REMEMBER THIS THE NEXT WILL BE BETTER . LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IS HARD TO MAINTAIN UNLESS U BOTH TRUST EACH OTHER .
Megan, try and calm down for a moment. As I live in California, I can hold you and listen to you and offer this bit of advice. Could you finish your last year in school in Britain? Begin in September or sooner and finish in June of 2008? If you go to school there, his visa issues would be a moot point. It still might be a little complicated, but the thought of you incessantly crying your eyes out is a real heartbreaker.
I understand that and I am in the same situation as you are now (except for they are my parents). Why don't you call him, use webcams or something like that. You can see your boyfriend and he can also see you. Good luck
go to www.skype.com
take up some hobbies or go out with your friends to take your mind off him. it's hard since you don't see each other anymore but the time apart will make your relationship stronger. hang in there.
I wonder if hes worth it. does he call alot? good luck
do you limit yourself?
you never been in love until now
i feel sorry for you
as there will ALWAYS be some one else
you htink he goona be waiting for you IF his visa come thru?
no he going to find some local ';bird'; to see
and you will find some local guy
and that's the way life works
it's alos why long distance romances usually never work
depends on how deep your relationship is with him... ask yourself, if you're crying so badly for him, is he crying for you as well? or is he enjoying his freedom away from you? my dear, if you really miss him, why not drop all ur **** and pay him a visit? but you must once again ask yourself... is he worth you droppping all your work?
hi I know it is hard for you but you have to have faith maybe one day you will stay togher for the rest of youre life's.HAVE FAITH.
Try taking prescription drugs to dull the pain or you could maybe turn the gas on in the oven and put your head inside and close the door, soon the pain will go away
I wish that I have someone love me that much in life, Never had probably never will. Just go to school and hang out with your family. There's nothing you can do at this time. All those falling tears will not solve your problems. It only makes you feel worse. It's not gonna fill up your empty heart since he left. Take it day by day. Alot of people out there have it even worser. Some got cheated on, some got divorce...!
I know it's always hard to give up such a good thing, but it might be best for you to break up with this guy. The situation clearly causes you an immense amount of pain, and sounds to certainly be not worth it for you. In addition, it holds you back from perhaps finding something better.
Be open to this as an option.
I feel for you sweetie.
If you two really care for each other and are determined to make it work then you should be happy.
You have a great guy. Yea it sucks that there is a whole ocean between you but think about the day that you'll see him again and how happy you'll be.
Just keep yourself busy and distracted (don't forget him though).
Go out with the girls.
Eat some ice cream. haha
as the old saying goes ';distance makes the heart grow fonder.';
good luck!
look when you are in along distance relationship problems are bound 2 occur , if u give both ur selves time i think it would work out perfectly. i have always foind when problems get out of our hands just leave them 2 god a prayer always helps
I am in a long distance relationship roght now myself. I am in the military and am stationed in California and my fiance is in Massachussetts. We have been dating for a little under a year and i see her maybe once every two or three months. I talk to her almost every night and that makes it better. But as far as constantly crying the only thing I can tell you is to just keep reminiscing on the times that the two of you had. A good way to keep your mind off of being sad is to keep busy. Myself i took up photography and have taken some verygood pictures. You can also set up some pictures of them everywhere so it's like they are always watching over you.
My friend is in a long distance relationship. The gf kissed her ex though! He asks for advice, what do I say?
The sad part is that I like him =( and it breaks my heart to see him sad...what advice do you have for me?My friend is in a long distance relationship. The gf kissed her ex though! He asks for advice, what do I say?
Move on because it's not over between the ex and her, at least in her mind and heart. It's also an indication that even if they do make up she can't be faithful. Her heart is somewhere else and he deserves more!My friend is in a long distance relationship. The gf kissed her ex though! He asks for advice, what do I say?
