my boyfriend left about a month ago for boot camp but we are gonna be stuck in LDR..any advice??
oh and plan on marrying him :D
so dont tell me to break up with him please.Any advice on Long Distance Relationships??
Send promiscuous photos (lingerie, fitted clothing etc.), to keep him interested. Send him special packages (food, toiletries etc.) with a love touch. Be patient.Any advice on Long Distance Relationships??
Yeah, upgrade your cell phone plan to ';mobile to Mobile';.
Just keep in touch with %26amp; you to be faithful while he's away. It's in your hands.
If you truly love your man you a LDR will work!!! Call him every chance you get.....keep the communication going that's the key for any successful LDR
I was in the military too ... and when I left for bootcamp ... it felt like I was missing out on everything happening back home ... life pretty much goes on and he'll be stuck surrounded by a bunch of people telling him what to do ... he's going to be homesick, grumpy and wishing you were there. Try writing to him as much as possible - most guys get Dear John letters ... which is a break-up letter ... nobody wants that to happen so wait for his phone calls and be a good girl at home ... don't tell him '; I went out with so and so .. or we had such a great time with Steve and his friends '; ... he'll go crazy ... let him know how much you miss him and can't wait to see him ... send photos, letters, and phone cards ... if you want to chat a little more just e-mail me ... hope I help out a little ... !
If yall hearts is sayin that yall want to be together then go for it.But their is no reason for breaking up with him. but never let someone be your world cuz what happens is when they are gone then u r left with nothing.
Dont break up at all i am in a long distance relationship shes over in India im in the USA just got back last week from a marriage :) made in heaven but it will be so tough but you must trust him and he must trust you 100% when he goes abroad if he goes you both can save alot of money from the phone calls i will give you thei great link
http://www.callingcards.com/ap/display_t鈥?/a>
This will save you 95% on all international calling also if calling in USA 1 cent a minute and it can save globally too he can call you from anywhere you can call him everywhere
hang in there take up a hobby if not working find a job keep yourself busy but keep the faith in each other dont give him or tell him bad stuff over here always keep it happy and not alarming dont make him worry even if theres trouble ok low moral can mean life or death also tell him thankyou for serving our country I SUPPORT ALL THE TROOPS i was over in kuwait for the first action we took and to this day wish we finished the job dam politicians
YEOW%26lt; another LDR...what ever happen to the here and now. Woman, your mind and emotions loves this game...and
he went to boot camp. OMG! SO, if U feel U can go it alone,
and that will be the life style, unless U get pregnant which will make it twice as tough..good luck.
sure don't leave the poor guy but i highly recommend you take on a part time b/f
we live on the coast and when this was a fishing town all the women had a husband and a ';shore husband';
so that way they were kept happy
the shore husband would disappear when the real husband came home,
just make sure his very well hung (or there isn't much point)
Time will tell if it is meant to be, watch out because time changes everything. If you were going to get married why didn't you already!!!
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Advice for a long distance casual relationship? How often should I call him?
Please, serious answers only...
I have a casual friendship/relationship with a guy who lives about 9 hours from me. We are more than just friends (you know what I mean) but also both have things going on in our lives which would prevent a deeper/committed relationship at this time (no, it's not marriage). We are both (for the most part) comfortable with the situation for now. The thing is, I sometimes miss him an awful lot, but I don't want to call him WAY too much, which I have done in other relationships previously. Has anyone else out there been through this? Can guys out there tell me how much is an OK amount to call without being too much? Any other advice? Serious answers only, please. I'd really like some good advice. Thanks.Advice for a long distance casual relationship? How often should I call him?
