Long distance relationship advice?

i know what i am doing is my own business, but i would like other peoples help as well. i've been with my girlfriend a short 16 months, and most of this time (about 11 months) has been long distance. it's one of those things you know from the start is perfect, but we've fought several times about the stupidest of things. i love this girl with my entire heart, i really do.





i need some advice on how to be a better person for her, so she will never leave me. she tells me time and time again that she never will but i know that i need to change in order for that to happen..





help? -Long distance relationship advice?
well you can always try to tell her and be passionate about it... and do nice things... talk to her about her day and let her talk about herself... and listen to her and help her out... that will show her how much you care... seeing taht its long distance send her things through the mail and make her feel special =]








cheers!Long distance relationship advice?
that is sweet.. i have to tell you that relationships are not easy. they are one of the hardest things you will ever do. that sounds obvious, but its hard to understand until you are really in one. Me and my boyfriend also argue over the dumbest ****. there is a difference between arguing and fighting however.





My main advice is to talk about everything. anything you are thinking aboutin the relationship needs to be talked about; so everything is always out in the open.
don't do anything to change yourself. Be who you are and if she loves you back she will love you for exactly who you are. Of course there are little or even big things that we each need to change about ourselves, for example.. being selfish or mean. Little things that matter to someone else and that hurts. So be a better self because you want to. Not because she is forcing you to..


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i hope every thing works out.. i know long distance can be hard, but nothing can stop true love.


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well that depends if you can change. ie.. stop putting your feet on the table (is changable) , cleaning up after yourself (is changable) personal interests hunting fishing camping whatever (not changable) but taking up each others interests (is changable) and so on.....
I'm sorry, but why would you have to change if she says she loves you?





Long distance is always hard, but you shouldn't have to change yourself to make her happy.
i can't tell you what to do. I can't tell you to change. if she says that shes not going to leave you, then you should believe her.


And Good Luck!
all i can say is try your hardest to make things work,


if it was meant to be it was meant to be.


just dont give up if things start to go south
good. luck.
it never works...but good luck!
my brother has one it is not very good for socializing i'll tell you that