Well im in a long distance relationship to (real long lol) and if my boyfriend did that I would most likely just go ahead and break up with him because if he did that once i wouldnt really be able to trust him much after that and where it is long distance any way I really wouldnt know if he did or not. So I would just go ahead and get rid of the heart ache before it got worse
sounds like a 'foursome'. you like him...she likes him...he likes her...he likes her. the gf/bf need to figure out why she was kissing an ex! doesnt she believe he loves her? sounds like she doesnt and if he wants her he needs to make it known. peace
first, does he know that his gf kissed her ex? the advice i have him is that he needs to know what happend to his gf and if he gets her back then there is no use for even you to go out with him. the advice i have for you is tell him how you fell about him but dont tell him if he just had a break up tell him at leat 2 or 3 days after the break up. then he might want you.
Move on because it's not over between the ex and her, at least in her mind and heart. It's also an indication that even if they do make up she can't be faithful. Her heart is somewhere else and he deserves more!My friend is in a long distance relationship. The gf kissed her ex though! He asks for advice, what do I say?
Well im in a long distance relationship to (real long lol) and if my boyfriend did that I would most likely just go ahead and break up with him because if he did that once i wouldnt really be able to trust him much after that and where it is long distance any way I really wouldnt know if he did or not. So I would just go ahead and get rid of the heart ache before it got worse
sounds like a 'foursome'. you like him...she likes him...he likes her...he likes her. the gf/bf need to figure out why she was kissing an ex! doesnt she believe he loves her? sounds like she doesnt and if he wants her he needs to make it known. peace
first, does he know that his gf kissed her ex? the advice i have him is that he needs to know what happend to his gf and if he gets her back then there is no use for even you to go out with him. the advice i have for you is tell him how you fell about him but dont tell him if he just had a break up tell him at leat 2 or 3 days after the break up. then he might want you.
Im in a long distance relationship and things are not going so well, i need advice.?
me and my boyfriend has had a longdistance relationship for 4 and a half years. i really love him. but we are always arguing.last week we got in an arguement because i saw a girl writing him messages on his myspace page. from what she wrote it didnt seem like they were just friends. so i questioned him about it and he got so mad. and we stopped talking for a couple of days. then when he finally did call me he told me that since he cant talk to me, he talks to other girls.i try to talk to him but he never seem like he wants to talk. what should i do?Im in a long distance relationship and things are not going so well, i need advice.?
4 and a half years online relationship???? wow such a wasted years with a moron just get over it and find someone REAL lololIm in a long distance relationship and things are not going so well, i need advice.?
Taper off and move on.
he is tired of the wait
and it is clear he does not want to communicate with you
so ignore him
believe me he will eventual want to know what is going on with you, the more you refrain from writing to him
so please do not be so easy to get
besides soon you will be all cried out over him
besides I really think his true colors came out
break up with him. i mean, do you honestly want to live your life in doubt? get rid of him and find some guy near or around you. it seems to me that he's no longer interested in keeping his part of the bargain. it will hurt though considering that you've had more than 4 years together but think also of the emotional stress it's giving you.
Never confront them unless you have solid proof or catch them, or you will look like the paranoid one. A lot of people say those kinds of relationships don't work. I see some work and some don't. I have a relative who moved to another state to marry his long term relationship. I hate to use a cliche on you, but if it is meant to be it Will work out. But if you love eachother and but you don't have trust, it can't last. Love and trust go hand and hand.
i understand what ya mean...i sware myspace should have never been made! because it cuases to much problems!...im sorry to here your situation...well the next time you do talk to him tell him how you feel tell him that you love him and no one else and see if you guys can make plans to visit one another thats always soething fun and all to look forward to:)..and when you guys do see eachother when ever ..you guys decide to visit one another try making a move after talking for a bit and see what goes from there:) well GOOD LUCK! ...i hope i helped:)
I dont know..i think he loves you but cant seem to control the urge to flirt with other women...Men! I think you know what you should do. But the truth is, you dont want to right? There's a feeling a guilt and selflessness because of how long you've been together. :) think this through
ldr don't work have a nice day.
Four and a half years is a long time. He will want to chat to others too. You are obviously unsure of him. Get a boyfriend you can spend time with and make the best of it.
Long distance relationships always take a toll, even with the closest of relationships.
It does sound as though there is a deep disconnection going on between the two of you.