You're thinking an awful lot about this, aren't you? You've even posted your question for the input of others. This guy who lives 9 hours away is on your mind so much that you ';sometimes miss him an awful lot...'; I would wait and see how interested he is in you, and how often he calls you, before you start wearing your heart on your sleeve calling him too often. If you're calling him more than he's calling you, it sends the message that you're crazy about him. Do you really want to put yourself in a position where he thinks he has the upper hand?Refrain from calling him and keep your expectations low until he proves himself worthy of your trust. This way you won't be crushed if he turns out to be just another ';guy.';
I have a casual friendship/relationship with a guy who lives about 9 hours from me. We are more than just friends (you know what I mean) but also both have things going on in our lives which would prevent a deeper/committed relationship at this time (no, it's not marriage). We are both (for the most part) comfortable with the situation for now. The thing is, I sometimes miss him an awful lot, but I don't want to call him WAY too much, which I have done in other relationships previously. Has anyone else out there been through this? Can guys out there tell me how much is an OK amount to call without being too much? Any other advice? Serious answers only, please. I'd really like some good advice. Thanks.Advice for a long distance casual relationship? How often should I call him?
You're thinking an awful lot about this, aren't you? You've even posted your question for the input of others. This guy who lives 9 hours away is on your mind so much that you ';sometimes miss him an awful lot...'; I would wait and see how interested he is in you, and how often he calls you, before you start wearing your heart on your sleeve calling him too often. If you're calling him more than he's calling you, it sends the message that you're crazy about him. Do you really want to put yourself in a position where he thinks he has the upper hand?Refrain from calling him and keep your expectations low until he proves himself worthy of your trust. This way you won't be crushed if he turns out to be just another ';guy.';
Stay Friends or Try long distance relationship 10 points for best advice. Thank you?
The special person and I love each other for 4 years. We went to college togther. For 3 years we had never spoken, just enjoy looking at each other from distances---we both hiden the feeling inside. Before my graduation I told him that I am leaving. Although we did not really know each other, but I knew he cared!
I was very sad because I miss him so much. I thought I was going to forget him because we will never see each other again. But with God wills... I found his website. He wrotes poetries about us. He claims he loves and will wait for me!
I contacted him. We decided to keep in touch as friend because I moved to difference states. Well, we have been e-mail each others and stay friends for over a year now. I really like him.
I want to make the friendship become a long distance relationship---Do you think it is going to be a good idea? or
Should we stay friend until we have a chance to be togther?
Please help. I need your advice and thank you so muchStay Friends or Try long distance relationship 10 points for best advice. Thank you?
I guess it depends on how much this man means to you.
I was in a similar situation. My good friend and I went to colleges in different states, but still talked to each other and emailed quite often. Eventually I found out that he liked me (and I did too) and we started dating while I was still out of state. I eventually moved to where he was partly to be with him, partly because I needed to transfer schools.
I don't regret the decision one bit. Now we live together and have been dating for 2.5 years.
It might not be how your situation works out, but that's my story. I think you should go with your instincts--if you think he's worth moving for, go for it. My boyfriend and I did the long distance thing for 6 months and it was hard! I only saw him once a month and it was a real commitment on both ends. If you trust him enough to be exclusive only to you, then I'd say give it a shot and see what happens.
Good luck with everything! I hope it all works out for you.Stay Friends or Try long distance relationship 10 points for best advice. Thank you?
Stay friends is best when your in a long distance relationship things seem to fall apart since your not by their side.....Time will only tell what may become.......
sounds scary to me. just looked at each other for years, and he's writing poetry and offering to WAIT for you? Ewww... Stay friends!
WHAT?!?!!?!??!
You look at him and you ';just know';?!
You are crazy, like certifiably insane type of crazy. You need some serious therapy. Stay away from that guy, you stalker.
It seems to me you are just ';feeding'; some kinda of romantic illusion...because you really don't KNOW HIM i mean in REAL LIFE....you just feel a crush for each other, but always in distance situation.I think you have to make a effort to try to get to know each other has close has possible in real life...and than confirm if those feelings are just illusions or true.Good luck!
Hon, You should just stay friends until you can be together. Long distance loves rarily work out. Times come up when we really need someone to hold or need to be held ! Or when those once in a lifetime moments occur and you have to be in that moment to share the joy. If it is true your love will endure but the lord may be ready to put another in your life ! Then you choose who you want for eternity ! ! ! Jesus loves you and so do I.
