Thursday, August 19, 2010

Long distance relationship is making me feel insecure need advice?

i am in a long distance relationship i am in nevada he is in texas


we have fallen in love in such a short time he says he is faithful as i am too.the only thing is if we are so in love and faithful why do i feel insecure?


i feel that he is lying to me in many ways for one he says he is in school but yet he is online when he says he is in school also he has been doing online dating for years and they all didnt work out for some reason.he also does not work and says he is living with his brother but its his apartment how can that be when he doesnt work?


he does call me but we are not communicating enough i asked him to please make some effort because we are not down the street from each other but hes not all though he said he is.i have asked him to come clean with me and qsked him numerous questions and the more i ask the moire he seems to be distant.i love him and want to make this work but i cannot do that if he is not being honest with me.i dont think he is cheating on me at least i hope not.any advice pleaseLong distance relationship is making me feel insecure need advice?
Long distance relationships are always tricky as are most relationships. We all know communication is often the key in many relationships romantic or otherwise. It should concern you that when you attempt to open the lines of communication he grows more and more distant. I know you say that things are all going well and you are very much in love (and I believe you), but your gut instinct is telling you something is wrong. Never second guess that gut instinct!! Honey, I am sure you can find a wonderful man right in your area so you don't have to endure the hassles of a long distance relationship. Stay positive and remember to listen to that tiny voice in your head warning you something is amiss.Long distance relationship is making me feel insecure need advice?
I think for one if you have to ask the question about cheating, feeling insecure and their possibly being some infidelity then you have answered your own question. Long distant relationships are just not common to working out. There have been some success stories of it but in this case im sorry to say. It's probably better that you just end it.
Honey give it up. It's never going to work. Especially if you say you were together just a short amount of time. I am sure he is just too much of a coward to do the dumping but men don't like long distance relationships. They are very visual and physical creatures. May as well MOVE ON. There are plenty of fish in the sea and obviously this guy isn't crazy about you.
He could be on some type of assistance to pay his rent, or he could have his cell with him at school %26amp; be texting when he should be listening.





Do you plan to ever meet again in either of your states? If not you might be sparing yourself some hurt if you let it go now since it has no future. If you do plan to get together I would advise doing so asap.
Sooner or later it will not work. I was with someone in Cali and I'm in MD. It won't work. There is a reason why you feel bad. He is probably up to no good. They usually really honestly are cheating.
Sorry but from my experience and see others, long distance relationships never work, and if it does, the chances are slim to none.
lies,lies,lies sound like there's a snake in the grass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you dont trust him find some one else . YOU CANT HAVE LOVE IF THERE'S NO TRUST
i hav 2 advises 1 st 1 is u better leave him .......................


or meet him in his place with out intimating him nd try to no evry thing abt him .................. 2nd 1 if u love him alot other wise 1st is best
hey hun i had exact same problem with my bf long distance and was worrying what he was doing an did not trust him coz of the distance i was the one always texting him and calling in the end i left it and waited for him to make the effort to call and text just do that and if he is series and wants to be with you in a comitted relationship do the same trust me it works he will then ,make the effort if he dont get rid just dont let him no your worrying and insecure ive now been with the bf 3yrs and living with him and expecting first baby gud luck hun

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