Your best bet would be to have an honest and open discussion him, with your emotions in check. Try to have it in a public place, say a restaurant, where the both of you will be able to discuss everything in a somewhat civilised manner. Yes, I am suggesting that you make an extra effort to meet up with him face to face. If he's no longer interested in you, you'd be able to see it in face, and face up to reality. Women like to delude themselves into wanting to beleive a relationship that is beyond repair can be saved. By facing him, you will get the closure you need and move on.
Accept the fact that he may no longer be the one for you. Move on. You will find that time heals all wounds and when that better man comes along, the one who cannot bear to spend a day apart from you, the one who calls you 3 times a day just to hear your voice, the one who makes you feel beautiful inside and out, then you will ask yourself '; why was I such an *** to spend 4 and half years with that other deadbeat?';
you seem to be confused. I guess you should break up wid him . Long distances never work out. If you can't break up you must have this private conversation and makes some vows and clear the way of doubts.Truth is the solution to all problems, remember that.
It is very hard for me to believe that you wasted 4 1/2 years on this meaningless long distance relationship, sweetie!!! What in the world is wrong with you??? Why would anyone want to be in a relationship when all you are is ';penpals'; and then you tell me you argue all the time??? Well, Myspace tells a lot.......you and he a very immature. Take a look at your life and decide what you really want. Dump this ';relationship'; and start interacting with live people.......ddon't look back on all this with wasted regret!
I am currently in my 4 and half year or LDR too. It's hard, but just move on. Stop wasting any more time for jerks that is not worth it. You might think that you want to savour this relationship since so much time and effort have been spent on it... but it's not worth it. So, just move on.. Why should you take all this nonsense when he don't care anymore?
When and if he finally get back his senses, you would be happier and moved on and it would be too late for him. Don't waste time trying to knock some sense into his head, he will only reject it. Love yourself!
Sound like the Little boy is tiring to have his cake and eat it 2, Girlfriend You caught him on line with Girl Instead of his woman!!! And the girl is writing Notes that they are more then friends, Time to go, Time for you to get a better dip ';stick'; then that dude was going out with. If the cat is away the mice will play, Hi mice!!!!!!!!!
It sounds to me like he wants to explore other options. I am sorry.
4 and a half years online relationship???? wow such a wasted years with a moron just get over it and find someone REAL lololIm in a long distance relationship and things are not going so well, i need advice.?
Taper off and move on.
he is tired of the wait
and it is clear he does not want to communicate with you
so ignore him
believe me he will eventual want to know what is going on with you, the more you refrain from writing to him
so please do not be so easy to get
besides soon you will be all cried out over him
besides I really think his true colors came out
break up with him. i mean, do you honestly want to live your life in doubt? get rid of him and find some guy near or around you. it seems to me that he's no longer interested in keeping his part of the bargain. it will hurt though considering that you've had more than 4 years together but think also of the emotional stress it's giving you.
Never confront them unless you have solid proof or catch them, or you will look like the paranoid one. A lot of people say those kinds of relationships don't work. I see some work and some don't. I have a relative who moved to another state to marry his long term relationship. I hate to use a cliche on you, but if it is meant to be it Will work out. But if you love eachother and but you don't have trust, it can't last. Love and trust go hand and hand.
i understand what ya mean...i sware myspace should have never been made! because it cuases to much problems!...im sorry to here your situation...well the next time you do talk to him tell him how you feel tell him that you love him and no one else and see if you guys can make plans to visit one another thats always soething fun and all to look forward to:)..and when you guys do see eachother when ever ..you guys decide to visit one another try making a move after talking for a bit and see what goes from there:) well GOOD LUCK! ...i hope i helped:)
I dont know..i think he loves you but cant seem to control the urge to flirt with other women...Men! I think you know what you should do. But the truth is, you dont want to right? There's a feeling a guilt and selflessness because of how long you've been together. :) think this through
ldr don't work have a nice day.
Four and a half years is a long time. He will want to chat to others too. You are obviously unsure of him. Get a boyfriend you can spend time with and make the best of it.
Long distance relationships always take a toll, even with the closest of relationships.
It does sound as though there is a deep disconnection going on between the two of you.