You're going to get the same thing out of a long distance relationship as you would just staying friends for now. So don't commit yourself just yet. If you're not going to see him very much anyway, it's not worth it. Then you'll just be saying I love you, and hurting because you can't see them. Wait, appreciate and enjoy what you have now, and time will take you in whatever direction is best.
this is simple u like him so have a relationship with him. all you hsve to do iis create dates where he can fly where u r and u can go where he is hat way u can b happy. happiness is key in life.
go for the relationship sounds like you realy have something there.
He loves you don't lose him.
I went through the same thing in college; my boyfriend of 3 years went back tohis home country after college and stayed there for over a year; we decided to be friends b/c it was unfair to both of us to stay in relationship when we were so far apart. The only way we could keep in contact was via email and instant messenger. Could you imagine the phone bills if we talked on the phone? He came to visit last year and we spent the whole day just touring the city, since he's never been to my home town before. We had a lot of fun just hanging out. I am married now, and he has a great girlfriend; we keep in contact regularly, and are still really good friends, even though he lives in America now, but in a different state. If we were meant to be together, we would be, but we were just meant to be friends. I would advise to be friends for right now; you don't want to put your heart through all of that. If you were meant to be with eachother, it will work out.
get together first. You dont know this guy yet
If u think that u will have a chance to be together someday than wait. me and my boyfriend were friends at first and that helped our relationship because now we know alot about each other than if we started to date right away. Keep talking and stuff but stay friends until u can be together. Because when ur together than u will have everything a relationship need. Good Luck hope it works out. :)
I think that you should get to know this person before starting a serious relationship...A long distance communication is not the best way to do it.I think you should meet somehow,talk to each other,clarify everything(your feelings) and try to understand whether it is just friendship or sth more...then you can develop your relationship.
So...GOOD LUCK!
Well if you really love eachother then go for long distance, beacuse no matter how far apart you are from eachother it shouldnt matter, love will always keep you toghether
Long distance relationships are hard but can be managed as long as both people have the same expectations -- try talking about what you both want out of a long distance relationship and if your lives could really come together down the road at some point -- best of luck to you with your relationship!
I was very sad because I miss him so much. I thought I was going to forget him because we will never see each other again. But with God wills... I found his website. He wrotes poetries about us. He claims he loves and will wait for me!
I contacted him. We decided to keep in touch as friend because I moved to difference states. Well, we have been e-mail each others and stay friends for over a year now. I really like him.
I want to make the friendship become a long distance relationship---Do you think it is going to be a good idea? or
Should we stay friend until we have a chance to be togther?
Please help. I need your advice and thank you so muchStay Friends or Try long distance relationship 10 points for best advice. Thank you?
I guess it depends on how much this man means to you.
I was in a similar situation. My good friend and I went to colleges in different states, but still talked to each other and emailed quite often. Eventually I found out that he liked me (and I did too) and we started dating while I was still out of state. I eventually moved to where he was partly to be with him, partly because I needed to transfer schools.
I don't regret the decision one bit. Now we live together and have been dating for 2.5 years.
It might not be how your situation works out, but that's my story. I think you should go with your instincts--if you think he's worth moving for, go for it. My boyfriend and I did the long distance thing for 6 months and it was hard! I only saw him once a month and it was a real commitment on both ends. If you trust him enough to be exclusive only to you, then I'd say give it a shot and see what happens.
Good luck with everything! I hope it all works out for you.Stay Friends or Try long distance relationship 10 points for best advice. Thank you?
Stay friends is best when your in a long distance relationship things seem to fall apart since your not by their side.....Time will only tell what may become.......
sounds scary to me. just looked at each other for years, and he's writing poetry and offering to WAIT for you? Ewww... Stay friends!
WHAT?!?!!?!??!
You look at him and you ';just know';?!
You are crazy, like certifiably insane type of crazy. You need some serious therapy. Stay away from that guy, you stalker.
