Thursday, August 19, 2010

Long distance relationship advice?

I've met a girl who is amazing


( i know soppy as hell but i love her )


Anyways she lives in another country we talk and webcam on skype almost every night, i'm starting University now for four years.


She says she can wait for me!


I've asked her to move to my country but, she says no because i'm going to be student.


It's a real problem because i wanna be her and nobody else, i've never felt this about anyone before.





We go to see each other twice a year but i want more than this, i want to actually be together full time rather than just 4 / 5 weeks a year.





We've been together for nearly years now





Is this normal?


Any ideas?


(* No i won't consider dating other girls *)Long distance relationship advice?
you have to find a school where she can come to study or a job that she would like to work on, you have to create the ways so it will not be difficult for her to come but you can not just tell her to come and give up her dreams, talk to her more ask her what she would like and tell her also that your country will be the option,


I think the key to everything is communication and fight for what you want in life do not give up easily and even if you have to bring her parents there is always solutions who knows.Long distance relationship advice?
Since she won't move, you have only two choices -- go to school in her country, or just stay as it is. As long as she said she will wait, you're good. You may wish to be together, but lots of times, life doesn't give you the perfect situation. So you just have to deal the best you can. Good luck to you both. I hope it works out!
well believe it or not... it is normal. you are in love with this girl. she wont move down where you stay at for a reason. What you should do i be patience. No good things comes easy. Finish your school make sure your long distance relationship is healthy then you can think about moving to her, or if she see's how committed you are, she would make the decision to move to you.
well lets see...i would say that...that can be normal but i would say that it is unhealthy because then your always stressing about her/him and wondering what they're up to. It's pointless. But if you really like her then try to make it work. Have you considered moving to her country?
No I don'''t think this is normal at all. 4 yrs is a long time. Your young and am assuming she is too. How do you know what she is doing 49 wks out of the year? I hate to give you this answer but it is the truth. Sorry
That may be he most Sweatest thing i have ever heard!!





All that i can say is maybe just go see eachother more i know it would be more expensive but ya.





Or maybe look into a college in her country(if its not to late)
It's very hard to be following a relationship that is so far away as to two different countries. It's understandable to be wanting to meet up with the person that you want to be with. But at a distance like this it is just too hard. You are becoming a student it is better to be working on your school work and career and build that up in order to see her and maybe you two could move in together but it is well advized that you just become friends and not talk as much. It is unhealthy to be so far apart from each other and having feelings. You may not want to be with other girls and you don't have to be. but this girl is not the way to go. You can't have a relationship with someone that is more than 20 miles away from you and even 20 miles is a lot. Everyone wants to be with someone and be able to see them whenever they want. You can't force someone to just leave their home just because you want them to and you can't just leave your home to be with someone as sweet as it may seem in the long run you will regret it. It's better to just not think of her as a girlfriend because she's not. Also..how did you meet her if she's from another country?
A long distance relationship only works if both parties are willing to be in the relationship. Sounds like you have a good one going. Long distance relationships are not easy. I have been in a couple of myself. In fact I am in one now. I dont get to see my boyfriend as often as I want, but I know that I love him and he means the world to my. As far as being normal. Yes it is. Think of all the Military relationships out there. Those are long distance too. Just make sure that this girl knows how much you care about her and let her know how you feel even if you are a million miles away from each other. If you want some more advice vist this site. http://lovesagame.com/10-rules-to-make-l鈥?/a>

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