Your best bet would be to have an honest and open discussion him, with your emotions in check. Try to have it in a public place, say a restaurant, where the both of you will be able to discuss everything in a somewhat civilised manner. Yes, I am suggesting that you make an extra effort to meet up with him face to face. If he's no longer interested in you, you'd be able to see it in face, and face up to reality. Women like to delude themselves into wanting to beleive a relationship that is beyond repair can be saved. By facing him, you will get the closure you need and move on.
Accept the fact that he may no longer be the one for you. Move on. You will find that time heals all wounds and when that better man comes along, the one who cannot bear to spend a day apart from you, the one who calls you 3 times a day just to hear your voice, the one who makes you feel beautiful inside and out, then you will ask yourself '; why was I such an *** to spend 4 and half years with that other deadbeat?';
you seem to be confused. I guess you should break up wid him . Long distances never work out. If you can't break up you must have this private conversation and makes some vows and clear the way of doubts.Truth is the solution to all problems, remember that.
It is very hard for me to believe that you wasted 4 1/2 years on this meaningless long distance relationship, sweetie!!! What in the world is wrong with you??? Why would anyone want to be in a relationship when all you are is ';penpals'; and then you tell me you argue all the time??? Well, Myspace tells a lot.......you and he a very immature. Take a look at your life and decide what you really want. Dump this ';relationship'; and start interacting with live people.......ddon't look back on all this with wasted regret!
I am currently in my 4 and half year or LDR too. It's hard, but just move on. Stop wasting any more time for jerks that is not worth it. You might think that you want to savour this relationship since so much time and effort have been spent on it... but it's not worth it. So, just move on.. Why should you take all this nonsense when he don't care anymore?
When and if he finally get back his senses, you would be happier and moved on and it would be too late for him. Don't waste time trying to knock some sense into his head, he will only reject it. Love yourself!
Sound like the Little boy is tiring to have his cake and eat it 2, Girlfriend You caught him on line with Girl Instead of his woman!!! And the girl is writing Notes that they are more then friends, Time to go, Time for you to get a better dip ';stick'; then that dude was going out with. If the cat is away the mice will play, Hi mice!!!!!!!!!
It sounds to me like he wants to explore other options. I am sorry.
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!?
i am over worked by the relationship i'm in right now. i want to end it and just continue living my life the normal way, but i could never do it bc i know that i'm going to miss him. i dont know anyone who has been in a long distance relationship, so if you have, please tell me how you made it work. thank you so much!LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!?
i have exactly the same problem.sometimes even i just feel like walking away from my relationship but it so difficult and i never do it.Making it work can be extremely difficult.We usually do chatting,voice chatting,sms and call and speak for hours,but still i feel very empty most of the time.If you really love him and you know for sure that he loves you,keep it going but if you think your really unhappy and its really hard to handle better you go for a break up.i really don't know how to advise you to make it work,but actually it depends on both of you.i think you both should have a long chat together in which you should be completely truthful to him and make him know your sacrifices and your feelings to maintain the relationship,if he understands well and good,if he does'nt then it all depends on how much you love each other..best of luck!!!LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!?
I've been in a couple of long distance relationships and sorry to say that they never worked out for me. To be honest, long distance relationships suck and making it work would require a lot of patience. I know I wouldn't go back to a long distance relationship again after what I've been through.
If you don't want to be in this relationship, then don't. Of course your gonna miss him for a while but you will get over it. I'm glad that I got out of the last one and moved on.
If you really want this to work out, discuss your future plans with him. Do you two want to move to the same city someday? Maybe one of you should seriously think about it.
Whatever you decide I wish you all the best.
I've been in a long distant relationship for the past 8 months on the 15th. It has been awsome the entire time we've been togeather. We originally met at a local event that lasted about a week. Afterwards we stayed in a long distance relationship. He comes to visit ever 3 or 4 weeks, and when i see him, its just an amazing experience. In a few months he'll be moving into my state and things will be much easier.. i can hardly wait.
The thing with a long distance relationship is that It can't just be photos of each other. People like to interact w/ others and to make a long distance realtionship work, the people in the realtionship should interact by either meeting in person, or over web cam..something where u can see the other persons movements.