It seems to me you are just ';feeding'; some kinda of romantic illusion...because you really don't KNOW HIM i mean in REAL LIFE....you just feel a crush for each other, but always in distance situation.I think you have to make a effort to try to get to know each other has close has possible in real life...and than confirm if those feelings are just illusions or true.Good luck!
Hon, You should just stay friends until you can be together. Long distance loves rarily work out. Times come up when we really need someone to hold or need to be held ! Or when those once in a lifetime moments occur and you have to be in that moment to share the joy. If it is true your love will endure but the lord may be ready to put another in your life ! Then you choose who you want for eternity ! ! ! Jesus loves you and so do I.
You're going to get the same thing out of a long distance relationship as you would just staying friends for now. So don't commit yourself just yet. If you're not going to see him very much anyway, it's not worth it. Then you'll just be saying I love you, and hurting because you can't see them. Wait, appreciate and enjoy what you have now, and time will take you in whatever direction is best.
this is simple u like him so have a relationship with him. all you hsve to do iis create dates where he can fly where u r and u can go where he is hat way u can b happy. happiness is key in life.
go for the relationship sounds like you realy have something there.
He loves you don't lose him.
I went through the same thing in college; my boyfriend of 3 years went back tohis home country after college and stayed there for over a year; we decided to be friends b/c it was unfair to both of us to stay in relationship when we were so far apart. The only way we could keep in contact was via email and instant messenger. Could you imagine the phone bills if we talked on the phone? He came to visit last year and we spent the whole day just touring the city, since he's never been to my home town before. We had a lot of fun just hanging out. I am married now, and he has a great girlfriend; we keep in contact regularly, and are still really good friends, even though he lives in America now, but in a different state. If we were meant to be together, we would be, but we were just meant to be friends. I would advise to be friends for right now; you don't want to put your heart through all of that. If you were meant to be with eachother, it will work out.
get together first. You dont know this guy yet
If u think that u will have a chance to be together someday than wait. me and my boyfriend were friends at first and that helped our relationship because now we know alot about each other than if we started to date right away. Keep talking and stuff but stay friends until u can be together. Because when ur together than u will have everything a relationship need. Good Luck hope it works out. :)
I think that you should get to know this person before starting a serious relationship...A long distance communication is not the best way to do it.I think you should meet somehow,talk to each other,clarify everything(your feelings) and try to understand whether it is just friendship or sth more...then you can develop your relationship.
So...GOOD LUCK!
Well if you really love eachother then go for long distance, beacuse no matter how far apart you are from eachother it shouldnt matter, love will always keep you toghether
Long distance relationships are hard but can be managed as long as both people have the same expectations -- try talking about what you both want out of a long distance relationship and if your lives could really come together down the road at some point -- best of luck to you with your relationship!
I need advice for my new long distance relationship.?
We have been dating each other for about 3 month now. We were university classmates back 6 year ago. When we were at the university, he asked me for a date but I wasn鈥檛 ready for it. Then he came to US as he got scholarship and I went to a different county for the same reason. After 6 years he emailed me and asked where I am and told me that he was single, still have feeling to ward me. ...Eventually, I was single and interested too, so that is how it started.
The good news is, I have planned to visit my aunty for this coming Xmas 6 month ago and my cousins are waiting for me. Guess what, he lives the same city.
I just want advice how to handle it right.
Thank you.I need advice for my new long distance relationship.?
If he has been the one contacting you all these times it means he really cares and that he can't get you out fo him mind. If you care too, make sure you guys make things clear and find a way to be together.
The good news is, I have planned to visit my aunty for this coming Xmas 6 month ago and my cousins are waiting for me. Guess what, he lives the same city.
I just want advice how to handle it right.
Thank you.I need advice for my new long distance relationship.?
If he has been the one contacting you all these times it means he really cares and that he can't get you out fo him mind. If you care too, make sure you guys make things clear and find a way to be together.
If you are a parent, what would you advice your daughter if she is in a long distance love relationship?
