To all parents out there: If your daughter/son is in a long distance love relationship what would you advice your daughter/son on how to make his/her fiance/fiancee feel love? even if they are miles and miles apart. Please give examples, if you could.If you are a parent, what would you advice your daughter if she is in a long distance love relationship?
If she is really in love the distance is going to make that feeling stronger. It is very romantic situation and probably she will feel like no body will stop her love... not only the distance.
If you are worried about her leaving you... you must start thinking that the goal of the parents is to let the kids when they are prepared to fly alone. Trust on your values and education!
If you are worried about the potential damage that the distance can make on the relationship... I think is the same in any relationship. Let the things to happen... that is part of her experience.
But just let her know that you are there for her. A friend to listen to her worries and a mother to comfort her heart.If you are a parent, what would you advice your daughter if she is in a long distance love relationship?
Hi My name is Ana and if i were the mother of the daughter i would tell her there are more guys out there and i am sure if she wanted she would find a boy in were she lives there are pleanty of fish out there .
She can send letters. Sometimes it easier to express how you feel on paper. You can say things you really want to say when your with that special someone.
Make certain days or nights, the nights that they call each other, or chat online at certain times.
However it also depends on how old this couple are.
If they are mere children, I wouldnt promote very much as they neednt feel tied down to just one person. They are still learning about themselves.
send small care packages once every two weeks besides talking on the phone. just have to put things like a picture, a letter, and something like cookies, something to remind the person far away of something they did together or shared. even just a small note a few times a week can make a difference, and bond them.
The best advise I ever got was to not date someone I was not willing to marry. Long distance isn't bad, but dating someone you don't see yourself with is a mistake. If you date them you might fall in love. If you fall in love and get married and find yourself in a place you don't want to be.
My advise to you is as a Mom or Dad is not to give your kids unsolicited advise, unless she is still a minor.
It really depends on whether the couple have met each other or not. If they haven't yet met, then it's not the real thing in my opinion. It's more of an infatuation of an image of the person. I've known people that fall in love online and then meet and are not at all attracted to each other. It's part fantasy till you have the eye to eye thing. So I'd advise my son/daughter to hold back and concentrate on meeting as soon as possible.
As far as how to show love while apart....communication works. Send letters, make calls. Send each other little gifts and pictures. Baked items mailed is a nice touch too. Military couples have done all this for years.
need more info on this. have they met? how long have they known each other? why are they apart?
There are different ways to show your love in a long distance relationship. Computer access is so easy now-a-days and the biggest website is www.myspace.com. They can both set up a free profile with them and send each other emails, messages, graphics, and tons of other stuff.
You can have flowers sent to someone, write letters in the regular mail (because it gives them something to look forward to), send pictures, if you have a video camera you can make a video and send it. If you like making things you can make your own home made cards to send, a scrapbook full of pictures of when they were together, or even a scrapbook full of love letters.
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