In your case, do u know if your going to meet him? If so, try to set a date of meeting so u can have something to look forward to. If you know u won't see him, then perhaps its better to move on. Find a guy that u can share ur life in real life with. As for the guy, stay friends with him. Maybe there will be a chance in life that makes him move closer to u. IF that happens and hes ur friend, then u can try to start dating him again. TIll then meet the guys around u
BEst of Luck
Well, I just broke up with my boyfriend and we were in a long distance relationship.
Some can work, others don't.
If you want to make it work, just keep in touch and it could help.
But in the end, ask yourself if he is what you want in the long run.
That's what I did and I got my answer.
Good luck with this. Seriously.
im into a relationship the same with you and i want to end up as soon as possible but i cant coz i do love him and i would miss him so much if i will end up our relationship.. wat im telling u is dat if you two still love each other then y shud u end up your relationship? jaz keep on praying that your relationship lasts and most of all trust one another..
Communication is key in making a long distance relationship work. Also, you both need to have ample means in order to visit each other. My ex and I used to send cards once a month and care packages. Also texting, and picture mail helped a lot. Good luck. It's hard, but well worth it.
ITS LONG DISTANCE SO YOU NEVER SEE HIM AND MISS HIM ANYWAY
UNLESS YOU GUYS PLAN TO MOVE CLOSER LEAVE IT ALONE..LIFE IS TO SHORT
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i did long distance for about six months. she was in iowa. i was in cali. we loved each other and we never wanted to seperate... but we knew we had to. stoping contact was real hard.buy make up eye make up
i have exactly the same problem.sometimes even i just feel like walking away from my relationship but it so difficult and i never do it.Making it work can be extremely difficult.We usually do chatting,voice chatting,sms and call and speak for hours,but still i feel very empty most of the time.If you really love him and you know for sure that he loves you,keep it going but if you think your really unhappy and its really hard to handle better you go for a break up.i really don't know how to advise you to make it work,but actually it depends on both of you.i think you both should have a long chat together in which you should be completely truthful to him and make him know your sacrifices and your feelings to maintain the relationship,if he understands well and good,if he does'nt then it all depends on how much you love each other..best of luck!!!LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE!?
I've been in a couple of long distance relationships and sorry to say that they never worked out for me. To be honest, long distance relationships suck and making it work would require a lot of patience. I know I wouldn't go back to a long distance relationship again after what I've been through.
If you don't want to be in this relationship, then don't. Of course your gonna miss him for a while but you will get over it. I'm glad that I got out of the last one and moved on.
If you really want this to work out, discuss your future plans with him. Do you two want to move to the same city someday? Maybe one of you should seriously think about it.
Whatever you decide I wish you all the best.
I've been in a long distant relationship for the past 8 months on the 15th. It has been awsome the entire time we've been togeather. We originally met at a local event that lasted about a week. Afterwards we stayed in a long distance relationship. He comes to visit ever 3 or 4 weeks, and when i see him, its just an amazing experience. In a few months he'll be moving into my state and things will be much easier.. i can hardly wait.
The thing with a long distance relationship is that It can't just be photos of each other. People like to interact w/ others and to make a long distance realtionship work, the people in the realtionship should interact by either meeting in person, or over web cam..something where u can see the other persons movements.
In your case, do u know if your going to meet him? If so, try to set a date of meeting so u can have something to look forward to. If you know u won't see him, then perhaps its better to move on. Find a guy that u can share ur life in real life with. As for the guy, stay friends with him. Maybe there will be a chance in life that makes him move closer to u. IF that happens and hes ur friend, then u can try to start dating him again. TIll then meet the guys around u
BEst of Luck
Well, I just broke up with my boyfriend and we were in a long distance relationship.
Some can work, others don't.
If you want to make it work, just keep in touch and it could help.
But in the end, ask yourself if he is what you want in the long run.
That's what I did and I got my answer.
Good luck with this. Seriously.
im into a relationship the same with you and i want to end up as soon as possible but i cant coz i do love him and i would miss him so much if i will end up our relationship.. wat im telling u is dat if you two still love each other then y shud u end up your relationship? jaz keep on praying that your relationship lasts and most of all trust one another..