To all parents out there: If your daughter/son is in a long distance love relationship what would you advice your daughter/son on how to make his/her fiance/fiancee feel love? even if they are miles and miles apart. Please give examples, if you could.If you are a parent, what would you advice your daughter if she is in a long distance love relationship?
If she is really in love the distance is going to make that feeling stronger. It is very romantic situation and probably she will feel like no body will stop her love... not only the distance.
If you are worried about her leaving you... you must start thinking that the goal of the parents is to let the kids when they are prepared to fly alone. Trust on your values and education!
If you are worried about the potential damage that the distance can make on the relationship... I think is the same in any relationship. Let the things to happen... that is part of her experience.
But just let her know that you are there for her. A friend to listen to her worries and a mother to comfort her heart.If you are a parent, what would you advice your daughter if she is in a long distance love relationship?
Hi My name is Ana and if i were the mother of the daughter i would tell her there are more guys out there and i am sure if she wanted she would find a boy in were she lives there are pleanty of fish out there .
She can send letters. Sometimes it easier to express how you feel on paper. You can say things you really want to say when your with that special someone.
Make certain days or nights, the nights that they call each other, or chat online at certain times.
However it also depends on how old this couple are.
If they are mere children, I wouldnt promote very much as they neednt feel tied down to just one person. They are still learning about themselves.
send small care packages once every two weeks besides talking on the phone. just have to put things like a picture, a letter, and something like cookies, something to remind the person far away of something they did together or shared. even just a small note a few times a week can make a difference, and bond them.
The best advise I ever got was to not date someone I was not willing to marry. Long distance isn't bad, but dating someone you don't see yourself with is a mistake. If you date them you might fall in love. If you fall in love and get married and find yourself in a place you don't want to be.
My advise to you is as a Mom or Dad is not to give your kids unsolicited advise, unless she is still a minor.
It really depends on whether the couple have met each other or not. If they haven't yet met, then it's not the real thing in my opinion. It's more of an infatuation of an image of the person. I've known people that fall in love online and then meet and are not at all attracted to each other. It's part fantasy till you have the eye to eye thing. So I'd advise my son/daughter to hold back and concentrate on meeting as soon as possible.
As far as how to show love while apart....communication works. Send letters, make calls. Send each other little gifts and pictures. Baked items mailed is a nice touch too. Military couples have done all this for years.
need more info on this. have they met? how long have they known each other? why are they apart?
There are different ways to show your love in a long distance relationship. Computer access is so easy now-a-days and the biggest website is www.myspace.com. They can both set up a free profile with them and send each other emails, messages, graphics, and tons of other stuff.
You can have flowers sent to someone, write letters in the regular mail (because it gives them something to look forward to), send pictures, if you have a video camera you can make a video and send it. If you like making things you can make your own home made cards to send, a scrapbook full of pictures of when they were together, or even a scrapbook full of love letters.
If she is really in love the distance is going to make that feeling stronger. It is very romantic situation and probably she will feel like no body will stop her love... not only the distance.
If you are worried about her leaving you... you must start thinking that the goal of the parents is to let the kids when they are prepared to fly alone. Trust on your values and education!
If you are worried about the potential damage that the distance can make on the relationship... I think is the same in any relationship. Let the things to happen... that is part of her experience.
But just let her know that you are there for her. A friend to listen to her worries and a mother to comfort her heart.If you are a parent, what would you advice your daughter if she is in a long distance love relationship?
Hi My name is Ana and if i were the mother of the daughter i would tell her there are more guys out there and i am sure if she wanted she would find a boy in were she lives there are pleanty of fish out there .
She can send letters. Sometimes it easier to express how you feel on paper. You can say things you really want to say when your with that special someone.
Make certain days or nights, the nights that they call each other, or chat online at certain times.
However it also depends on how old this couple are.
If they are mere children, I wouldnt promote very much as they neednt feel tied down to just one person. They are still learning about themselves.
send small care packages once every two weeks besides talking on the phone. just have to put things like a picture, a letter, and something like cookies, something to remind the person far away of something they did together or shared. even just a small note a few times a week can make a difference, and bond them.