Communication is key in making a long distance relationship work. Also, you both need to have ample means in order to visit each other. My ex and I used to send cards once a month and care packages. Also texting, and picture mail helped a lot. Good luck. It's hard, but well worth it.
ITS LONG DISTANCE SO YOU NEVER SEE HIM AND MISS HIM ANYWAY
UNLESS YOU GUYS PLAN TO MOVE CLOSER LEAVE IT ALONE..LIFE IS TO SHORT
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i did long distance for about six months. she was in iowa. i was in cali. we loved each other and we never wanted to seperate... but we knew we had to. stoping contact was real hard.
I was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
im 15...and a female...i live in new york and my boyfriend lives in florida....me and him known each other since pre-school and whenever i used 2 see him i used 2 get those feelings...and him the same for me...then he moved 2 fl about a year ago...but we still stayed as friends....he came to ny for break and now were taking it that step foward...wut you think?I was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
don't do itI was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
they work if you want them to. if you are both into the relationship, and into each other.
don't do itI was wondering if anyone had advice for long-distance relationships?
they work if you want them to. if you are both into the relationship, and into each other.
Long distance relationship advice?
I've met a girl who is amazing
( i know soppy as hell but i love her )
Anyways she lives in another country we talk and webcam on skype almost every night, i'm starting University now for four years.
She says she can wait for me!
I've asked her to move to my country but, she says no because i'm going to be student.
It's a real problem because i wanna be her and nobody else, i've never felt this about anyone before.
We go to see each other twice a year but i want more than this, i want to actually be together full time rather than just 4 / 5 weeks a year.
We've been together for nearly years now
Is this normal?
Any ideas?
(* No i won't consider dating other girls *)Long distance relationship advice?
you have to find a school where she can come to study or a job that she would like to work on, you have to create the ways so it will not be difficult for her to come but you can not just tell her to come and give up her dreams, talk to her more ask her what she would like and tell her also that your country will be the option,
I think the key to everything is communication and fight for what you want in life do not give up easily and even if you have to bring her parents there is always solutions who knows.Long distance relationship advice?
Since she won't move, you have only two choices -- go to school in her country, or just stay as it is. As long as she said she will wait, you're good. You may wish to be together, but lots of times, life doesn't give you the perfect situation. So you just have to deal the best you can. Good luck to you both. I hope it works out!
well believe it or not... it is normal. you are in love with this girl. she wont move down where you stay at for a reason. What you should do i be patience. No good things comes easy. Finish your school make sure your long distance relationship is healthy then you can think about moving to her, or if she see's how committed you are, she would make the decision to move to you.
well lets see...i would say that...that can be normal but i would say that it is unhealthy because then your always stressing about her/him and wondering what they're up to. It's pointless. But if you really like her then try to make it work. Have you considered moving to her country?
No I don'''t think this is normal at all. 4 yrs is a long time. Your young and am assuming she is too. How do you know what she is doing 49 wks out of the year? I hate to give you this answer but it is the truth. Sorry
That may be he most Sweatest thing i have ever heard!!
All that i can say is maybe just go see eachother more i know it would be more expensive but ya.
Or maybe look into a college in her country(if its not to late)
It's very hard to be following a relationship that is so far away as to two different countries. It's understandable to be wanting to meet up with the person that you want to be with. But at a distance like this it is just too hard. You are becoming a student it is better to be working on your school work and career and build that up in order to see her and maybe you two could move in together but it is well advized that you just become friends and not talk as much. It is unhealthy to be so far apart from each other and having feelings. You may not want to be with other girls and you don't have to be. but this girl is not the way to go. You can't have a relationship with someone that is more than 20 miles away from you and even 20 miles is a lot. Everyone wants to be with someone and be able to see them whenever they want. You can't force someone to just leave their home just because you want them to and you can't just leave your home to be with someone as sweet as it may seem in the long run you will regret it. It's better to just not think of her as a girlfriend because she's not. Also..how did you meet her if she's from another country?
A long distance relationship only works if both parties are willing to be in the relationship. Sounds like you have a good one going. Long distance relationships are not easy. I have been in a couple of myself. In fact I am in one now. I dont get to see my boyfriend as often as I want, but I know that I love him and he means the world to my. As far as being normal. Yes it is. Think of all the Military relationships out there. Those are long distance too. Just make sure that this girl knows how much you care about her and let her know how you feel even if you are a million miles away from each other. If you want some more advice vist this site. http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-l鈥?/a>
( i know soppy as hell but i love her )
Anyways she lives in another country we talk and webcam on skype almost every night, i'm starting University now for four years.
She says she can wait for me!
I've asked her to move to my country but, she says no because i'm going to be student.
It's a real problem because i wanna be her and nobody else, i've never felt this about anyone before.
We go to see each other twice a year but i want more than this, i want to actually be together full time rather than just 4 / 5 weeks a year.
We've been together for nearly years now
Is this normal?
Any ideas?
(* No i won't consider dating other girls *)Long distance relationship advice?
you have to find a school where she can come to study or a job that she would like to work on, you have to create the ways so it will not be difficult for her to come but you can not just tell her to come and give up her dreams, talk to her more ask her what she would like and tell her also that your country will be the option,
I think the key to everything is communication and fight for what you want in life do not give up easily and even if you have to bring her parents there is always solutions who knows.Long distance relationship advice?
Since she won't move, you have only two choices -- go to school in her country, or just stay as it is. As long as she said she will wait, you're good. You may wish to be together, but lots of times, life doesn't give you the perfect situation. So you just have to deal the best you can. Good luck to you both. I hope it works out!
well believe it or not... it is normal. you are in love with this girl. she wont move down where you stay at for a reason. What you should do i be patience. No good things comes easy. Finish your school make sure your long distance relationship is healthy then you can think about moving to her, or if she see's how committed you are, she would make the decision to move to you.
well lets see...i would say that...that can be normal but i would say that it is unhealthy because then your always stressing about her/him and wondering what they're up to. It's pointless. But if you really like her then try to make it work. Have you considered moving to her country?
No I don'''t think this is normal at all. 4 yrs is a long time. Your young and am assuming she is too. How do you know what she is doing 49 wks out of the year? I hate to give you this answer but it is the truth. Sorry
That may be he most Sweatest thing i have ever heard!!
All that i can say is maybe just go see eachother more i know it would be more expensive but ya.
Or maybe look into a college in her country(if its not to late)
It's very hard to be following a relationship that is so far away as to two different countries. It's understandable to be wanting to meet up with the person that you want to be with. But at a distance like this it is just too hard. You are becoming a student it is better to be working on your school work and career and build that up in order to see her and maybe you two could move in together but it is well advized that you just become friends and not talk as much. It is unhealthy to be so far apart from each other and having feelings. You may not want to be with other girls and you don't have to be. but this girl is not the way to go. You can't have a relationship with someone that is more than 20 miles away from you and even 20 miles is a lot. Everyone wants to be with someone and be able to see them whenever they want. You can't force someone to just leave their home just because you want them to and you can't just leave your home to be with someone as sweet as it may seem in the long run you will regret it. It's better to just not think of her as a girlfriend because she's not. Also..how did you meet her if she's from another country?
A long distance relationship only works if both parties are willing to be in the relationship. Sounds like you have a good one going. Long distance relationships are not easy. I have been in a couple of myself. In fact I am in one now. I dont get to see my boyfriend as often as I want, but I know that I love him and he means the world to my. As far as being normal. Yes it is. Think of all the Military relationships out there. Those are long distance too. Just make sure that this girl knows how much you care about her and let her know how you feel even if you are a million miles away from each other. If you want some more advice vist this site. http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-l鈥?/a>
Long distance relationship advice?
can anyone give advice on how to give compassion in a long distance relationship? anyone whose been in one knows that phone conversation can be SO difficult, especially when we both have busy days. Dont tell me that LDR don't work either because I wont believe that, if you believe something it will happen. but my boyfriend and I are going through really depressing times (I'm in college, he's at home in his hometown) and its hard to communicate because of the stuff that we're going through.
just looking for advice on what we can do for each other.
thanks :-pLong distance relationship advice?