The best advise I ever got was to not date someone I was not willing to marry. Long distance isn't bad, but dating someone you don't see yourself with is a mistake. If you date them you might fall in love. If you fall in love and get married and find yourself in a place you don't want to be.
My advise to you is as a Mom or Dad is not to give your kids unsolicited advise, unless she is still a minor.
It really depends on whether the couple have met each other or not. If they haven't yet met, then it's not the real thing in my opinion. It's more of an infatuation of an image of the person. I've known people that fall in love online and then meet and are not at all attracted to each other. It's part fantasy till you have the eye to eye thing. So I'd advise my son/daughter to hold back and concentrate on meeting as soon as possible.
As far as how to show love while apart....communication works. Send letters, make calls. Send each other little gifts and pictures. Baked items mailed is a nice touch too. Military couples have done all this for years.
need more info on this. have they met? how long have they known each other? why are they apart?
There are different ways to show your love in a long distance relationship. Computer access is so easy now-a-days and the biggest website is www.myspace.com. They can both set up a free profile with them and send each other emails, messages, graphics, and tons of other stuff.
You can have flowers sent to someone, write letters in the regular mail (because it gives them something to look forward to), send pictures, if you have a video camera you can make a video and send it. If you like making things you can make your own home made cards to send, a scrapbook full of pictures of when they were together, or even a scrapbook full of love letters.
How to survive in a long distance relationship? Good advices?
I am so into my boyfriend but we just started out this long distance relationship as he had to do an intern in Dubai.We were living together till he had to make the move for awhile .I went to Dubai to visit him for a month and got back a month ago.I miss him terribly! All I wanna do is call him and text him and if he does not text me first thing he gets up i get upset.I have not been myself and this is not who i want to be.He know the real me and it's a confident and independant women.Now eversince the long distance i think about what he's doing.My ex hurt me really bad so it bothers me .And I try not to get so bothered.I know my boyfriend is trustworthy but still I let the past bother me.How do I improve the relationship and make our long distance a happier one?I want him to be the one that misses me more. How do we fire it up?And what are the ways to tolerate the distance?How to survive in a long distance relationship? Good advices?
You have a couple of issues here: you are afraid of being abandoned like in a past relationship, you have trust issues and you want to know logistics of keeping a long distance relationship alive.
First, you need to deal with your insecurities about abandonment and trust. To do that, you need to talk with him about it and feel reassured. As others have said, there are ways of keeping frequent communication through the computer (web cams work really well too as well as the yahoo instant messenger with voice)...but don't overlook the most simple method...handwritten love letters.
A love letter is very special because you can bring it with you anywhere. You can read it over and over again. Being handwritten has a personal element too...it shows you care. If you can both agree to send each other a love letter once in a while that will also help as reassurance.How to survive in a long distance relationship? Good advices?
I think all you really need to do is remember how you feel about each other. Distance can be hard but if you begin to think he is just like your last boyfriend then you will wind up creating something that isn't. Just remember no matter what he is not your ex. Do not make him out to be him.
You could talk to each other and do web cam on messenger, so you could see each other. You could also send or text pictures of yourselves to each other to see each other. Call each other more. Count down the days till you get to see each other again. I hope some of this helps.
I was in the military for a while so I know about long distance relationships. Complicated and hard work are the few adjectives that come to mind! I think your general insecurity is what is bothering you. That is about you and not your relationship or boyfriend. Find out what the core of that is and work on that.
As far as the long distance thing goes their is a saying - distance makes the heart grow founder. I would say that is true at first in most long distance relationships, but then it usually turns into the saying ';out of sight, out of mind';.
Best luck- make sure you understand it is going to be a challenge that both of you have to be comfortable with overcoming.good makeup bridal makeup
You have a couple of issues here: you are afraid of being abandoned like in a past relationship, you have trust issues and you want to know logistics of keeping a long distance relationship alive.
First, you need to deal with your insecurities about abandonment and trust. To do that, you need to talk with him about it and feel reassured. As others have said, there are ways of keeping frequent communication through the computer (web cams work really well too as well as the yahoo instant messenger with voice)...but don't overlook the most simple method...handwritten love letters.
A love letter is very special because you can bring it with you anywhere. You can read it over and over again. Being handwritten has a personal element too...it shows you care. If you can both agree to send each other a love letter once in a while that will also help as reassurance.How to survive in a long distance relationship? Good advices?
I think all you really need to do is remember how you feel about each other. Distance can be hard but if you begin to think he is just like your last boyfriend then you will wind up creating something that isn't. Just remember no matter what he is not your ex. Do not make him out to be him.
You could talk to each other and do web cam on messenger, so you could see each other. You could also send or text pictures of yourselves to each other to see each other. Call each other more. Count down the days till you get to see each other again. I hope some of this helps.
I was in the military for a while so I know about long distance relationships. Complicated and hard work are the few adjectives that come to mind! I think your general insecurity is what is bothering you. That is about you and not your relationship or boyfriend. Find out what the core of that is and work on that.
As far as the long distance thing goes their is a saying - distance makes the heart grow founder. I would say that is true at first in most long distance relationships, but then it usually turns into the saying ';out of sight, out of mind';.
Best luck- make sure you understand it is going to be a challenge that both of you have to be comfortable with overcoming.
Falling in love with a girl that is in a long distance relationship. Desperately in need of advice.?
Here's the situation:
I've met this girl in my workplace and after some time we became close friends. One day, I learned that she had a boyfriend in another country and that she has been in a long distance relationship for 1 year and a half more or less. She talks to him through internet everyday and seems to really love the guy. However, since they live in different countries they hardly see each other personally. She travelled there only once and stayed for less than 2 weeks and came back.
Well, she is 21 and I am 24. I deeply care for her and I'm in love with her. I haven't told anything yet because I have to respect this relationship. But in the other hand, this is killing me inside. If I open up with her, this might ruin our friendship. If don't tell her, I'll be hurt. I cannot avoid her since we work together and we're forced to see each other. I really don't want to destroy our friendship. My question is: what can I do? Has anyone experienced something similar? Please help.Falling in love with a girl that is in a long distance relationship. Desperately in need of advice.?
Well, I've been in a couple of long distance relationships, both lasted a little over a year, but it didn't last. Long distance relationships are hard to keep. Honestly I can tell you now that you do have a great chance to steal her heart. Basically, even thou she loves this other guy a woman loves to be touched, held, wined and dined and so on. What I suggest you do is to just be there for her. What I mean by that is, don't be one of her girlfriends be a MAN friend. Don't give her all our time but give her attention when she needs it. Always know the stats of her long distance relationship. Let her feel so comfortable with you that she opens up to you about how she feels. Let her know that you care about her (don't tell her you love her YET), you can show her you love her without telling her. Trust me girls have a sixth sense, we know when a guy is feeling us. Eventually, if she likes you or love you she'll be all yours. But I also suggest that you continue dating other people, but be open with her also.Falling in love with a girl that is in a long distance relationship. Desperately in need of advice.?
Love is love...
All's fair in love and war...
It's up to you...
If you tell her how you feel, she may return her feelings, but continue with the long distance relationship.(which her long distance relationship may fail...sooner or later)
If you don't tell her how you feel, you die on the inside and live your life never knowing what she would have said.
Just tell her.
If you do, then yeah itll be awkward for a bit, but youll get it off your chest
go on a lunch date with a few other employes and see what she thanks
Make a move, she'll realize that if she continuously pulls back from REAL people, she'd be wasting her time with that other dude... just tell her how you feel over the phone.