Being in a long distance relationship is rather difficult to maintain but I travel a lot and its even harder to go over seas because of the price to communicate. But we chat through web cams that way we can see each other and talk. Its also sweet to write letters to each other just to tell him how much you miss/love/care about him, letters are always great because you can go back and read them. Don't listen to anyone who says it cant work because it can. If he truly loves you and you truly love him it will work.
Best of luck !Long distance relationship advice?
LDR can definitely work out. My best friends boyfriend moved to another state for college and she only managed to see him about once every 2 months for a year. They talked on the phone everyday though and he got on msn messenger whenever he could. They also mailed letters back and forth through snail mail and I think that that kept them going very strong because she looked forward to them!
You guys should visit on weekends and holidays and as often as you can. and even if phone conversations are difficult you have to get them it.try to talk every day it'll keep you both in the know about each other!
get out of the long distance relationship. NOW!
I know, you guys love each other. you will make it work. you and him see each other on your webcam every night. blah, blah, blah.
IT DOESN'T WORK!
... sorry.. but it's the truth.
just looking for advice on what we can do for each other.
thanks :-pLong distance relationship advice?
Being in a long distance relationship is rather difficult to maintain but I travel a lot and its even harder to go over seas because of the price to communicate. But we chat through web cams that way we can see each other and talk. Its also sweet to write letters to each other just to tell him how much you miss/love/care about him, letters are always great because you can go back and read them. Don't listen to anyone who says it cant work because it can. If he truly loves you and you truly love him it will work.
Best of luck !Long distance relationship advice?
LDR can definitely work out. My best friends boyfriend moved to another state for college and she only managed to see him about once every 2 months for a year. They talked on the phone everyday though and he got on msn messenger whenever he could. They also mailed letters back and forth through snail mail and I think that that kept them going very strong because she looked forward to them!
You guys should visit on weekends and holidays and as often as you can. and even if phone conversations are difficult you have to get them it.try to talk every day it'll keep you both in the know about each other!
get out of the long distance relationship. NOW!
I know, you guys love each other. you will make it work. you and him see each other on your webcam every night. blah, blah, blah.
IT DOESN'T WORK!
... sorry.. but it's the truth.
Ok another relationship question... have a long distance relationship, and now we have broken up, need advice?
so we were together for a while, she became a travel nurse, and left for florida, we stayed together but thru the distance broke up... she then went to california, in september, and because i borke up with her, she was starting to see antoher guy but realized that it wasnt working out, so we started talking again, i go out there and we get back together from november to christmas.. she comes home dec 7th and we had a great time, really loving each other.... she leaves and says how much she misses me and that she just wants to be home... she has already taken an assignment back home, so she will be back at end of feb... we get in argument and i say i dont know about this relationship... next day she says she knows she is not giving me what i need adn that she needs to be single for now... i say i can agree with that..and she wants to keep talking and everything while she is away... i realize she needs to be single and while i wanna be with her and i love her, i tell her i think we should take a break from each other so she can really figure herself out... anyhow i try but cant ignore her, third time in a week she starts texting asking me if i miss her... i dont answer cause its late at night and i told her i needed a little time off... well she is coming home like i said, and now she is mad cause i havent answered... i am trying to be strong and take my break, but i am really wondering what she is feeling and thinking, we have been there for each other for a long time, and its hard to be without her.. i know we are better off single caues long distance is just really exasperating...so what do i do? tell her no hard feelings and well see each other when she gets home? or call her and be there for her and tell her i am there for her??? what do you all think she is thinking??? is she missing me as much as i am her?Ok another relationship question... have a long distance relationship, and now we have broken up, need advice?
Its always better to be there for someone. It immediately tells them you care and that they are worth more than anything.Ok another relationship question... have a long distance relationship, and now we have broken up, need advice?
U both are made for each other. The circumstances many a times are not with both of U. Enjoy u r time with full swing fight laugh and play when u both are together. That is the real life.
Its always better to be there for someone. It immediately tells them you care and that they are worth more than anything.Ok another relationship question... have a long distance relationship, and now we have broken up, need advice?
U both are made for each other. The circumstances many a times are not with both of U. Enjoy u r time with full swing fight laugh and play when u both are together. That is the real life.
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