I would just let her go, if she has been with him lomger she loves him.
well i can tell you to go for it i mean they cant even touch each other what harm could he do but I'm going to honest its were her heart is she could be with you but still thinking about him what happens if you fall in love and she decides to live and be with him just let it go their are other fish in the sea understand you need some one to give you 100percent nothing less because your worth it.
im sorry for you, unrequited love is the worst. dont say anything to her, be silent with your love, just be there for her, one day if you still truly love her, she will need you, and maybe she will see on her own that the long distance relationship is going no where. it has to be up to her, not you, yes you love her, dont let your love for her hurt her too. right now its only you that hurts, if you speak up, its two or three people that hurt. you dont want that on your conscience. besides, you might just want to try to get over her, its easier if she doesnt know. good luck. i hope it all works out.
Long disrance relationsips are had to have believe me I have had one a long time ago and now I am back with that person. But if you like her a lot I think that you should tell her but in a settle way. Do you flirt a lot with each other? Cause if you do you could make a joke about it. Just tell her the truth and be honest with her cause girls love that.
I've met this girl in my workplace and after some time we became close friends. One day, I learned that she had a boyfriend in another country and that she has been in a long distance relationship for 1 year and a half more or less. She talks to him through internet everyday and seems to really love the guy. However, since they live in different countries they hardly see each other personally. She travelled there only once and stayed for less than 2 weeks and came back.
Well, she is 21 and I am 24. I deeply care for her and I'm in love with her. I haven't told anything yet because I have to respect this relationship. But in the other hand, this is killing me inside. If I open up with her, this might ruin our friendship. If don't tell her, I'll be hurt. I cannot avoid her since we work together and we're forced to see each other. I really don't want to destroy our friendship. My question is: what can I do? Has anyone experienced something similar? Please help.Falling in love with a girl that is in a long distance relationship. Desperately in need of advice.?
Well, I've been in a couple of long distance relationships, both lasted a little over a year, but it didn't last. Long distance relationships are hard to keep. Honestly I can tell you now that you do have a great chance to steal her heart. Basically, even thou she loves this other guy a woman loves to be touched, held, wined and dined and so on. What I suggest you do is to just be there for her. What I mean by that is, don't be one of her girlfriends be a MAN friend. Don't give her all our time but give her attention when she needs it. Always know the stats of her long distance relationship. Let her feel so comfortable with you that she opens up to you about how she feels. Let her know that you care about her (don't tell her you love her YET), you can show her you love her without telling her. Trust me girls have a sixth sense, we know when a guy is feeling us. Eventually, if she likes you or love you she'll be all yours. But I also suggest that you continue dating other people, but be open with her also.Falling in love with a girl that is in a long distance relationship. Desperately in need of advice.?
Love is love...
All's fair in love and war...
It's up to you...
If you tell her how you feel, she may return her feelings, but continue with the long distance relationship.(which her long distance relationship may fail...sooner or later)
If you don't tell her how you feel, you die on the inside and live your life never knowing what she would have said.
Just tell her.
If you do, then yeah itll be awkward for a bit, but youll get it off your chest
go on a lunch date with a few other employes and see what she thanks
Make a move, she'll realize that if she continuously pulls back from REAL people, she'd be wasting her time with that other dude... just tell her how you feel over the phone.
I would just let her go, if she has been with him lomger she loves him.
well i can tell you to go for it i mean they cant even touch each other what harm could he do but I'm going to honest its were her heart is she could be with you but still thinking about him what happens if you fall in love and she decides to live and be with him just let it go their are other fish in the sea understand you need some one to give you 100percent nothing less because your worth it.
im sorry for you, unrequited love is the worst. dont say anything to her, be silent with your love, just be there for her, one day if you still truly love her, she will need you, and maybe she will see on her own that the long distance relationship is going no where. it has to be up to her, not you, yes you love her, dont let your love for her hurt her too. right now its only you that hurts, if you speak up, its two or three people that hurt. you dont want that on your conscience. besides, you might just want to try to get over her, its easier if she doesnt know. good luck. i hope it all works out.
Long disrance relationsips are had to have believe me I have had one a long time ago and now I am back with that person. But if you like her a lot I think that you should tell her but in a settle way. Do you flirt a lot with each other? Cause if you do you could make a joke about it. Just tell her the truth and be honest with her cause girls love that.
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